Trixie?, a bi? Options

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Well the name of the person I need advise on has been cencored. So we shall call her "Trixie" My friend brought up a good point one day. She was on Trixie's xanga, and she IMed me asking me if Trixie was Bi, since I knew her best. I was shocked at the fact that she said that. And the blogrings that Trixie joined really got me thinking. Some of them were "Not so straight" and "Lesbians and bi (girls only)" and also in one of her entries she had mentioned something like this "The only reason I'm with him, is because I haven't found her." So now I'm scared but I can't really go up to her and ask "Hey Trixie, are you Bi?" It might be a sensitive subject for her if its true. What do you think. Is it a joke, or is it for real o_o;

[sunissed14127]

Hmm...well really the only way to really find out is to ask. Just kinda invite her over and just kinda ask like "Trixie, I was just wondering what was up with all those Blogrings your in, like the Lesbians and bi (girls only)." And just see what she says about that. It's not accusing her of anything.

[dahding]

*advice, *censored. sorry, pet peeve.

anywho, don't just be up front with her. ask her gently, and slowly ease into the topic. and don't say it in an accusing tone. it'll throw her off and what not. sounds like she's bi to me. but then again, i'm not her best friend, so i wouldn't know.

[aera]

talk to her privately and say "i noticed that some things youve done (blogrings) and said (i havent found her) and i was wondering whether youre bi? you dont have to tell me, but.... " or maybe not that straight forward but...

[*mzkandi*]

It might be for real but does it really matter if she is bi or straight. I understand you curiousity but when it comes to things like that sometimes it best for that person to come forth and volunteer that information.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

^thanks for your advice, Kiera and all the others. Hmm...I guess I'll just ask her about it. I'll try to make it seem not as obvious p_p;

[yupimchuck]

Eh, I'm bi. &If you were to pull her aside and make it just between you and her,
Then it should be okay to ask.
If shes open enough to have blogrings saying that, then I dont think it would be such a sensitive topic to talk about for someone who knows her so well.

[literemix24]

Lol, just pull her aside, and talk w/ her, PRIVATELY. And don't make it seem as if its a crime, or that you're accusing her of such..

[xlaydee_v]

ask her privately.. that's the only way you'll find out.

[shortiiex]

she writes it in her xanga and she never told you? it can be a joke...did she join that blogring after you found out? it can be a joke...

[topsyturvy]

^ Would Trixie really joke about something like this...?!

[misoshiru]

Eh, I'm bi. &If you were to pull her aside and make it just between you and her,
Then it should be okay to ask.
If shes open enough to have blogrings saying that, then I dont think it would be such a sensitive topic to talk about for someone who knows her so well.

thats true. you should ask her privately though.

[enyceXaddiction]

i know who your talk about. ka****** right? ehhh i dont know i mean she is...your...you know

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

^ Yeah it's hard to try and talk to her.

[freakonaleash]

im bi. only 2 people no acctually. my best mate and LeJay (cb) and yea. i kinda told my bff coz we were have a really private secretive talk and i couldnt lie to her so i told her. she acctually cried and said she felt so special and happy that i could only trust her. then she just openly asked me questions. just ask her over msn.

[jue]

are yu close with trixie?
if yu are do you think she'll joke on something like this?
do you think shes the type of person that would joke about this or act serious.

and just go ask her but like pretend it was like jsut any ordinarly question

--editt

WOAH; from what i just heard from you telling me who "trixie" was.. your in a hard situation. I mean, now you cant just go up to her and even try to ask like it was just some old question. ehh; if she is, accept her for who she is. But i dont think she is, cause she has a bf and all that. But then, yet again you're wondering if shes Bi, she could like both genders.

[miss barnes]

she probably is. she shouldnt be offended if u ask her because its not like you're just asking out of the blue. u do have reason to think that

[*chaneun*]

Go watch a movie with her about "bi" or "not so straight" lifestyles, then talk about it? Imo.

[loljuliana]

<_< Jane. Was this about me telling you about "Trixie's" blogrings and such? It would be hard for you to confront her about it. Maybe just prop her and go "what's with the blogrings?"