HELP! I'm dying here!, girls.... |
 Apr 13 2004, 05:00 PM
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ok so there's this girl I like at school
and her friend thinks we should get together cuz we would be a "cute couple" so she talked to her and told me that she said "she would talk to me about it" it's been a while and she still hasn't said anything yet.. I don't know maybe she likes me cuz she smiles everytime I see her but maybe she wants me to ask her out but what do I say??? I don't want to sound stupid and awkward and stuff HELP! I'm dying here!  School year's almost over.... Please help! |
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Apr 13 2004, 05:04 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
 wut r u scared of? rejection?? juzz ask her out! try to be sweet bout it though tell her u like her n ask her out but donn mention bout other ppl thinkin u'd make a cute couple..it has to involve juzz 2 of u so u donn hafta worry bout wut other think n wut others think u should do... if u like her ask her out..
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Apr 13 2004, 05:07 PM
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 crawling in my skin, these wounds they will not heal Group: Member Posts: 198 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,516 |
QUOTE(mglbaby @ Apr 13 2004, 5:04 PM) wut r u scared of? rejection?? juzz ask her out! try to be sweet bout it though tell her u like her n ask her out but donn mention bout other ppl thinkin u'd make a cute couple..it has to involve juzz 2 of u so u donn hafta worry bout wut other think n wut others think u should do... if u like her ask her out..i second that opinion there |
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Apr 13 2004, 05:09 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
go for it!! take chances
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Apr 13 2004, 05:14 PM
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just say i like her and stuff?
should I say anything specific? like what exactly should I say? |
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Apr 13 2004, 05:43 PM
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Be casual. You act like youve never asked out a girl before
 just be like "hey, wanna get together some time" 
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Apr 13 2004, 05:48 PM
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Retired Member Group: Member Posts: 879 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,843 |
thank's for your good advice everyone
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Apr 13 2004, 07:24 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
0o0o if its notto late, my opinion:
say... "Hey, wanna go out with me later?" dont wait for her to move on you. be the "man" hahah  or you could wait... but chances are... she's waiting for you...
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Apr 13 2004, 07:28 PM
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Here's what you do:
You catch her alone after school. You ask her out the following weekend. If she likes you, she'll say yes. You just need guts really. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Apr 13 2004, 07:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
I think you should take your chance before its too late. If she likes you and you don't ask, she might be tired of waiting and she might start liking another guy so my advice to you is to just ask her.
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Apr 13 2004, 07:52 PM
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QUOTE(xtremeliquid @ Apr 13 2004, 7:37 PM) I think you should take your chance before its too late. If she likes you and you don't ask, she might be tired of waiting and she might start liking another guy so my advice to you is to just ask her. crap I hope that doesn't happen  yeah...I'm going to do it wish me luck please 
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Apr 13 2004, 07:58 PM
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*wishing you luck* remember to be very calm while you do it.....if you're too nervous then everything might go bleh.
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Apr 13 2004, 08:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
Make sure you don't sweat lol.
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Apr 13 2004, 08:23 PM
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*Wishes you some more luck* You'll be great! I'm sure she'll say yes.
Why wouldn't she?
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Apr 14 2004, 12:50 AM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
lol. you should ask her out yourself. maybe she had the intention of talking to you, but was too scared to do it. i think you should go for it!!!
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Apr 14 2004, 12:52 AM
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Just say that u wanna go out with her its not that hard i do all the time
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Apr 14 2004, 01:05 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 13 2004, 6:00 PM) School year's almost over.... Please help! well, what grade are you in? you have the whole summer to be with her if you're seeing her again next year |
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Apr 14 2004, 02:21 AM
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 x mar muffins *yuuuum Group: Member Posts: 874 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,620 |
aw good luck! she better say yes, you seem like a really nice guy. worse thing that can happen is for her to say no, but you never know, she'll most likely say yes, and then you guys will live happily ever after
 heheoh yeah, and about the school year being over, I know it pretty close to the end, but like waccoon said, there is always summer vacation.. |
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Apr 14 2004, 07:34 PM
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ask her out...the worst she can do is kill you (...or say no
 ) GD LUCK! |
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Apr 14 2004, 08:03 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
good luck
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Apr 14 2004, 11:37 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
awww guys cannot be shy...they are supposed to ask a girl out...dont be stupid... u think u will act like stupid? then dont go and ruin ur love life LOLS jp haha... umm.. well... it seems like ur not ready for a relationship... jus go to her...and tell her if shes ready to go out^^;; and ask her wats her feeling toward u...hehe....thats a good start to ask^^
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Apr 15 2004, 05:16 AM
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QUOTE(Mireh @ Apr 13 2004, 5:43 PM) Be casual. You act like youve never asked out a girl before um....  it's spring break right now so i'll ask when skool starts again which is only a few days away she's on a vacation trip right now.... |
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Apr 15 2004, 05:17 AM
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could i just say...
did you miss me? the answer will probably be no.. then, i'll say well, i missed you |
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Apr 15 2004, 08:32 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE v@por Posted on Apr 15 2004, 5:17 AM could i just say... did you miss me? the answer will probably be no.. then, i'll say well, i missed you aww thats so sweet yeah i say just tell her u like her and ask her how she feels about you
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Apr 15 2004, 08:44 PM
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 Sum guy waiting for a perfect gal Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,308 |
Ask her out to a fancy restaurant! lol! if you want...
well I gotta know your grade first before i could help you well good luck tho! |
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Apr 15 2004, 09:17 PM
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QUOTE(Gray_is_here @ Apr 15 2004, 8:44 PM) Ask her out to a fancy restaurant! lol! if you want... well I gotta know your grade first before i could help you well good luck tho! dude I'm in 8th grade I don't go to "fancy restaurants" lol!
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Apr 15 2004, 09:58 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
goodness...you`re on spring break and all the spring break you`ve been thinking about her..?
man..what a lucky girl.. haha..just wait patiently...`cause impatience could kill your chances of being with her.. don`t freak out and run out of words to say... act "natural"...and leave the girl breathless... lol with your cologne that is...haha.. she`ll be like "ohh...you smell gooooood.." haha..
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Apr 15 2004, 10:18 PM
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Sum guy waiting for a perfect gal Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,308 |
i say u should approach her and be the one to take her breathe away and take the chance...
take the chance! its hard to lose someone you care/like for so much when you have so lil time well hope this helps! |
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Apr 16 2004, 12:38 AM
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QUOTE(Gray_is_here @ Apr 15 2004, 10:18 PM) well hope this helps! thanks "every minute I'm not with you I hope I'll see you soon There's just something that happens when you walk into a room Cuz instantly I feel so complete and you give me this feeling it's like no other feeling and it knocks me off my feet. I don't think there are any others out there like you and I won't blink cuz that would mean I'd miss a second beside you Please don't ask me what I like about you cuz it's every little thing you do and that's just the way you make me feel... Dream away.....   her me-->me--->me A happy ending? 
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Apr 16 2004, 07:19 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 13 2004, 5:00 PM) ok so there's this girl I like at school and her friend thinks we should get together cuz we would be a "cute couple" so she talked to her and told me that she said "she would talk to me about it" it's been a while and she still hasn't said anything yet.. I don't know maybe she likes me cuz she smiles everytime I see her but maybe she wants me to ask her out but what do I say??? I don't want to sound stupid and awkward and stuff HELP! I'm dying here! School year's almost over.... Please help! ok...so she smiles at you? thats good... she told her friends she wanted to talk with you about it... as in she probably likes you bc if she didn't she would probably say something like "uhh...i odn't think so...." or something like thaat... she hasn't talked to you yet... as in shes to shy and she wants you to make the first move. try calling her first or somthing. and her firends think ud look cute togehter... as in if her friends think that, that will probably mean shes gonna say yes...friends influence everything. |
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Apr 16 2004, 07:20 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 16 2004, 12:38 AM) thanks "every minute I'm not with you I hope I'll see you soon There's just something that happens when you walk into a room Cuz instantly I feel so complete and you give me this feeling it's like no other feeling and it knocks me off my feet. I don't think there are any others out there like you and I won't blink cuz that would mean I'd miss a second beside you Please don't ask me what I like about you cuz it's every little thing you do and that's just the way you make me feel... Dream away..... her me-->me--->me A happy ending? oh thats so sweet!! how could any girl NOT like you!!!! you should show her the poem./.. |
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Apr 16 2004, 07:48 PM
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QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Apr 16 2004, 7:19 PM) ok...so she smiles at you? thats good... she told her friends she wanted to talk with you about it... as in she probably likes you bc if she didn't she would probably say something like "uhh...i odn't think so...." or something like thaat... she hasn't talked to you yet... as in shes to shy and she wants you to make the first move. try calling her first or somthing. and her firends think ud look cute togehter... as in if her friends think that, that will probably mean shes gonna say yes...friends influence everything. yes... friends influence everything... I think I'll slip it into her locker...? |
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Apr 16 2004, 09:57 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
yah do that, if she doesn't like that then she's crazy.
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Apr 16 2004, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Apr 16 2004, 9:57 PM) yah do that, if she doesn't like that then she's crazy. you really think the poem is good? thanks...   
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Apr 16 2004, 10:36 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 16 2004, 10:19 PM) you really think the poem is good? thanks... yah, it's really good. i think she'll like it.
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Apr 17 2004, 01:35 AM
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QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Apr 16 2004, 10:36 PM) yah, it's really good. i think she'll like it. ok do you think I should write it out or type it up? |
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Apr 17 2004, 08:12 AM
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i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
heh oOoh a poem? aww... but u kno some ppls dont understand poems and they jus dun care....so yeah....jus tellin' u~~ lols my friend says "it's a wasteful thing to make a poem for ur lover... i wuld jus buy them gifts or... watever they want" lols
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Apr 17 2004, 09:10 PM
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QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Apr 17 2004, 8:12 AM) heh oOoh a poem? aww... but u kno some ppls dont understand poems and they jus dun care....so yeah....jus tellin' u~~ lols my friend says "it's a wasteful thing to make a poem for ur lover... i wuld jus buy them gifts or... watever they want" lols are you sure? |
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Apr 17 2004, 09:21 PM
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dont be too shy around her... if you do ask her out... that can be a really big turn-off for some girls, cuz most girls want a guy that they can talk to.
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Apr 17 2004, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(mglbaby @ Apr 13 2004, 5:04 PM) wut r u scared of? rejection?? juzz ask her out! try to be sweet bout it though tell her u like her n ask her out but donn mention bout other ppl thinkin u'd make a cute couple..it has to involve juzz 2 of u so u donn hafta worry bout wut other think n wut others think u should do... if u like her ask her out..yea!! do it!! try it :] if she says no, then i guess she wasnt the one. who wouldnt like you? ;) |
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Apr 17 2004, 10:55 PM
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 -Moo?- Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,414 |
Don't be scared of her saying no. I bet she likes you more than you think.
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Apr 17 2004, 10:57 PM
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QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 15 2004, 5:17 AM) could i just say... did you miss me? the answer will probably be no.. then, i'll say well, i missed you Hmm...If I were you, I wouldn't say that. If she doesn't like you, it might scare her off... Try the causual way --> 
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Apr 19 2004, 07:45 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
what?!? poems are the best...i think you should write it down...like you just wrote it in homeroom thinking about her,,...
ahh *sighs* i'm the type of girl who like things to be romantic =] |
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Apr 20 2004, 03:16 AM
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i have the almost same problem as this guy, except i'm in 9th grade. and the girl that i like hardly talks to me now. in 8th grade we used to be the best of friends(i think?) but after the summer passed and entering high school we barely say hi to each other? but i still really really like her. what do i do?!?
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Apr 22 2004, 06:35 PM
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 Hater. Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,713 |
QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 16 2004, 12:38 AM) thanks "every minute I'm not with you I hope I'll see you soon There's just something that happens when you walk into a room Cuz instantly I feel so complete and you give me this feeling it's like no other feeling and it knocks me off my feet. I don't think there are any others out there like you and I won't blink cuz that would mean I'd miss a second beside you Please don't ask me what I like about you cuz it's every little thing you do and that's just the way you make me feel... Dream away..... her me-->me--->me A happy ending? Copy Paste Google Smile at her. and then talk girls love that! trust me.. |
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Apr 23 2004, 11:57 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,206 |
tell her you like her quick! :-) haha
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Apr 25 2004, 02:29 PM
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if your gonna give her the poem, write it and then she'll know you put your heart into it. GOOD LUCK! aww your a sweet guy i hope everything works out good
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Jun 20 2004, 04:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 214 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,404 |
ahh! what happened isnt spring break over yet?
i wanna know!
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Jun 20 2004, 06:31 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
QUOTE(lozerface87 @ Jun 20 2004, 4:12 PM) ahh! what happened isnt spring break over yet? i wanna know! same here! im dyin to kno |
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Jun 20 2004, 06:45 PM
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 CB's Resident Juggalette Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,673 |
Ack, damnit, man!
 You waited way too long. Listen, the worse the ninja could do is say no. It wouldn't kill you. I mean, at least it's a straight answer and you ren't left wondering and you could finally move on. I mean wow ... don't miss your chance, man. Live in the moment and take every single opportunity you get to do the first impulse that comes to your head. Don't think on it for too long. Sometimes the best thing to do is not to worry about the consequence and just go for it, because sometimes you'll get a better consequence than you ever could've imagined by thinking about it. MMFCL |
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Jun 21 2004, 08:07 AM
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 .Summa Mam`ii, Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,460 |
Go for it! Be confident. If you do get rejected, ask her if u guys can stay rele close friends.
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Jun 21 2004, 08:15 AM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Just dont ask her out infront of a group of people.
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Jun 21 2004, 11:36 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
maybe she's just shy. if you really want her you should just go up to her and tell her how you feel yourself.
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Jun 21 2004, 05:38 PM
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go for it,school's almost over man,ask her out
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Jun 24 2004, 09:46 PM
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 ...Hm? Group: Member Posts: 250 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 910 |
try walking up to her calmly, and then smile. When you reach her, say something like "Hey. Uh, I was wondering...maybe you`d like to hang out/go out sometime?" Just stay calm and keep yourself from getting jumpy.
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Jun 25 2004, 03:46 PM
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 short one Group: Member Posts: 469 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,284 |
lol the fancy retaraunt was a good idea chiks dig money
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