OCD, obsessive-compulsive disorder |
 May 29 2005, 10:20 AM
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I think that I'm suffering OCD over a guy. I feel happy, yet depressed around him. I mean, I'm happy he doesn't like hate me, and that we're friends. But I feel depressed because I know he'll never like me. My basic problem is how do I get over him? I've liked him for 2 years. Apparently, he likes two people as of now. One, he's never gotten over yet, and one which is still a mystery to me. How do I get over him, and how do I get him to like me more? Should I open up to him and just tell him exactly how I feel?
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May 29 2005, 10:51 AM
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I dont think there's a way "to get over" a guy. Just give it time.
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May 29 2005, 01:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,231 |
is it even possible to have ocd over a guy? lol. Yeah i agree, just give it time and feelings will pass.
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May 29 2005, 01:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,934 |
If there is a way to get OCD over one, then this is it. Time...my friend and my enemy. Thanks for the help. I'll just wait...hopefully.
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May 29 2005, 02:09 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Oh please. Haha.
Time will take over soon. Then you'll forget everything. Yes. Everything. Well maybe not everything. But yah. [= |
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May 29 2005, 02:13 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 209 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,663 |
girl, i had the same problem. wait..did i say had? imean have. execpt mines different...the guys likes me, i like him, but he is moving. i feel happy that he likes me, but depressed that he is moving. and no, there is no way to get over him, unless you find a reason to hate him...which is hard to do.
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May 29 2005, 02:31 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I agree with bRoKeNxALoNE.
That's not OCD. That's just an intense crush. Believe me, I actually have OCD and it's really nothing like that. You'll get over him eventually, dear. Unless you want to start getting closer to them, then just forget about him. |
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May 29 2005, 02:39 PM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
give it time..what else can you do?
perhaps direct your attention to someone else? be open minded. hes not the only decent male in the world. good luck =) |
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May 29 2005, 03:25 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
i dont believe that is the correct word for your emotions (OCD) its called a crush. everybody goes through it. plus a friend is better than a boyfriend. because once the friendship is ruined to many lines have been crossed to ever go back to normal =) good luck though
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May 30 2005, 10:30 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
*lol*
That isn't OCD....that's a crush....give it time and sooner or later you'll get over this guy and move on....try to keep your mind away from him.... |
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May 30 2005, 10:34 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
erhhmm, like everyone has said, it's jst a crush (:
plus, why do you need advice on how to get over him&for him to like you? i mean... yahr.. uhhmm well you said 'time is your enemy' soo i guess the other way to go aboutt this is to jst tell him  i mean.. maybe he wont like you&you'll accept reality&move on?  i am jst horrible at giving advice. ;[ |
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May 31 2005, 03:56 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
whack yourself on the head with a metal pole. then you'll lose your memory and you'll forget about him. ^_^
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May 31 2005, 04:02 PM
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 unique Group: Member Posts: 520 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 140,137 |
even though he likes another girl and one is a mystery...ever thought that mystery girl could be you? its a long shot, but i would rather know than not know. i would tell him and whatever happens, happens. at least your not all wondering.
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May 31 2005, 05:28 PM
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i know how you feel
  ive been crushing on the same guy for over 2 monthes. he knows (practically everyone does) and im almost positive he doesnt like me. grrr today my guy friend asked him out for me ( i didnt even no he was ) during class and he said 'i dont know'. oh well..its better than no, right? if u like him, then there's nothing you can do about it...who knows...maybe he'll come around!
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May 31 2005, 08:09 PM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
make him call you a bitch...then youll hate him.
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May 31 2005, 08:35 PM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
I never knew you could get OCD over a guy?
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May 31 2005, 08:42 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
please know the difference between "OCD"and "INFATUATION" before you make topics that make you sound stupid.
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May 31 2005, 08:45 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
Time heals all things.
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Jun 1 2005, 02:52 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
=O
SAME HERE! HAHA But i don't even want to go out with him, but i like him, im glad we're friends =) his so nicee.. im not sure, im trying to get over it by sleeping' in && eating icecream |
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Jun 1 2005, 09:50 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
um...you can't SUFFER ocd over a guy.
ocd is when you do something negative obsessively. like, wash your hands right after everytime you touch a doorknob or wash your face after every meal you eat. |
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Jun 1 2005, 01:02 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(emazing @ May 31 2005, 9:35 PM) I never knew you could get OCD over a guy?  You don't. You don't get OCD over anything. It's a mental disorder, usually passed down through the generations of your family. You don't just suddenly GET IT over one person, event, object, ritual, etc. It's a mental disorder where you MUST always do something and you get really weird and obsessive over it. Example(s): Always feeling the need to tap your foot during a movie. Always brushing your teeth after bike-riding. Always washing your hands after reading. See, weird things like that. Those are just a few examples and Yanlin provided a few others. Seriously... Like Maria said, learn the different between 'OCD' and 'infatuation' before you make a thread on it. Research OCD if you want. You can't get it over anything. It's just a disorder. |
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Jun 1 2005, 05:09 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
you can't get over a guy forcefully.. you gotta give it time.. nothing else is going to work
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Jun 1 2005, 06:36 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Write it down to him on a letter or send him an email.
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