BOYS SUCK, does he love me or love me not? |
 Jun 12 2005, 07:49 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,131  |
[SIZE=7] i know this guy, and we're not really together as in me being his girlfriend, but we are really close. We have did some things, if u get wut i'm saying, but i feel like he was just using me. He like told me he loved me and everything, but yesterday his ex gf called him and he made it obvious that he still has a thing for her. As if that werent enough to ruin my day, when i tried to talk to him he just kinda ignored me and started hanging out with this other girl. Then, to top it all off, he went out partying, without me. I didnt even get the memo that everyone was going out that night.
So wat do u guys think? Is he using me? Should i totally call it, wutever it is, quits? BE TOTALLY HONEST |
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Jun 16 2005, 10:46 AM
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 hello Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 152,878 |
Ok being honest...I think he's using you in doing "things" with you. I don't think he likes you like that. But if you talk a lot and do things together, then I think he still cares about you as a good friend. =/
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Jun 16 2005, 10:49 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
guys like tht dont love u when they say they do. u guys aint even goin out. dont use the word "love" much...its stupid actually
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Jun 16 2005, 11:20 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jun 16 2005, 9:49 AM) guys like tht dont love u when they say they do. u guys aint even goin out. dont use the word "love" much...its stupid actually  Really. Guys have crazy hormones, especially at this age. He doesn't really love you. Love is trust and the ability to communicate comfortably with the other. It sounds like you don't know him enough to really know what he's like or what he's doing to you. It's always a good idea to have a serious 1 on 1 talk with him in a place where he can't get distracted. If you really want to keep this relationship, the most I think you can get is close friends. He doesn't seem like the type to get into a real commitment. |
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Jun 16 2005, 11:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,708 |
well, i reckon he might actually like you, but he hasnt gotten over this other girl.
dont let your guard down around him incase he is using u i'd say u shud ask him about it if ur really upset or anythin...its the best way i think. btw : how old are you two? |
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Jun 19 2005, 08:56 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Okay i'll be honest.
He loved you -- during that split second when he told you. And that "love" wasn't love, because it didn't last. It was infatuation and obsession.. only "like". 
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Jun 19 2005, 11:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
It sounds like he's just using you.
HOWEVER - We don't know this boy. We can't watch him to see if he loves you. We weren't there when he told you he loves you. The only people that can decide that are you and him. Ask him. |
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Jun 19 2005, 07:33 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
usually guys just tell you things to make you smile. bastards..
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