gosh..., this another pathetic love thing. |
 May 31 2005, 08:52 PM
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so basically, i have a boyfriend.
hes really nice and all, he goes for it. There is never once a chance that he misses to tell me he loves me. But recently, my feelings have changed. I don't know. I just don't get those flip flops in my stomach when i see him. I don't want to break his heart. I would rather have it him break my heart. What im asking is what would you guys do in a situation like this. Break up with him...or Just keep leading him one.. |
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May 31 2005, 08:56 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
you should break up with him. it will hurt him more when you find someone else to like and you tell him that youve wanted to break up with him for a long time, but you didnt want to hurt his feelings. and plus, why go out with someone you dont like? tell him that youll always be there for him and youd like to stay friends but that you dont think that you can bein a relationship with him.
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May 31 2005, 08:57 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,601 |
yeah but..the last person that dumped him, he doesn't even talk to them.
It kinda makes not want to break up with him..because i want to be his friend. |
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May 31 2005, 09:04 PM
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*scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
then say that you dont feel comfortable being in a relationship with him right now and that if he loved you, then he would respect your wishes. or something like that. also add that hes really sweet and all and the last part of my last post.
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May 31 2005, 09:09 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Break up with him. I mean it's not your fault that your feelings changed. NO one can help that. You're going to hurt him either way, so you might as well break up with him NOW instead of leading him on.
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May 31 2005, 09:12 PM
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Oh...I hate it when that happens, I think I'm feeling the same thing. Well I guess you can take a short break from each other. Or break it off if you'd rather be happier single.
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May 31 2005, 10:15 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's best if you break up with him, rather than leading him on. no one can stop how you feel about him
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Jun 1 2005, 02:37 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I guess you should break it off. Why be in a relationship, where one person doesn't feel the same way for the other?
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Jun 1 2005, 04:37 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
i would definitely break it off and tell him the truth. if you lie to him he's going to want to take it farther and shit.. but you dont even have feelings for him anymore. and plus. you would hurt him so much more..
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Jun 1 2005, 07:27 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
hmm don't lead him on cuz it'll just hurt him more. i'd say try to search ur feelings and why do u all of a sudden not get flip-flops in ur stomach?? r u just like use to him or is he not interesting?? i'd say then try new things...lols, like i dunno, just nuthin' u'll regret later. i'd say if u really don't have these feelings for him, then TELL HIM. never lead sum1 on it sux. and who knos maybe u guys can stay buds.
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Jun 1 2005, 07:29 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Totally lead him on and then cheat on him with his best friend. That way, he HAS to break up with you....bitch.
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Jun 5 2005, 07:41 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
it would be REALLY unfair if you keep doing this to him. so break it of with him right now before you feel more guiltyer and guiltyer. your hurting him even more like this.
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Jun 5 2005, 10:07 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Break it off. Don't ever lead. My ex did that to me,a nd it hurts like hell after you found out.
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Jun 6 2005, 07:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,881 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,134 |
i think you should jsut break it off. tell him how you realy feel. Its better to let him know and not have him find out later on. It might hurt him more.
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Jun 7 2005, 12:20 AM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
don't stay in a relationship where the only thing that is keeping you intact is the guilt.
it will be difficult, no one wants to hurt peoples feelings. especially ones belonging to the people that love you most. but like everyone else said..you are going to hurt him either way. it wont be fair if you are lieing to him. how do you think he would feel if he found out? if you wanna make things more mellow, maybe suggest a break. it wont hurt as much as a real deadly breakup i guess..but ofcourse it will eventually lead to one. who knows your feelings might return. if not, atleast you have initiated the parting. |
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Jun 7 2005, 01:42 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
break up with him! my friend just went through that, and she finally broke up with him! if you don't have that feeling that you love him then just break up! either break up now so it won't affect him much, or wait til he is in LOVE with you then break up which would just break his heart!
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