close frin confessed........, lesbian...... |
 Apr 13 2004, 04:29 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3  Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491  |
wut if u were juzz playin around w/ ur frin then u guys kissed (both grls) u juzz thought it was a joke but couple of weeks lata she confesses dat she's really bysexual or maybe even lesbian... wut would u do? shes a really close frin of urs..u donn want to ruin ur frinship but u donn wanna be in a relationship coz ur not lezbian...
 am i makin ne sense?? 
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Apr 13 2004, 04:48 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
i would definately talk to her. that is really freeky so i would probably be lost... and the onlyw ay to solve it would be to talk it out. if she didnt listen, i would have to end the friendship becuase lesbian buisness is serious... and scary to me...
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Apr 13 2004, 04:58 PM
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<3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
i know its scary...lost..donn think want to loose da frinship..........
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Apr 13 2004, 05:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 905 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 216 |
so are you saying that friend has feelings for you?
if it was me, i would talk to her and say something like your still my close friend, but i happen to not feel the same way. hopefully she'll understand. |
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Apr 13 2004, 06:47 PM
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 barbies token black friend Group: Member Posts: 496 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,165 |
just be honest as cheesy as it seems honesty is just the best way to go. you dont have to be blunt and hurt feelings but you dont want her to get the wrong idea so tell her nicely that you accept her because you both are friends but you dont share the same feelings that she does.
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Apr 13 2004, 06:49 PM
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If my friend told me she was a lesbian/bisexual, and she and I kissed. I wouldn't mind. Heck, I'll hook her up with some girls.
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Apr 13 2004, 10:59 PM
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 createblog.com n00bie Group: Member Posts: 620 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,321 |
My friend is a bisexual. She told me. I freaked out. But then we talked. It's all good now. And I can't get jiggy with friends like Jose can. It doesn't feel right.
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Apr 14 2004, 12:44 AM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
well, if i were you, i'd tell her that i still wanna be friends but you don't feel the same way. he's an example convo:
you: hey. well, about that kiss... at first i thought you were just fooling around. and i didnt mind it too much, but i dont feel the same way about you. i'm really sorry. but i'm still willing to be friends if you want. her: oh... yeah... that's fine. i kinda saw it coming anyway. i still wanna be your friend, but if you change your mind, let me know. haha. also, i'm bi and honestly, i like one of my really close friends but wouldn't actualy tell her cuz once (i forget how it came up) she was like "if you were gay, that'd really freak me out" so that was just like... okay... im not telling her anytime soon. right now, no one knows but people i talk to on createblog. and i knew that if my friends ditched me because of something like that, i'd be hurt and probobly deeply scarred for a very long time. |
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Apr 14 2004, 10:24 AM
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<3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
yea exactly my point i donn wanna ditch her becoz she's bi...
 but obviously it bothers me when she's tellin me she loves me all da time n tryin to touch...  so julia... even though u like ur close frin n she doesnt like u in dat way... do u still keep on likin her?  im not makin sense am i?? hmm urghh dis is really botherin me i donn even know wut to say but i know i hafta talk to her but im not sure if dat will change anythin.. 
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Apr 14 2004, 10:33 AM
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 Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
I would go with it...be expieramental...Record whatever happens..And send it to me :-D
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Apr 14 2004, 01:33 PM
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 that girl is poison. Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,511 |
well i guess that if you were the best of friends and you feel this way after she told you she was lesbian ... maybe you need to reasses ur friendship, and then talk to ur friend about the qualms you having. im sure she'll understand~
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Apr 14 2004, 02:33 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
You can always just be friends. Just stand up for her, so when others are putting her down, she can't bring you down with her.
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Apr 15 2004, 12:48 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
HAHAHAHAHA... i neba kiss a girl...neba.... omq haha...but kno... one of my friends...we are like close friends... cus we talk a lot nd' hang out a lot~ but.. i happen to hear rumors that she had a crush on me.......
nd' i didnt kno that... i was so shock... i was like they're jus playin around~~ lols... nd' then like days passed...she comes up to me and starts on crying... "SUSAN!  im very sorry that i put u through this... i start to like u... like not in a friendship way...but like in a relationship... ur so nice and u always made me feel better"... i was so scared i didnt want to go near her.................. and then the other day...she was scaring me more...she was like "can i touch u?" i was like lols.... i thot she was still playing...... but no!! i found out that she was a lesbian.... her parents told me that she was a lesbian since the last 9 years ago...lols i didnt kno that....and they said sorry...but start crackin up and sayin' "i feel very sorry for u, susan"...haha... aish... but u kno wat? since i moved to another apartment.... i didnt gib her my home phone number......so she wont bug me.... i feel bad.....but u knoe...she scares me a lot...right after she says i want to touch u... hehe yeah....... but i dont want to see her no more even tho she was my close friends..... i heard that she still likes me and that she wants to kill herself with a knife... by stabbing her in her heart.................. psh yeah right like she'll do that.... lols.... wat if shes serious... i dont kno....... her parents will call me.... or not...they dont kno my phone number...and i dont even remember theirs... i dont even kno where she lives either...i forgot lols..... cus i wanted to forget...and my friends doesnt kno where she lives....
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Apr 15 2004, 05:26 AM
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no comment I'm just a straight guy |
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Apr 15 2004, 08:36 AM
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QUOTE(v@por @ Apr 15 2004, 6:26 AM) no comment I'm just a straight guy Okay, this is my last and final warning. Please post something relevant and contributing to the topic, if not; don't post at all. |
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Apr 15 2004, 07:29 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i would talk to her about it cuz if shes a really good friend then she should understand
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Apr 15 2004, 07:32 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
tell her that you what to be your best friend and that you don't want to do that because you don't swing that way..
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Apr 16 2004, 12:39 PM
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<3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Apr 15 2004, 12:48 AM) HAHAHAHAHA... i neba kiss a girl...neba.... omq haha...but kno... one of my friends...we are like close friends... cus we talk a lot nd' hang out a lot~ but.. i happen to hear rumors that she had a crush on me....... nd' i didnt kno that... i was so shock... i was like they're jus playin around~~ lols... nd' then like days passed...she comes up to me and starts on crying... "SUSAN! im very sorry that i put u through this... i start to like u... like not in a friendship way...but like in a relationship... ur so nice and u always made me feel better"... i was so scared i didnt want to go near her.................. and then the other day...she was scaring me more...she was like "can i touch u?" i was like lols.... i thot she was still playing...... but no!! i found out that she was a lesbian.... her parents told me that she was a lesbian since the last 9 years ago...lols i didnt kno that....and they said sorry...but start crackin up and sayin' "i feel very sorry for u, susan"...haha... aish... but u kno wat? since i moved to another apartment.... i didnt gib her my home phone number......so she wont bug me.... i feel bad.....but u knoe...she scares me a lot...right after she says i want to touch u... hehe yeah....... but i dont want to see her no more even tho she was my close friends..... i heard that she still likes me and that she wants to kill herself with a knife... by stabbing her in her heart.................. psh yeah right like she'll do that.... lols.... wat if shes serious... i dont kno....... her parents will call me.... or not...they dont kno my phone number...and i dont even remember theirs... i dont even kno where she lives either...i forgot lols..... cus i wanted to forget...and my friends doesnt kno where she lives.... whoa!! daz soo tough wut u did.... i donn think i can ever do dat..its bcoz i really like bein her frin n when i donn hang out w/ her even though im chillin w/ otha ppl its juzz boring... shes really koo though its juzz da lesbian part...... but u know wha i talked to her n erythin is ok maybe shes not lesbian after all... 
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