depression..., dont know what to do... |
 Jun 6 2005, 05:11 AM
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my g/f is always depressed... just about everyother day or so she will always be in a depressed mood. not only that but her stomach will hurt too and it will make her tired.. she has been to the doctor about her stomach problem but they havnt been able to do anything.. and she gets upset at me when i dont know what to do about her derpression... it would be one thing if she wasnt always depressed, but she is and i get a little tired of her getting mad at me about it all the time...
what should i do or say to her? |
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Jun 6 2005, 06:46 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Your gf is just a bit.. dependent on you, i guess.
 Are you sure there's nothing bothering her besides her stomach problem??Next time when she gets moody, either distract her with something positive or wait for her to cool down. It's never a good idea to upset a girl any further when she's in depression.. 
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Jun 6 2005, 08:09 AM
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Surprise her. Take her out on a shopping trip, watch a movie...just something fun! Fun will distract her. And you'll get some brownie points for that I guess. ;-)
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Jun 6 2005, 06:15 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
^yes! take her on a walk or something... something fun to her.
by the way, K!$$, i love your signature. |
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Jun 6 2005, 06:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
it sounds like PMS to me. If it is; then just let he take her time. The only thing i can think of is jsut be by her when shes all down and such
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Jun 7 2005, 09:20 AM
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naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Agree. Might be bad PMS..
[ Btw thanks akinachan  haha ]
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Jun 7 2005, 10:38 AM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
maybe tell her its not her fault.. whatever is bothering her. like its not her fault her stomach bothers her blah blah blah. and then try and cheer her up.
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Jun 7 2005, 11:53 AM
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 wings turned to ashes Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 146,950 |
try asking her why she's depressed. If she doesn't want to answer, don't push it, but you know, asking doesn't help.
Maybe wait for a non-depressed day, though. >.> |
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Jun 7 2005, 12:13 PM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
be there for her when shes depressed.
lots of comforting<works for me i guess. be patient with her and try your best to cheer her up =) |
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Jun 7 2005, 01:30 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
sounds like a bad case of PMS...but just spend time with her and be forgiving..whatever she is going through will probably be over soon.
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Jun 7 2005, 01:33 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
i agree with the people who say it might just be bad PMS. pms is a weird thing for guys, poor y'all, but stay cool around her. girls on pms are just a ticking bomb, and one wrong thing can set her off.
i also agree with the take her out, show her she's special...good ideas... |
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Jun 7 2005, 02:06 PM
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 unique Group: Member Posts: 520 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 140,137 |
heyy, just because girls are bitchy and moody doesn't mean its pms. my pms barely changes my mood. she sounds kind of like me, always depresed. my babe just comforts me and talks to me. i have had alot of bs happen in my life and its never ending. i think it has to do with her life. just comfort her, let her know she's special and you care.
oh, and its also been known when you're unhappy your body reacts to it. headaches, stomach problems, etc. my cousin has that problem and so does my babe. |
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Jun 7 2005, 02:47 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(BBY_UNiQUE @ Jun 7 2005, 9:06 AM) heyy, just because girls are bitchy and moody doesn't mean its pms. my pms barely changes my mood. she sounds kind of like me, always depresed. my babe just comforts me and talks to me. i have had alot of bs happen in my life and its never ending. i think it has to do with her life. just comfort her, let her know she's special and you care. oh, and its also been known when you're unhappy your body reacts to it. headaches, stomach problems, etc. my cousin has that problem and so does my babe.  I totally agree with you... Just be there for her...Let her know that if she wants to talk about whats going on, you will listen to her..But don't push her..If she wants to say what is wrong, she will... |
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Jun 9 2005, 05:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If this happens again the next time, then just ask her what's wrong....and just use consoling words. Or...do something for her...make her feel special for being your girlfriend. But give her time....like the others said, it could be a bad period....meh, just be there and try not to start arguments or anything like that. Just be there for her and make sure she knows that she's not alone.
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Jun 9 2005, 05:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,214 |
Tell her how you feel about her being depressed so much and her stomach hurtin` shoooot. ask her what's happenin` make her happy. do somethin` nice. always be by her side.
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