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ItzOnlySydney
post Jun 1 2005, 05:09 PM
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i just found one that my friend lisette stuffed in my purse on the last day of school. and yes she really did write it with this style of grammar of whatever:

"Hey,
Gurl I am so happi this is the last day of school. Guess wat? All this year ( 2005 ) you've been getting on mai nerves and you basically took Mary away from meeh. Yooh to clingy and your too emotional. Your just annoying. Too me your a friend I can talk to every once a week. Does that answer your questions? Thatz why I have avoided yooh. Oh & yooh can go tell Mary or NE of your other fwrends. But Im sawy itz true. Jan can sumtimes feel that way 2."



cry.gif i thought she was my friend.


have you ever had a friend that acted one way around you and then wrote you a note that showed that they really didn't like you or thought you were annoying or something like that?

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*Azarel*
post Jun 1 2005, 05:11 PM
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Notes are immature - seemingly-elementary-school, in my opinion.

But to have friends talk shit behind my back? It's happened before. Also, I've done it, just not behind theirbacks.

Relationships, buddy.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 05:13 PM
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First, your friends really needs to learn to spell. wacko.gif

I read something once in my friends diary once (I know bad, I couldnt help it) and she had some pretty mean things about me in there. I confronted her about and found out it was a rant. She was jealous because I was dating a guy she liked.

As for your situation, she should tell you how she feels to your face.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 05:13 PM
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No, not really...
I've had friends talk behind my back, but they've never said I was annoying them or anything like that. It's kind of hard to be annoying when you don't say more than five sentences a day.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 05:15 PM
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ehh no bad notes.. usually good ones. And if she really didn't care about you, I wouldn't be to upset with losing her friendship.

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post Jun 1 2005, 05:17 PM
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No my friends don't do that. My friends should just literally tell me. And your friend does not know how to spell. Who uses 'yoo' in a note? Sorry to hear about your situation.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 05:30 PM
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Nope, although, I found out that one of my friends that I really like to hang out with talks shit behind my back. I cried when I found out. She was my friend for over 4 years. cry.gif
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 06:05 PM
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no they haven't done that before.
but yeah i agree with the above, that's kinda immature. talk to her
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 07:38 PM
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whoa, if your "friend" wrote that, she must not be a good friend. well i have had people talk behind my back, but not confront me about it.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 08:07 PM
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post Jun 1 2005, 08:09 PM
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i never had that happened to me.. but deng then she's not ur friend if she treats you lyk that
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 08:12 PM
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Yeah, one of these girls I dislike does that to me all the time. -__-;; I mean like she acts all preppy in school and then she confronts me if I do ANYTHING at all. Have the same hair style. Ya da ya da.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 08:17 PM
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what your friend did was mean. just forget about her, she doesnt seem like a very good friend.
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 08:20 PM
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That's never happend to me personally before but I know a bunch of people who say pretty rude stuff behind other people's backs...
 
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post Jun 1 2005, 09:07 PM
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I might be guilty of this...I mean..

Story goes: I like(d) Someone to the point of I only told them the words "I love you" I wasn't(still not) sure what love was like but I think I came pretty dern close to it. I figured it fit the definition since:

1.I didn't love her til I liked her
2.I didn't Like her until I knew her
3.I didn't like(love) anyone other than her
4.It was a slow process
5.I liked her before I ever met her in person.

Anyways, long story short, she changed from my bestestestest friend into just completely not talking to me. Not that she wouldn't talk to me, but she wouldn't talk like she actually wanted to. Like, all her responses would be something around "Yeah" or "That's cool". Just you know...Not really talking, just kind of standing there and responding. Anyways...I got mixed signals, because in writing/internet/phone/ect. I was her bestestestestest friend. But in person I was just someone else.
Anyways Long story short again! I made a "secret blog" And just ranted and blew steam off in it and of course she got a hold of it.

I don't know if that's the sort of situation you mean, but I didn't tell her for the longest time because I felt she would take to it negetivly. I mean, I wouldn't want to...you get the idea. But she says the one thing she felt bad about was that I wasn't honest with her and now I'm living with that...

Anyways, I'm just trying to see if I can get your friends point of view cuz Yes it was one thing to another in my mind but maybe not in hers?
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post Jun 2 2005, 12:11 PM
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aww! console.gif i am so sorry to hear that! flowers.gif
and to answer your question, no. none of my friends have done that to me. thank, god! innocent.gif
 
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post Jun 2 2005, 01:28 PM
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im sry to hear that. but crap like that is always happening to me. i confront them and just tell them straight up i don't need friends like them and they can just stay out of my life. its really not worth the pain. in the end, you only have like two or couple of friends from highschool you'll ever rlly speak to after graduation. people always say you'll know who your real friends are after graduation. its the people that bother to still stay in touch and see how your doing.
 
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post Jun 2 2005, 01:38 PM
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kinda immature.

but then again, its like everyone these days has some hatred towards one another but when placed in the same room with each other, those 2 could get along and have a tea party for hours
 
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post Jun 2 2005, 08:17 PM
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.. wow she's..immature. why couldnt she jsut came up to you and told you in your face? instead of that note. -__-
 
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post Jun 2 2005, 08:23 PM
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i've never gotten a note like that. and she has weird handwriting.
 
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post Jun 2 2005, 11:26 PM
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Dont worry , thats all childish your above that , screw her she doesnt deserve you as a friend.
 
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post Jun 3 2005, 12:38 PM
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Nope....not yet, anyway..
 
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post Jun 5 2005, 07:48 PM
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i find notes COOl i love reading them makes me feel good haha
 
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post Jun 5 2005, 07:49 PM
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i find notes COOl i love reading them makes me feel good haha
 
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post Jun 5 2005, 10:21 PM
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How perfect for my current situation. laugh.gif

About a week ago my friend and me got into a fight over me talking behind her back. [It wasn't 'shes a slut i hate her' kind of talk, though. O_o It was 'why is she dating all these guys? one could figure out and do something bad to her' talk.]

Anyway, she claimed she never talked about me behind my back.

Then a few days ago i found out from a very trustworthy friend that her and another one of my friends have been calling me a "bigger slut than her". X__X

As of yesterday, I dumped them and started hanging out again with an old friend who I really, really trust and is like a sister to me. <3

That's kind of a mix between a hate story and a love story, huh? XD
 
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