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 Jun 2 2005, 08:49 PM
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 Captain Screw Up... aka, Mwah!  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,850  |
last night i accidentially called my mom gay (by accidentially i mean, it just slipped cause it's what i was thinking) so.. my stepdad decided to beat me. i went into the kitchen to get food... he grabbed me by my neck and pulled my to my room. on the way, i collided with a chair and the wall. i fell to the ground, crying because i couldn't breathe. he kicked me and told me to go to bed.
i had an anxiety attack, and couldn't stop crying. i cried for... hours it seemed like... what do i do? i can't call anyone, because.. this is a first... i don't know.. x33lace |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 2 2005, 08:52 PM
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You should tell your mom what he did. Because it's a good chance that your stepdad won't listen to you if you tell him to stop. And your stepdad might lie to your mom about getting beat up. So just show her the bruise that you have or just ask to stay with her for a while. Good luck with your problem.
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Jun 2 2005, 09:03 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
YEs i agree with her ^.. as soon as he does that then u should run to your mom and tell her EXACTLY what he has done to you....
i am so truely this is happening to you .. *cries* i really hope after this happens then everything will work between you guys....  Good luck.. with your problem |
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Jun 2 2005, 09:36 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
Definently tell your mother.
If you have any bruises, or proof he hit you, show her. If she doesn't believe you, call someone, perhaps a hotline, or an adult that you're close to. |
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Jun 2 2005, 09:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 112 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,655 |
do it as soon as possible, like the others have said! because the longer it takes for you to tell someone, the longer and harder it is for you to prove it.
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Jun 2 2005, 09:43 PM
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 music bitch Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,699 |
geez. that is ridiculous. needs to be reported to someone, is what i think.
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Jun 2 2005, 09:50 PM
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 Para ti... Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,983 |
tell ur mom...really
show her bruises or sumtin but definetly tell ur mom before it happens again |
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| *mzkandi* |
Jun 2 2005, 09:53 PM
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Wow that is bad, he had no excuse to do that to you. Tell your mom and if you feel you cant talk to her, tell an adult that you trust.
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Jun 2 2005, 10:12 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jun 2 2005, 8:52 PM) You should tell your mom what he did. Because it's a good chance that your stepdad won't listen to you if you tell him to stop. And your stepdad might lie to your mom about getting beat up. So just show her the bruise that you have or just ask to stay with her for a while. Good luck with your problem.  I agree. Please, you really should tell her.. it's for the best. Show her the evidence. She'll most likely believe you. Good luck, dear. 
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Jun 2 2005, 11:02 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
That is totally wrong , tell your mom it was a mistake.
Shes married so shes not really gay , whats his proble,? |
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Jun 3 2005, 02:19 AM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
Omg, that is abuse. Kicking or/and doing any of that is abuse. Tell your mother camly what your dad did, and tell her that you didn't mean to call her "gay".
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Jun 3 2005, 08:43 PM
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 just your everyday MUFFiN GiRL Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,919 |
Report this to the authorites IMMEDIATELY.
... okay, that sounded gay... ... But you should tell your mother immediately. If you take longer, it might turn out to be suspicious, and the bruises will fade. Pull you mother aside, but first, before you tell her about the incident, apologize to her (if you haven't already), and then tell her the story. xD I should be an adviser someday |
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Jun 3 2005, 09:48 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
omg this is so wrong. i agree with jane.. tell your mom about what happened and maybe she'll do something.. but thats just wrong. i have anxiety attacks too.. its so scary
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Jun 3 2005, 10:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,412 |
Tell your mother.
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Jun 3 2005, 10:29 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I agree w/ iNycxshort, tell your mother, and go contact the authorities.
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Jun 3 2005, 10:39 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jun 2 2005, 8:52 PM) You should tell your mom what he did. Because it's a good chance that your stepdad won't listen to you if you tell him to stop. And your stepdad might lie to your mom about getting beat up. So just show her the bruise that you have or just ask to stay with her for a while. Good luck with your problem. ^ thats probably what i would do if i were in your place..or call the cops because what if your mom doesnt belive you? first tell your mom and then call the cops. i think your mom will belive you but then your stepdad might lie about it and say that he didnt do that or something. when you go up to your mom, come up to your mom crying so that it will seem more belivable. if that doesnt work call the cops but be careful because what if your step dad catches you or something? if you have a phone in your room or a phone in a room with a door with a lock..good luck 
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Jun 4 2005, 12:08 AM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
I reccomend telling your mother. I kind of went through the same thing for about 2-3 years. Maybe more. Except I was being blackmailed so I kept my mouth well shut. Tell your mother.
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Jun 4 2005, 01:18 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Like everyone said before.Tell your mom. That;s just crazy. Show her what you have...there definetely has to be some evidence, right? If she doesn't believe you..tell a teacher [my friend accidently told hers, and she reported it and all]
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Jun 4 2005, 01:37 AM
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definately tell your mom. your life may be at stake here. my dad was also that unstable and evertime he would try to hit me i would tell my mom and he has gotten a lot better =).
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Jun 4 2005, 01:41 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Tell your mom. Easy.
Then again, if I were you, i would grow some balls and hit him back with a bat or somethin. ay its self defense |
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