she can`t be lying.., she`s my friend.. Options

[ThePrincessofTKD]

i`ll give them names..

i`ve know casey since almost a year now...she transfered to my school in the 7th grade and we became good friends since filipinos click like that..hehe..

she would tell me stories and i would be amazed to know that it really happened to her..i believed them all because she seemed like a very good friend..

i kinda got jealous of her once because she had a boyfriend...they went out along with her family to the movies and her boyfriend almost kissed her...but their relationship only lasted a week..

then after a year...my friend, tina HATES casey a whole lot...my other friend, betsy, casually talks with casey but dislikes her "fakeness"..my other friend, janet, WANTS TO KILL casey for some odd reason...but it`s all scaring me..

i just say "hi" to casey once in a while..in the hallways...we would casually talk too...recently..she asked me what i wanted for my birthday and she called me one of her best friends.. ..

finally i asked why my friends(tina, betsy, and janet) hated casey so much..

they told me that she lies too much just to show off to make it look like she`s better...that she`s fake..

i couldn`t believe it..then i asked janet (who used to hang out with casey alot) about all the things casey told me..

janet said that casey had been lying...that all of it were lies..

i was so gullible..

and my friends said that her lying was so fake..

i was the only one gullible enough to be fooled..

casey asked everyone what did she do that made us hate her...

tina was angry that she would even say that...cause casey should`ve known what she did wrong..

tina is always right about things..i don`t think she`s human...but i always trust what she says..

and i found out that the boyfriend casey had...didn`t even like her...

casey liked so many guys(twenty to be exact since 7th grade)...and honestly...none of them were cute...they were all ugly...and none of them liked her back...

i honestly don`t know if casey is telling me the truth anymore..

here`s a snip of what happened between casey and janet...this happened recently..

i would copy and paste but it`s too much..

jill is casey`s sister..i think..?

and you could figure out the difference between the c and the j...the initials match..

i really don`t wanna get into the fighting...i mean...casey`s giving me the impression to be on her side...or thinks i`m on her side...

and tina says "on wednesday...you`ll see what will become of her.."

...i still believe in casey somehow...i don`t know...i`m hoping she`ll change her ways someday..

what should be done..?

what would become of casey..?

[whomps]

they should both be cursed for putting you in this position..

hrm.. you need a peace-maker in that chatterbox.

[xjjajeengx]

well this kinda thing happened to me before. i ahte when these things happen cause the person in the middle is always stressed out! pooor you

well you should just stop being in the middle and tell them straight out that ur stuck inthe middle, you like casey as a frend, but you dont appreciate her lieing. you should tell them that its wrong to put someone in the middle and make someone who wants to be neutral have to choose sides like that.
also, just tell them to solve it out on their own. dont make it your problem too, you noe? it really sucks when frends fight..

best of luck tho! it'll be aiite.

[rOckThISshYt]

well, i think that if your gut instincts tell you that casey is being honest, then you should go with that. but follow your heart.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

one time she told me that her parents are abusive to her and spoil her younger sister..

but those friends (betsy, tina, & janet) met her parents and they were extremely nice..

and another story casey told me was that she had won a poem contest and the prize was $5,000...her dad took it away from her and beat her..

she said she had bruises but she never showed me...

another time she said her ankle was strained but she was slowly recovering...so tina told someone to trip casey...they tripped casey and she was walking just fine...she didn`t complain about her ankle..

and today at school, she didn`t show up..

`cause tina threatened to do something to her today...but casey didn`t show up...tina said casey was scared...

tina doesn`t like the fact i "associate" with casey...*sigh*

all imma do is just say "hi" to casey and if she happens to start a conversation...i`ll just go along with it..she never crossed the issue with everyone hating her..i mean...EVERYONE hates her..

and the people that talk to casey just ignore the fact she`s lying..

[angel-roh]

ackk....thats one messy problem u got there!! yeah that looks so hard... u kno wat u shuld do? i kno it's hard to believe whos right and wrong, but remember... yu told us that u are jealous of casey, right? that might be the thing.... everyone might be jealous of her and saying bad stuff about her...that she lies.... heh so whoever u believe...and watever ur heart tells u to choose...go with that... and in the end.... jus see.... jus see that ur friend is tellin' da truth.... heh.... but u kno u gotta be careful... try to listen careful how they say it.. hmm i dont kno if u went through like this many problems...but i have did...and it was hard...and i have realized whos wrong or not...try to make one of ur friends guilty!^^;; hehe... like test them...thats wat i do sometimes...lols

[conster]

i think u can go along with others and ignore the fact that shes lying, but dont be gullible to fall for it again, tell ur other friends that ur not gonna take sides and stay neutral

[pbear]

I'd be careful around her. You don't know if she'll lie to you again. [pathological] liars never truly change their ways. Stick with those friends that you know you can trust.

[mai_z]

remind me again why she can't be lying?? she sounds like a really insecure person who makes up stories so she can 'fit in' and be cool.

[thedilenquent]

some people lie because they want to fit in. i know someone with a friend that has some outrageous stories and that prson believes them... and i sit back thinking to myselg " IS EVERYONE BLIND OR AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT SEE'S THIS?" if i were you i wouldnt feel bad for being gulible. but next time pay closer attention just incase stories get a little far fetched. she might conside you a close fried because through all of the lies and what not from what i understand you were the only one who befriended her and thats important

[ThePrincessofTKD]

(Idyll Posted: Apr 15 2004, 7:48 PM)

I'd be careful around her. You don't know if she'll lie to you again. [pathological] liars never truly change their ways. Stick with those friends that you know you can trust.

i wish i had thought of that before...haha...it would`ve saved me from many things..

and i remembered that she lied to me about saying the guy i used to like before liked me back...she gave me the wrong impression...and i was fooled...she made me look stupid..

(thedilenquent Posted on Apr 15 2004, 7:54 PM)

she might conside you a close fried because through all of the lies and what not from what i understand you were the only one who befriended her and thats important

hmmm..never realized that `till you told me...i feel sorry for my friend now...

**updates**

she gave me this mickey mouse crystal thingy that`s minature and it looked used...haha..

it was nice of her...but i`m not sure of her intentions..hmm..

and she didn`t sit with us at lunch...my mommy brought us all some pizza for lunch and she still didn`t sit with us..

i remember last time she totally talked to my mom..and they got along really quick..

and i heard from someone that where casey sat was with people that didn`t even know her..

and she wrote a note to my 7th grade friend (we`re in 8th grade)...it`s obvious she likes another guy now..

she just can`t stop stalking guys...she needs to think that enough is enough..

[ShinHwaFreaK08]

[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1][COLOR=blue]hmm. ur making this tina person sound really BAD, AND MEAN. yeahh. me, CHRISTINE. use my real name, it doesn`t matter if she knows, she NEEDS to know. we aren`t trying to change her, we just don`t like the person that she is right now. she lies constantly, u people just don`t understand. if only u really knew her, then you`d know. but some people are just blinded by her. she can`t be lying? she`s ur friend? if she were really ur friend, she wouldn`t have ANY reason to lie to u, right? we`re not putting u in the middle of things, but i`m just laying out the facts. it`s ur choice whether or not u still want to be her friend or not. i`m not making u choose sides. it`s just i don`t like the fact that u talk to her still, even knowing what she`s done, AND, plus, ur always saying she`s a bitch, let`s kick her ass and shit. do YOU think that`s right? honestly. u either like someone or u don`t. make up ur mind now, and don`t change it, cause people like her will bring u down. she`s lying to u for a reason, and that isn`t making things better for u, is it? u just have to realize these things sometime mariel. don`t be so blind. if u want to be her friend, ok, i understand, but don`t talk bad about her when she`s not around if she`s REALLY ur friend, cause then ur just a bad friend, and we don`t need any more of those in this world. it`s already screwed up enough as it is. all i`m saying. so really, it all depends on u. if u wanna be her friend, then do it. if u don`t, then ok. don`t have to make it such a big deal. think about it.

plus. jessica said that carmella wasn`t ALWAYS like this, that she changed once she first got into GT classes. acting like she`s all baller or something now. c`mon. and u know what? i know she has a f**king problem with me, but she won`t say anything about it cause she IS scared. if she has a problem with me, then say something. i say what i think, even if it`s not what u wanna hear. y`all should know. i say what`s on my mind. also, u know, another reason i have a feeling she don`t like me is cause i`m chinese ... meaning, i`m NOT philipino. u notice, she`s always nice to all the flips, but the people that hate her are the white, black, mexican/hispanic, chinese, indian, mixed, all that other shit, EXCEPT for the flip people. don`t u think that`s a little strange. she`s always talking in tagalog which f**king pisses the shit outta me cause just say what u wanna say. shit. she talks bout me anyways, i know that for a fact. talks about me in front of her face, but u know what? f**k it. i don`t give a shit anymore, she can go screw her cousin that she likes so much. we all have our reasons. i have too many. besides, i knew she was fake a few weeks after i knew her. but i don`t feel like starting anything. so, i didn`t. things happen, and we can`t change that. stuff changes, for better or for worse. we`ll just see what happens from now i guess. i don`t wanna think about it. the more i think about it, the more i think about all the people who believe everything she says. and some KNOW she`s lying to them, but believes them anyways just cause they call themselves "friends. yeah, sure, i lie. i talk shit about my friends, but i don`t mean most of the things i say. i say it cause it has to be said. i want it to get through their heads. i lie, but i joke around. i don`t like about my mother having cancer, or my dad abusing me and shit. now, THAT, deserves a slap. but i won`t be the one to do it ... not now anyways. aite, well, i said what i needed to.

great birthday present this is, huh? i`ll get u ur gift this weekend, sorry, haven`t had much time. well, hope u had a good birthday, and may all ur wishes come true. i`m out, peace.

--- Christine

[Britt9922]

O my freakin gosh ! This is bull. Betsy duznt even hate carmella as much as u do. You want to belive her huh...is dat why you would curse her out like everyday in 7th grade. The only one who befriended her rite... it's not like we all didnt try. I mean you just dont wake up one day and decide you want ur friend to lie to you. Were not puttin you in the middle of anything cuz unfortunetly were all in in it together although some of us are more willing to try and fix this while others just arent as forgiving. So no one should feel sorry for Princess. No one is FORCING you to be her friend. If you have a problem confront her about it, and I know ur thinking why don't I do it. Well cuz I dont have a problem with her, I dislike her lying to me but I can't make her change so I'll jus deal with it. Curse us for putting Princess in da middle...more bull. I'm in da freakin middle. I have have to deal with sumone wanting to kill her, one person who threatens her, and Princess who is just confused cuz last weekend in a chatroom she was like dont u just hate ... Casey,and I'll say it loud geeze I DON'T FREAKIN HATE HER.

[ThePrincessofTKD]

i guess we`re using real names now..

ShinHwaFreaK08 = tina = christine

Britt9922 = betsy = brittany

casey = carmella

janet = jessica

hmmm...

(ShinHwaFreaK08 Posted on Apr 15 2004, 10:37 PM)

hmm. ur making this tina person sound really BAD, AND MEAN. yeahh. me, CHRISTINE. use my real name, it doesn`t matter if she knows, she NEEDS to know. we aren`t trying to change her, we just don`t like the person that she is right now. she lies constantly, u people just don`t understand. if only u really knew her, then you`d know. but some people are just blinded by her. she can`t be lying? she`s ur friend? if she were really ur friend, she wouldn`t have ANY reason to lie to u, right? we`re not putting u in the middle of things, but i`m just laying out the facts. it`s ur choice whether or not u still want to be her friend or not. i`m not making u choose sides. it`s just i don`t like the fact that u talk to her still, even knowing what she`s done, AND, plus, ur always saying she`s a bitch, let`s kick her ass and shit. do YOU think that`s right? honestly. u either like someone or u don`t. make up ur mind now, and don`t change it, cause people like her will bring u down. she`s lying to u for a reason, and that isn`t making things better for u, is it? u just have to realize these things sometime mariel. don`t be so blind. if u want to be her friend, ok, i understand, but don`t talk bad about her when she`s not around if she`s REALLY ur friend, cause then ur just a bad friend, and we don`t need any more of those in this world. it`s already screwed up enough as it is. all i`m saying. so really, it all depends on u. if u wanna be her friend, then do it. if u don`t, then ok. don`t have to make it such a big deal. think about it.

plus. jessica said that carmella wasn`t ALWAYS like this, that she changed once she first got into GT classes. acting like she`s all baller or something now. c`mon. and u know what? i know she has a f**king problem with me, but she won`t say anything about it cause she IS scared. if she has a problem with me, then say something. i say what i think, even if it`s not what u wanna hear. y`all should know. i say what`s on my mind. also, u know, another reason i have a feeling she don`t like me is cause i`m chinese ... meaning, i`m NOT philipino. u notice, she`s always nice to all the flips, but the people that hate her are the white, black, mexican/hispanic, chinese, indian, mixed, all that other shit, EXCEPT for the flip people. don`t u think that`s a little strange. she`s always talking in tagalog which f**king pisses the shit outta me cause just say what u wanna say. shit. she talks bout me anyways, i know that for a fact. talks about me in front of her face, but u know what? f**k it. i don`t give a shit anymore, she can go screw her cousin that she likes so much. we all have our reasons. i have too many. besides, i knew she was fake a few weeks after i knew her. but i don`t feel like starting anything. so, i didn`t. things happen, and we can`t change that. stuff changes, for better or for worse. we`ll just see what happens from now i guess. i don`t wanna think about it. the more i think about it, the more i think about all the people who believe everything she says. and some KNOW she`s lying to them, but believes them anyways just cause they call themselves "friends. yeah, sure, i lie. i talk shit about my friends, but i don`t mean most of the things i say. i say it cause it has to be said. i want it to get through their heads. i lie, but i joke around. i don`t like about my mother having cancer, or my dad abusing me and shit. now, THAT, deserves a slap. but i won`t be the one to do it ... not now anyways. aite, well, i said what i needed to.

great birthday present this is, huh? i`ll get u ur gift this weekend, sorry, haven`t had much time. well, hope u had a good birthday, and may all ur wishes come true. i`m out, peace.

--- Christine

carmella is that horrible, isn`t she, christine?

i didn`t really understand the deal with carmella but now i kinda do..

(Britt9922 Posted on Apr 15 2004, 10:40 PM)

O my freakin gosh ! This is bull. Betsy duznt even hate carmella as much as u do. You want to belive her huh...is dat why you would curse her out like everyday in 7th grade. The only one who befriended her rite... it's not like we all didnt try. I mean you just dont wake up one day and decide you want ur friend to lie to you. Were not puttin you in the middle of anything cuz unfortunetly were all in in it together although some of us are more willing to try and fix this while others just arent as forgiving. So no one should feel sorry for Princess. No one is FORCING you to be her friend. If you have a problem confront her about it, and I know ur thinking why don't I do it. Well cuz I dont have a problem with her, I dislike her lying to me but I can't make her change so I'll jus deal with it. Curse us for putting Princess in da middle...more bull. I'm in da freakin middle. I have have to deal with sumone wanting to kill her, one person who threatens her, and Princess who is just confused cuz last weekend in a chatroom she was like dont u just hate ... Casey,and I'll say it loud geeze I DON'T FREAKIN HATE HER.

haha..sorry brittany...but i`m glad you expressed your opinion...

[Chaos13]

i dunno even noe wat u guys r talkin about.....

[jenjan579]

just calm down and think about whose right in ur opinion...it's ur relationship...don't just let others tell you what to do even if they are ur friends... be reasonable... i kinda had a friend like that before, but then she moved.... that ended my problem...

[annchovie]

yeah...a lot of the things that "casey" says are kind of hard to believe...