kissing.., in front of parents.. |
 May 29 2005, 08:10 PM
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well i just spent a great day with my gf and her mother, and mother's friend. i was getting dropped off by her mother's friend with all of them still in the car. i wanted to lean over and kiss my gf, nothing special, just a goodbye of sorts, but i just couldnt because her mother was there. and its not like her mother's friend is just w/e she is my gf's sunday school teacher.. lol.
i know its not really anything not to give her a good night kiss, but does it make me look like a wimp or something when i didnt? believe me i wanted to, and im still regretting i didnt.. i also think i would have felt really weird to lol |
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May 29 2005, 08:13 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Well if her mother and her sunday school teacher know that you guys are together, I don't see why you couldn't have kissed her. I think a short goodbye kiss would've been okay.
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May 29 2005, 08:18 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
i don't see what's so wrong with a short goodbye kiss. if it was a full makeout session, good lord child. but nothing's wrong with a little goodbye kiss.
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May 29 2005, 08:19 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
What's wrong with a goodbye kiss? I don't think you will look like a wimp, maybe girls don't want to have a goodbye kiss at all. Call her and ask if you think your a wimp.
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May 29 2005, 08:26 PM
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I can see where the apprehension comes in...but a peck wouldn't have hurt anyone...even the Sunday school lady has proabably seen it a few times.
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May 29 2005, 08:53 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that, especially since they know that you're together. Whenever I'm around my boyfriend's family, we're not afraid to kiss because they know that we're going out.
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May 29 2005, 09:59 PM
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Like Sebastian said, just kiss the girl.
 (If you have never watch the Little Mermaid then that line will no be familiar to you) |
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May 29 2005, 10:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,818 |
^ best movie.
QUOTE(levileh @ May 29 2005, 8:26 PM) I can see where the apprehension comes in...but a peck wouldn't have hurt anyone...even the Sunday school lady has proabably seen it a few times.  yeah, i agree. i can see where you were nervous, but i don't think a peck would've caused any drama or anything. |
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May 29 2005, 10:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
I see what you mean It would of been weird but you ARE her boyfriend just give her a little peck not a whole makeout session ...Good Luck
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May 29 2005, 10:43 PM
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 Donna-chan Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 |
is it a goodbye kiss on the cheeks or the lips? to me i think its ok if her mother is fine with it
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May 29 2005, 11:01 PM
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 tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
well as long as you keep it as a fast goodbye kiss then i don't think there should be a problem. but i am asian and most asian parents thinks that is disrespectful no matter how you put it or how quick it was.
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May 29 2005, 11:13 PM
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QUOTE(han1017 @ May 29 2005, 11:01 PM) well as long as you keep it as a fast goodbye kiss then i don't think there should be a problem. but i am asian and most asian parents thinks that is disrespectful no matter how you put it or how quick it was. that sucks. but maybe she didnt' thought you were a wimp.. but she still hoped you were brave enough to give her a light kiss. |
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May 30 2005, 06:16 AM
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 naďvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ May 30 2005, 10:59 AM) Like Sebastian said, just kiss the girl. (If you have never watch the Little Mermaid then that line will no be familiar to you) ^ HAHA!  Agree with everyone who said a light peck. 
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May 30 2005, 08:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
You could give her a light kiss on the cheeks too.
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May 30 2005, 12:20 PM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
I doubt she would think you are a wimp for that.
Kevin and I have been dating for 7 months, and we still don't kiss in front of his parents usually, even just a little peck. XP It's awkward, lol. |
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May 30 2005, 12:46 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
no..it doesnt make you look like a wimp..my boyfriend and i never kissed in front of any family members for the LONGEST time..theres still a lot of family members that we dont kiss in front of and we've been together for 5 years
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May 30 2005, 01:43 PM
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QUOTE(han1017 @ May 30 2005, 5:01 AM) well as long as you keep it as a fast goodbye kiss then i don't think there should be a problem. but i am asian and most asian parents thinks that is disrespectful no matter how you put it or how quick it was. ditto'd 
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May 30 2005, 05:41 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
as long as it wasn't tonsel hockey, you should of kissed her!
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May 30 2005, 06:12 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i would never kiss in front my parents...esp. my daddy. i dont even think he knows that i like boys like i do. he's only known about 1 boyfriend and that was a year ago. and he thought that was my first. if only he knew...lol. i'm just a little girl to him
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May 30 2005, 06:17 PM
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 ramble on... sing my song.. Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,976 |
I don't think a small goodbye kiss would have been inappropriate.
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May 30 2005, 06:18 PM
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Even if they knew that he was my boyfriend, I wouldn't take the chance of doing that. I'm scared of what they might do *squint*
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May 30 2005, 07:56 PM
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well it really depends...if her parents aren't like mine, you could've kissed her. if they are...then what you did was good, otherwise you would have had a talking to lol it just depends on the situation.
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May 30 2005, 08:16 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ May 29 2005, 8:53 PM) Yeah, I don't think there's anything wrong with that, especially since they know that you're together. Whenever I'm around my boyfriend's family, we're not afraid to kiss because they know that we're going out. lol I was going to say the same exact thing. But yea, a nice peck on the cheek or a quick lip lock is fine, although I wouldn't have gone into a long make out session with them watching, it would just be too awkward. |
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May 31 2005, 08:06 PM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
if they know you two are at it. why not?
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May 31 2005, 08:07 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
^ heheh.
I think a small goodbye kiss is fine. |
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May 31 2005, 09:08 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Don't go full on out making out. But a peck or whatever would've done just fine.
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May 31 2005, 10:29 PM
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 Just sit and listen... Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,339 |
If you're uncomfortable with kissing her at all on her mouth, then just kiss her cheek... it's like the universal safty zone =]
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Jun 1 2005, 04:51 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
lol theres nothing wrong with a goodbye kiss. just as long as.. its not like making out for 30 min with tongue involved lols
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Jun 2 2005, 04:52 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
QUOTE(dahding @ May 29 2005, 8:18 PM) i don't see what's so wrong with a short goodbye kiss. if it was a full makeout session, good lord child. but nothing's wrong with a little goodbye kiss. :D :D :D Agreed, totally. No matter, go on with your life but remember that next time. ;) |
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Jun 2 2005, 10:57 AM
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 My weakness is that I care too much. Also that I love you with a Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,426 |
A light kiss on the cheek is fione. No you aren't a wimp for not giving her a kiss. I'm sure that if she loves you enough she'll have understood your apprehension for nto kissing her in front of her mom and mom's friend. now I bid you adieu!
~*~*~DeCePT10N -ess~*~*~ |
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Jun 2 2005, 11:27 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
EW! NEVER!
Unless its on my wedding day 0_o |
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Jun 4 2005, 01:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
I think she appreciated that you didn't kiss her. I'd be so embarassed if my boyfriend were to kiss me in front of my parents. I still find it kinda weird when me and my boyfriend just hug when my mom is looking. Besides you can make it up later, right?
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Jun 4 2005, 02:08 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I wouldnt kiss my bf infront of ne of my family unless they know him well and we been dating for like a year or somethin lol. But for now, hell no.
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Jun 4 2005, 04:47 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
well, her mother already knows about you guys so its okay.
next time, try to kiss her but while you're at it, if you start feeling nervous about your sunday school teacher? then just act casual about it like its no big deal. |
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Jun 5 2005, 07:36 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
lols i dont think their going to care i mean you are her bf right? just do it next time(=
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Jun 5 2005, 10:37 PM
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 kitty1982 Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,090 |
it depends.. how logn ahve you beengoing out?! wiuld you kiss her on the lips or the cheek?
I'd probably go for the cheek with the mother around! |
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Jun 6 2005, 07:22 PM
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do you think the mother of the friend would have approve. if yu think she wouldnt have approve then it was best off if you didnt give he goodbye kiss. You could always make up for it some other night.
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