Can you rly trust your friends in high skool?, friendships mean what in high skool? |
 Jun 2 2005, 08:27 PM
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 hmm??  Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424  |
ok.... so I believed that friends are forever.... but once I entered high skool.... itz like everything changed..... my friends turned into sluts, bitches, nd hoes.....
 once I tell them something, they'd go tell other ppl.... and then all the dramas start..... so can you really trust your friends when you're in high skool?? =/
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Jun 2 2005, 08:36 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
i can trust a few select friends... for the most part, my friends are loyal to me. some people in our "group" think that one of my closer friends isnt trustworthy, but thats just because they dont know her.
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Jun 2 2005, 08:38 PM
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 No Day But Today. Group: Member Posts: 1,405 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,184 |
I can trust most of my friends. I don't think being in high school changed any of my friendships with people.
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Jun 2 2005, 08:39 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
I have a couple of friends that I know I can truly trust..
But then there are the other 'friends'.. |
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Jun 2 2005, 09:03 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I definately know I can trust two of my bestfriends. A couple of them have big mouths so I don't tell them anything, but the other two, I tell them everything.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Jun 2 2005, 09:04 PM
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Yes you can trust them, they can help you out. But you cannot always depend on them. They will be there to help you, but sometimes you have to do it on your own.
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Jun 2 2005, 09:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 140,861 |
I think it depends on the friend...There are people I love to hang w/ but I can not exactly trust.
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Jun 2 2005, 09:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 785 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,525 |
yes i know for sure i can trust some of my friends, because they r more than just friends to me they are like sisters. but then there are the others who i hang out with and were friends and we have fun, but i dont know if i can trust them like the others.
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Jun 3 2005, 12:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
With certain things, yes. I tend to hold a lot in though. There's only one friend at my school that I feel comfortable saying anything to. People just can't keep their damn mouths shut
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| *mzkandi* |
Jun 3 2005, 12:50 AM
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Its a blessing in diguise believe me because this when you find out who your true friends are.
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Jun 3 2005, 12:51 AM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 3 2005, 12:50 AM) Its a blessing in diguise believe me because this when you find out who your true friends are.  Exactly |
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Jun 3 2005, 01:20 AM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 3 2005, 12:50 AM)
Its a blessing in diguise believe me because this when you find out who your true friends are. yeah.... itz just rly sad though...... i mean i've alwayz thought that they're my friends; then something happened and i found out who my true friends are.... and there arent many of them who are my true friends.... iz it bc ppl change or i dont rly know them?? =/ |
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Jun 3 2005, 01:26 AM
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Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
QUOTE(xMiZziexKiMx @ Jun 3 2005, 1:20 AM) QUOTE(mzkandi @ Jun 3 2005, 12:50 AM) Its a blessing in diguise believe me because this when you find out who your true friends are. yeah.... itz just rly sad though...... i mean i've alwayz thought that they're my friends; then something happened and i found out who my true friends are.... and there arent many of them who are my true friends.... iz it bc ppl change or i dont rly know them?? =/ People change, their true selves start comming out. Its a shame to see that some of the ones you thought would always be your good friend and always trust would turn out to be someone completely different |
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Jun 3 2005, 01:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
I trust my friends. I don't trust my "frends."
I have a few best friends, and only one of them is in my school. I had a lot of friends whom I thought were my good friends... until.. their true selves came out. Ugly and nasty. So now, they are just my "friends", maybe not at all. |
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Jun 3 2005, 10:50 AM
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 sweet abandon Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,225 |
in my opinion, you have to decide that for yourself. in the end, you'll learn something valuable that will help you for the rest of your life. that's what high is all about to me. it the ultimate time for experimentation and discovery. whether they backstab you or stay loyal to you, you will eventually learn which people are most likely to be trustworthy.
if you don't trust them but don't want to break up your friendship... just trust your instincts and find more reliable friends. after high school it won't be likely that you'll keep in touch with them anyway. |
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Jun 3 2005, 11:00 AM
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 weird Sarah. yes,me... Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 |
i trust them because they are so important to me...
and there's no benefit they betray me |
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Jun 3 2005, 11:15 AM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
i had a LOT of friends back in jr high and everything but as high school started, everyone just kinda-- went their own ways. my friends started hanging out with other cliques and tried their best to "fit in". its normal. i can only trust a selective few, and thats a pretty low number too. but it doesnt matter to me anymore because you only need but two people you can trust your life with. everyone else just comes and goes.
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Jun 3 2005, 11:41 AM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
you cant trust all of them but, some...all my friends that i had in middle school were still pretty much the same in high school
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Jun 3 2005, 06:31 PM
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 Mrs. Darcy Group: Member Posts: 459 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,014 |
It really depends; with my life and turning in a paper for me are completely different things. I've got a couple very trusted friends and then the rest are normally semi-trusted. Some people is just... NO WAY.
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Jun 4 2005, 01:11 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
if you pick your friends right you can trust them. i have a few friends that i would trust with my life. but others i don't tell my secrets too just in case. so my answer is yes :)
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Jun 4 2005, 01:12 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
I dont really trust friends only best friends.
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Jun 4 2005, 01:15 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
no
people grow apart so much it happens. suppposedly you dont make your firends until college. *shrugs* thats what my mom told me |
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Jun 4 2005, 01:30 PM
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 un cool. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,269 |
when you tell your business to anyone, think of it like putting all of your personal business on the chalk board in one of your classes...first only a few people know, then more people walk into the class and sees it, get what i'm saying? if its that personal, keep it to yourself. but you've gotta have one good friend right? if somthing is bothering you, tell her/him.
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Jun 4 2005, 01:33 PM
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We all have tons of good friends, but there are only a few that you know you can trust. I lucked out, I've got quite a handful of great friends who I'd do anything for, and they would do the same for me in return. I've been blessed.
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Jun 4 2005, 01:33 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I'm not in High School yet.. but...
I don't trust any of my friends, except my best friend. My friends, except my best friend of course, goes and spread my secret. Like for instance, I tell Kimberly who my crush is, she goes and tell other people when I told her not to.. I get fustrated when they do that.. That's why I only tell my best friend my secrets.. she's the only person I trust.. Well, for online friends that I don't hang out with in real life, I trust many people. Toby, Steven, Kenny, Nicole, Julia, Kris, and many other people.. yeaaaaaaaah.. |
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Jun 4 2005, 01:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i am going to high school this year..and i know everyoen is going to changed teh only peopel that i can REALLY trust are my best friends...but i am not going to the same school as them
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Jun 4 2005, 02:03 PM
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I just moved so I have yet to make really close friends. Canadians are just different. People claim they are best friends, but they're not; they're just best buddies and may not know everything/almost everything about that best friend. It's just too much more me to explain, but yes, I could totally trust at least a few friends from my old high school.
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Jun 4 2005, 09:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
For the fact that i learn in order to live on is to .... trust myself only in this world. never trust anyone to hold something heavy or else the beans will spill.
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Jun 4 2005, 09:10 PM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
thanks for sharing your opinions guys!!
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Jun 4 2005, 09:12 PM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 4 2005, 10:08 PM) For the fact that i learn in order to live on is to .... trust myself only in this world. never trust anyone to hold something heavy or else the beans will spill. yeah i'm kinda like that now since i move a lot nowadays, i dont really know who my true friends are..... |
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Jun 4 2005, 09:13 PM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jun 4 2005, 2:59 PM) i am going to high school this year..and i know everyoen is going to changed teh only peopel that i can REALLY trust are my best friends...but i am not going to the same school as them awww so you have to make new friends...... that kinda sucks..... =[ btw i love your signature |
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Jun 4 2005, 09:18 PM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(vampireduster @ Jun 4 2005, 2:15 PM) no people grow apart so much it happens. suppposedly you dont make your firends until college. *shrugs* thats what my mom told me i guess so....
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Jun 4 2005, 09:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,006 |
after i got into highschol this year (first year in highschool) everyone was talking about everyone behind there backs. I had four friends..one i dropped last month after being an ass and saying my crush liked her and talked about me behind my back. But my other 3 and me are tight!
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Jun 4 2005, 10:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I can trust a few, but not all. Simply b/c I'm not too close to them or that I'm not real close to them anymore because of some things in the past.
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Jun 4 2005, 11:02 PM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(sweetdreamsx3 @ Jun 4 2005, 11:38 PM) I can trust a few, but not all. Simply b/c I'm not too close to them or that I'm not real close to them anymore because of some things in the past. yeah same here..... i'm not that close to a lot of my friends anymore bc something happened..... bleh |
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Jun 5 2005, 05:23 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
sooooooooooo many backstabbing stories.
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Jun 5 2005, 06:14 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,789 |
QUOTE(anqie @ Jun 3 2005, 2:39 AM) I have a couple of friends that I know I can truly trust.. But then there are the other 'friends'.. me TOO :P |
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Jun 5 2005, 07:52 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i can definately trust my friends. they're completely awesome. my friends respect me for who i am, and for what i say and do. these are my true friends, they're ones who will help me out, ones i can rely on.
btw, mizziexkittie, please don't double/triple/quadruple post. you can edit your posts. |
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Jun 5 2005, 10:44 AM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(x__forever @ Jun 5 2005, 8:52 AM) i can definately trust my friends. they're completely awesome. my friends respect me for who i am, and for what i say and do. these are my true friends, they're ones who will help me out, ones i can rely on. btw, mizziexkittie, please don't double/triple/quadruple post. you can edit your posts. oh ok!! sorry! 
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Jun 7 2005, 12:29 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
lol when i was in highschool I did trust most of my friends. lol man, but all of them have turned into people i can't trust. Even the people i considered my best friends, the people i've been through everything with. lol. Then, there are some people, that you just know not to tell anything to. LIke my friend Elliott, i consider him one of my best friends since middle school, but if you have information you want to keep secret, lol well you DON"T tell him. I guess I don't trust him enough to say anything really important to him. And my other friends have given me major reasons not to trust them, lol I have very few friends or people in my life i can actually trust. I can trust my friends Grace and Kaylyn very much. Out of all my friends thats it. I can trust my Mom and her friend Trish, and of course I can trust the best guy in the world Jeremy.
But all those people are unique lol, they are very trustworthy. I guess just be careful on who you trust, lol especially in highschool! It's crazy there |
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Jun 7 2005, 01:52 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
i guess a few..but not all!
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Jun 7 2005, 12:08 PM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(KissMe2408 @ Jun 7 2005, 1:29 AM) lol when i was in highschool I did trust most of my friends. lol man, but all of them have turned into people i can't trust. Even the people i considered my best friends, the people i've been through everything with. lol. Then, there are some people, that you just know not to tell anything to. LIke my friend Elliott, i consider him one of my best friends since middle school, but if you have information you want to keep secret, lol well you DON"T tell him. I guess I don't trust him enough to say anything really important to him. And my other friends have given me major reasons not to trust them, lol I have very few friends or people in my life i can actually trust. I can trust my friends Grace and Kaylyn very much. Out of all my friends thats it. I can trust my Mom and her friend Trish, and of course I can trust the best guy in the world Jeremy. But all those people are unique lol, they are very trustworthy. I guess just be careful on who you trust, lol especially in highschool! It's crazy there i agree..... hs's crazy!!!! lol |
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Jun 7 2005, 02:11 PM
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 unique Group: Member Posts: 520 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 140,137 |
no, i dont trust my friends. because 97% of my friends always backstab me. also, you really do figure out who your real friends are after graduation. its been a year and i haven't heard from any of my friends except 2 out of 25.
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Jun 7 2005, 07:45 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i said yes, but it all depends on the people you hang out with. but right now, i totally trust my friends not to go ditching me to be all 'cool'.
 i dunno it takes a while for you to develop real lasting friendships after knowing people for a while, but once you do it's hard to let go. so yes... i think i'll still have these friends in high school, and hopefully new ones as well
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Jun 8 2005, 02:11 PM
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well sure i guess.... ::errm::
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Jun 8 2005, 07:07 PM
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 me likes! ^^ Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,729 |
The only person I trust is my best friend (whom I've known for 9 years) but other than her, I really can't trust anyone else...
Certain people from my school are so fake! |
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Jun 8 2005, 07:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,039 |
i can trust a few of my friends..but thats it..i know the rest will just blab whatever i say to other people and soon the whole school will know ><
and some of my "friends" are just plain backstabbers..and they don't even TRY to hide it.. |
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Jun 8 2005, 08:05 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
well, your friends were probably people who only cared about popularity. that's not the best source for friends..get someone who would choose you over being popular. i can only trust a limited amount of people..
offline, the only people i can really trust are..my boyfriend and my friend david. david and i aren't really that close, but we've talked a couple times and they've been pretty in-depth conversations. i know i can trust him cause he's just not the kind of person who would tell others' secrets. online..it's both hard and easy to trust people. you get to know people a lot better though..i have magz (who's not on cb), kathleen, eveyloo, roxanne, kimmee, tracy, and heather that i can really trust. that's weird - i have like no friends that are girls offline and no guy friends online. 
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Jun 8 2005, 10:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,007 |
My friends turned into sluts and bitches, too.
Some just got really annoying. But you'll find some new people in no time. People you can really trust. Just ignore the people that talk a bunch of shit. Where are they going in life by doing that, anyways? |
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Jun 9 2005, 12:31 AM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(waitwaitwait @ Jun 8 2005, 11:48 PM) My friends turned into sluts and bitches, too. Some just got really annoying. But you'll find some new people in no time. People you can really trust. Just ignore the people that talk a bunch of shit. Where are they going in life by doing that, anyways? hmm good point
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Jun 9 2005, 03:10 AM
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most friendships in high school = tradgedy on a stick.
i think your bets bet is to have known your friends from middle school in high school or else be cautious. |
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Jun 9 2005, 03:12 AM
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double post sorry. stupid computer!!! curses to the "reload" button!!
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Jun 9 2005, 10:20 AM
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hmm?? Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,424 |
QUOTE(ItzOnlySydney @ Jun 9 2005, 4:10 AM) most friendships in high school = tradgedy on a stick. i think your bets bet is to have known your friends from middle school in high school or else be cautious. yeah.... problem is that i've moved around a lot lately.... like i move at the end of 7th grade, then summer before 8th grade, and end of 8th grade.... =_= bleh |
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Jun 9 2005, 11:25 AM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
i chose no because im not in high school :-\
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