respecting elders, you must, do you? |
respecting elders, you must, do you? |
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![]() Donna-chan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 ![]() |
do you respect your elders, let's say people above 50 years old? or do you just torture and ignore them alot
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![]() Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 ![]() |
respect your elders... defenitely. i hate how foreigners (non-japanese) people don't really do anything even though they see people older than them in school and stuff. it's so unbelievably unpolite! i don't know... maybe i think this way because i'm japanese?
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![]() whaaaaaaat? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 ![]() |
most of them, yeah. but i follow my own rules. respect me, i'll respect you. don't respect me, i'll put laxatives into your food.
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*Weird addiction* |
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What do you mean by respect? Of course i respect my elders but sometimes if they don't respect me then f**k them...
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 ![]() |
i respect my elders. only if they respect me.
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*Statistik* |
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Yeah i do respect them..as sandra said if they dont respect me back ill be wanted to f**k them up
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![]() weird Sarah. yes,me... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 ![]() |
i respect all people who respect me. if the elderly treat good to me, i'll respect them a lot.^^
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#8
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![]() ticktock. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 ![]() |
i respect them. even if i dont know them. but if they dont respect me back; i'll just ignore them.
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#9
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![]() The windmills of your mind .. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 ![]() |
I respect elders but they got to respect me or i dont give a f**k.
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#10
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![]() boo ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 ![]() |
Yeah, I respect them. Shouldn't I? If I see some people who don't, I just go blahh
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![]() Day's Nearly Over ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 ![]() |
I think respect shouldn't just stop at elders. I think you should respect everyone even if they don't give the same to you. It's never going to work out so well if both are thining negatively about each other. Give it some room to change. And plus, I don't care how much you hate the person, still ... you should respect them. I
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#12
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yerp! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 ![]() |
I respect everyone. I'm just really polite.
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#13
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 ![]() |
Amen to that, Kim!
I respect everyone, including elders, until they give me a reason not to. |
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#14
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![]() Change Gon Come ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 ![]() |
I respect my elders even if they're mean to me.
Its just kinda built into my mentality. Blah, Asian Culture.. |
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![]() hi ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,478 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,897 ![]() |
I volunteer at a retirement center so yeah of course i do or else they would have kicked me out, but it's not only because of that, i respect elders anyways because they have so much more knowledge and insight than I do.
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#16
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![]() jiyOunnn~ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 ![]() |
i do both, i can't help it. but i must respect them. it's probably cause of my asian culture like DaToNeViEtBoI916
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I must respect elders. It's my "habit." Well, it depends, if either they are bad/good.
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#18
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![]() *aSh* =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 ![]() |
i do respect all my elders
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
Of course , elders are needy and special ::lub::
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#20
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![]() The Bone Collector ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 ![]() |
I respect elders. But there was this one lady around late 40's, when i was at a fitting room waiting for my friend, we were messing around, then she told me "your not suppose to be here. alkdj blah blah". Stupid beyotch. But i do not think i was suppose to be in there. Lol.
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![]() that heaven is overrated ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 ![]() |
Uhhh yeah, I respect my elders. Even if they piss me off, I can't do anything bad to them. :\
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#22
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sometimes...but they usually are pretty annoying
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#23
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![]() I'll never be who I was again.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 ![]() |
I respect them only if they respect me..If they don't respect me, then I don't respect them..
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*mzkandi* |
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#24
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I try my best to be respectful to all people, especially elders even if they are not the same towards me.
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![]() Another ditch in the road... you keep moving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 ![]() |
^ exactly what i wa sgonna say
if they get all 'young people are trouble' on my ass, then they dont deserve my respect. so they've lived a whil.. that doesnt take an awful lot of talent |
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#26
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this goes for anybody not just my elders. i always respect people, and if they don't respect me i still "try" to respect them and they feel bad. but yea if they really get on my nerves i try my best to ignore them and just walk away.
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#27
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![]() Disgrace to the asian race ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,080 ![]() |
I respect them, even if they don't respect me back. My parents tell me all the effing time to respect my elders, so if I don't, they go crazy on me.
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#28
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![]() moinky moo ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,499 ![]() |
i was taught to be respectful not only to my elders but everyone around me.
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#29
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![]() Hi! I'm Dani :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 ![]() |
Well I respect almost all elders. Only one I don't respect is my grandma because she's a b!tch
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![]() What a hypocrite. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 ![]() |
I wouldn't torture them, but I do respect them, even though some elders get on my nerves sometimes.
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#31
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![]() none of it seems real ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 ![]() |
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#32
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 ![]() |
I respect elders. Can't resist not to though.
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#33
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 ![]() |
who has the heart to like ignore an elder when they need help.
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#34
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I try to, but if they aren't respectful towards me then no.
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*stephinika* |
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it depends if they deserve my respect...i don't think age necessarily deserves that. if they are good people, then yes of course, but if not then i don't think their age should automatically just earn that.
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#36
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![]() me likes! ^^ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,729 ![]() |
QUOTE(stephinika @ Jun 5 2005, 6:01 PM) it depends if they deserve my respect...i don't think age necessarily deserves that. if they are good people, then yes of course, but if not then i don't think their age should automatically just earn that. I agree! ![]() People shoudn't get respect because of their age! It goes both ways... I mean, if someone shows me respect, I show them respect in return... age shouldn't be an issue |
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#37
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![]() I have no life ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 ![]() |
yea, come on, Their wisdom kicks butt
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#38
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![]() Donna-chan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 ![]() |
^ haha of course they do!
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#39
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respect elders. chhya.
-nanay/tatay (parents), -tita/tito (aunt/uncle), -lolo/lola(g-pa/g-ma), -kuya/ateh (elder cousins/sister/brother), -ninang/ninong (god-mother/god-father). thats filipino respect for elders. asian culture.. gotta love it. =P |
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*jooleeah* |
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Of course. But I try to respect everyone.
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#41
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 ![]() |
i respect ANY person older than me .. -- unless they don't respect me ..
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 ![]() |
treat others as you would like to be treated.
yeah, i'd treat elders if they are nice to me. some elders, my grandmother for an example, wont stop f**king calling me useless and a bitch. ![]() |
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#43
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![]() :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,234 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,496 ![]() |
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 ![]() |
If you give respect, you will get respect. Dont matter if your old, young, my mom, dont matter.
If you treat me like crap, u will get the same. |
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*iNyCxShoRT* |
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I respect elders, cause I'm always afraid of what my mom would do *shivers*
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#46
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oh all of the time
![]() ok most of the time ![]() ok some of the time, happy? |
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#47
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![]() Donna-chan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 ![]() |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Jun 5 2005, 8:45 PM) treat others as you would like to be treated. yeah, i'd treat elders if they are nice to me. some elders, my grandmother for an example, wont stop f**king calling me useless and a bitch. ![]() gosh, that's just plain mean. ya, filipinos mainly call their elders by a specific name, just like what i do to my elders |
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
i show them respect but not the evil ones. i hate them all! i hate the elders that are sooooooooooooooooooooooooo mean and just hit you and make fun of you about your life...but still i have to respect them.
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#49
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,084 ![]() |
i definitely do... and i love to help out their community too..
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#50
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,928 ![]() |
I try to treat people like I treat others. I try to love my neighbor. But respecting your elder is a must. I believe in given then receiving if you understand what I'm talking about. But I guess it depends for others. Here's an advice, "What goes around comes around." Later.
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#51
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 ![]() |
Yea, I respect a few of them. Others who think I'm stupid because I'm a teen...no respect for them.
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#52
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purple ponies (self deleted 12/30/06)
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![]() TOISU!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 ![]() |
Uh. I wouldn't say 'torture and ignore them.'
But I definitely respect my elders. I'm even sympathetic towards them. I mean. They seem so. Fragile or something. |
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![]() cB Assassin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 ![]() |
Yes I do, it's the Jedi way...
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![]() Shutup before I smack you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 ![]() |
im forced to respect them.. but only if theyre korean in my parents point of view.. but i respect any elder.. as i try to.
even if i dont know them.. i do this politely way of saying hi in korean to the korean elders.. they love it.. -.- |
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![]() Senior Itis ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 806 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,007 ![]() |
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![]() Hello my name is Yula, I'm a baller! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 329 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,918 ![]() |
Stop Posting, you must.
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![]() Donna-chan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 ![]() |
^ I know, what is that all about. I just wanted to post a topic that is to what Yoda would say
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For starters, I'm down with the Sith.
I'm a realist and I look at life from a realistic perspective. Wisdom does not come from age, wisdom comes from experience. If someone 10 years your senior has been around the block more than you have, it might be best to listen to what they have to say. Moving, age does not warrant respect. Just because you're 21 and someone else is 40, that doesn't mean you should respect them as a person. They could be shadier than slim and have a track record of using and decieving people. Or, they could be sop ignorant as to the ways of the world that their stupidity is just plain offensive. Whoa, thats a muthaf--kin' contradiction, Brandon! Yes, yes I know. The common ground would be to be a human being. Always take heed to an elder. If they're wrong, politely shrug it off. If they deliberately disrespect you, then politely set the record straight. Be polite in whatever you do and it ceases to be blatant disrespect. |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,789 ![]() |
I respect everyone, not only elders, as long as they respect me
and i just ignore those who don't. i was told to respect everyone no matter they do the same but i just follow my own rule. ![]() |
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 ![]() |
i always respect my elders. besides, if i don't, they will slap me! >.<;
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![]() Young Hollywood ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 229 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,156 ![]() |
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