What Girls SHOULDN'T Do, For Girls Options

[fameONE]

Being single and having the freedom to date is such a wonderful thing when you're assured that the potential "one" is right around the corner. But guys in general have been driven into hiding from relationships because of the following;

1. For starters, we do not care about your ex. We don't care what he looked like, what music he listened to, what he didn't do for you or where you two went on your 2 year anniversary. We do not care. The most obvious would be that you're comparing us, and no guy wants to constantly be compared. So, are you tired of meeting jerks and scaring off the good guys? Well, then stop doing this.

2. Your friends are the deadly venom that kill relationships in a given timeframe. Regardless if your council of gossippers approve of a guy initially, they always find a way to bring a developing relationship crashing to the ground. It always starts with he-said, she-said and rumors by word of their mouths, but then it gets complicated when they secretly make a move on the guy that you're after. And if he rejects, he'll be called a jerk for hitting on your friend. It happens. Every girl that meets a guy and is overly engulfed in her friendships has a 'close friend' that wants nothing more than to steal her man.

3. Ladies, you need to come to terms with the fact that all guys aren't mumbling morons with a sub 100 IQ. Most of us are well rounded and we are itnerested in something unique in one way or another. And, if it doesn't seem all that unique to you, it still means a lot to us. If we're busting our asses going to chickflicks, listening to sob stories about you and your friends who said what about whom, then you'd best be willing to enjoy a game of football. Furthermore, don't reject something as soon as its brought to your attention because you aren't familiar with it. Play Halo, damnit, appreciate German automobile engineering, listen to new music for once in your life and open your mind as well as your hearts.

4. Love it or hate it, guys (in general) will never be comfortable with a woman's menstruation process. So dont' talk about it. And when you're PMSing, let us know you're PMSing and don't bite our heads off when we assume your erratic mood swing is because of PMS. (Especially on the phone, most guys don't like talking on the phone to begin with) Why do we need to know about your flow, or why you can't wear a bikini or a thong? We don't. Say that you're PMSing and to give you a week and we'll be glad to accomodate ya. KTHX!

5. Last but certainly not least is the loss of chivalry. Girls do not seem to appreciate a guy going out of his way to make sure he opens every door and pays for everything. Ladies, you may not particularly like someone buying you things or seeming like you need a guy to do things for you but you have to shut up and deal with it. In reality, we know that you're more than capable of paying your own way, opening your own heavy door and getting in the car yourself. But understand that if a guy is doing this for you, he is making an effort to treat you right. So for you to actually show your annoyance is a huge disrespect.

Summing this baby up, this is coming from the perspective of a "nice guy" or a guy who is respectful. Not every girl is like this, but a lot of girls are exhibiting such behavior. Pay attention and take the advice so you'll have less problems.

[love-issosweet]

good job :]

[Shattered_Hope]

Thanks, I'll keep this in mind....

[sheepy]

hahaha that is like so true. flower for you =)

[weirdness]

Haha #4 made me laugh. It would be weird if.. a boy was listening to a girl talk about her period. ROFL.

Yeah, all of these things are true-o. 'Cept I've already acknowleged that not all boys are dumb, or not interested in anything.

[Ballpointpencil]

Play Halo, damnit, appreciate German automobile engineering, listen to new music for once in your life and open your mind as well as your hearts.

Haha, Kevin introduced me to Warcraft (an eventually World of Warcraft when it came out), and it is a lot of fun! He's also helping me fix up my old Willys Jeep... you know, so someone can actually drive it. =P
Hey girls, trying something new (especially something typical considering to be 'a guy thing') can sometimes be awesome. ^_^

Yay, lovely post.

2- That is why you date someone in your circle of friends. ;) Someone who has been your friend for years.
5- Oh yeah. I <3 it when guys go out of their way to be chivalrous. Don't see why some girls have such a problem with it.

[pawprints2570]

hahahahahha. i loved that brief lesson on guys.
but seriously, though, i would love to have a guy who tries really hard to be nice and etc...

[teeners4]

it's all true xP

[Chyn020]

THANX. lol. ill think about this.....

[miss barnes]

that was great! i already knew it but...ummm yea

[beautifuls0ul_x3]

very good info...i'll keep all this in mind. glad you brought it up, cause it's nice to be reminded once in awhile.

[ItzOnlySydney]

thanks i'll keep this in mind

[aera]

thanks. i noticed that alot of people complain about these things -_-
i'll remember this.

[parallel]

Ahh. I love this topic.

Oh! Can I add something?!

I don't think guys really like it when you talk about other guys like saying they're hot. For instance, on the TV. Lets say that there is a fine azz guy on the TV while your talking to your boy and you go "OMG. He is so effin fine!" Um. I don't think they want to hear that. Trust me. I would know. Especially if you do it a little too much.

So yah. Sorry if you kinda already covered that. [=

[fameONE]

Ahh. I love this topic.

Oh! Can I add something?!

I don't think guys really like it when you talk about other guys like saying they're hot. For instance, on the TV. Lets say that there is a fine azz guy on the TV while your talking to your boy and you go "OMG. He is so effin fine!" Um. I don't think they want to hear that. Trust me. I would know. Especially if you do it a little too much.

So yah. Sorry if you kinda already covered that. [=

Oh noes! How could I forget?!
I was on a date this evening and the girl kept going about Brad Pitt and how she'd perform one sexual act after another on him and yada yada yada. So, to even it out, I tried to pervertedly blab about Angelina Jolie but its just not the same. Yes, quite possibly, a guy can be jealous of a celebrity that he will never come in contact with. Still, I don't want to hear how hot he is nor any other guy. As far as I'm concerned; you believe I'm the hottest thing walking this earth and there is nothing better. Keep it that way.

[alice1017]

thanx i will remember that

[parallel]

^Haha.

It's fun to hear you guys complain though. It makes you feel special.

[fameONE]

^Haha.

It's fun to hear you guys complain though. It makes you feel special.

Unlike the incessant nagging (by girls) that is constantly tolerated (by guys), I believe this to be quite justified. Besides, girls are always griping about us opening up anyway. Well, here's a backhand of honesty and openness.

[parallel]

So are you saying that it's only fair for guys to do the same?

x] Such big words. !!

[fameONE]

So are you saying that it's only fair for guys to do the same?

x] Such big words. !!

Bingo. Its time for the fellas to get our due.

[angelrevelation]

Play Halo, damnit

lol halo... it looks fun, but extremely hard i've never been good at video games... my brother had to help me with the first harry potter one, and i never passed the potions part

Girls do not seem to appreciate a guy going out of his way to make sure he opens every door and pays for everything.

and i actually find the opening doors thing (at least too often) and pulling out chairs type of thing annoying. i mean, i can do it myself

anyways, this was kinda funny lol, and probably true for many girls

[parallel]

Oh. I get it.

But it's not quite fair cuz when the guy does it back, the girl gets some what pissed. Hehe.

And that's why you shouldn't say that on the phone!

Woot. Point made. Right?

[sharerol]

These are quite some interesting pieces of information. Haha. They might come in handy one day. :P

[yupimchuck]

Hah I didn't know a few of those.

But I HATE when people open doors for me, it's one of those things that just annoy the crap out of me.

[*Weird addiction*]

Oh well... wow you are one nice guy! I sometimes pay when i'm on a date, i hear the boy brag about britney spears, or he even asks me if i like sex. Oh well, i'm used to it.

Well done though!!

[Hottness]

Those are mostly true, but I love it when a guy opens doors for me and stuff! I think it's so cute! But I'll keep the rest of it in mind.

[strwbrysensatns]

Very well put!
Congrats!

[literemix24]

I'll be sure to keep that in mind later on.

[xbrokenheartz]

you have such a way with words. (:

[SimplicityGirl]

Thank you. I'll keep that in mind the next time I get a bf ^^

[fameONE]

you have such a way with words. (:

Why, thank you.

Just to prevent the hardcore feminists from standing at the foot of my bed with an axe, please keep in mind that, although serious, this rant was supposed to be light hearted and humorous.

[beautifuls0ul_x3]

Just to prevent the hardcore feminists from standing at the foot of my bed with an axe, please keep in mind that, although serious, this rant was supposed to be light hearted and humorous.

haha that made me laugh! but yes i understood you very well and it's nice that a guy would come out and help us girls out! thanks!

[toodlepops.]

Ooh, awesome topic. I'll remember this.

[vampireduster]

niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[dani41790]

Lol thanks for the advice. Most of it isn't true for my boyfriend though.

[alliegrl_x]

Besides, girls are always griping about us opening up anyway. Well, here's a backhand of honesty and openness.

very true. i like it when their honest, and im tired of prying and assuming.
goodjob,you sure know yr stuff

and all the girls who find it annoying about guys being chivalrous
i dont really get it..i mean it feels nice when they do that.
then again maybe its just because my bfs not the "let me pay and be a man type "

[Jasminluvsu]

good advise

[*suddenly she*]

THANK YOU! this should be something that gets passed around xangas. i'm so sick of "the perfect guy" lists when other girls can't appreciate them and they don't even try to understand.

[gingerxsweet]

Haha, Kevin introduced me to Warcraft (an eventually World of Warcraft when it came out), and it is a lot of fun! He's also helping me fix up my old Willys Jeep... you know, so someone can actually drive it. =P
Hey girls, trying something new (especially something typical considering to be 'a guy thing') can sometimes be awesome. ^_^

Yay, lovely post.

2- That is why you date someone in your circle of friends. ;) Someone who has been your friend for years.
5- Oh yeah. I <3 it when guys go out of their way to be chivalrous. Don't see why some girls have such a problem with it.

oh i play warcraft! it's so much fun haha. i didnt start for a guy, i just try a lot of things and i guess you could say i stand out a bit cuz im different. well all the guys seemed really impressed (and shocked) at the fact i played warcraft. i told one friend that i was playing it, and by morning the next day, all the guys were running up to me and asking if it was true. it was actually really funny...

[3ssx]

wow... thanks for sharing. its very. interesting

hmm i play lots o "guy" games too. warcraft. n cs n halo n stuff... not because of my bf though. just because when i hang out with my cousins they always play those games. (yes, my cousins are guys...) so im sorta influnced by them.

[lilJdawg]

Thanks.

[enyceXaddiction]

well done!!

[xburnoutx00]

My boyfriend (for some reason) doesn't mind me talking about menustration.... yeah... weird. i guess.

[xMiZziexKiMx]

awww thanks a lot of letting us know that!!

[CloudNine]

2. Your friends are the deadly venom that kill relationships in a given timeframe. Regardless if your council of gossippers approve of a guy initially, they always find a way to bring a developing relationship crashing to the ground. It always starts with he-said, she-said and rumors by word of their mouths, but then it gets complicated when they secretly make a move on the guy that you're after. And if he rejects, he'll be called a jerk for hitting on your friend. It happens. Every girl that meets a guy and is overly engulfed in her friendships has a 'close friend' that wants nothing more than to steal her man.

Your wrong on one thing honey. Friends and family are major priorties in a girl's life whether guys choose to believe it or not. Boyfriends may come and go, but true friends never leave you. If anything, they want nothing more but the best for you. True friends protect each other through thick and thin, they don't want them to get hurt.

Now unless your talking about lousy, no good "friends" then yes I could see them trying to steal your boyfriend.

Friends do not "kill" relationships, half the time they're the ones who put you two together. I've been with my boyfriend for three years and I love him to death but I aso love my friends. Whenever him and I are arguing, I fall back on the loving support of my two best friends as I would for them. True friends do not want to "steal" your boyfriend and they don't flirt with him because it's disrespectful.

I totally disagree with you in that paragraph. Not every friend is like what you said. Yes true friends may be tough on a new guy but why wouldn't they? They don't want their best friend to be with some weird or abusive boyfriend so of course they're going to question. If the guy makes it through the friends then it's fine but if he can't handle the girl's friends then obviously he's not man enough.

My best friend has fallen victim to abuse from her boyfriend and my other friend and I feel as if we've failed her. We love her to death and absolutely do not want anything to happen to her. He does not let her see us nor spend the night at our houses yet it's okay for him to hang out with his friends.

Friends and family will always come first. I'd be lost without my friends even though I love my boyfriend because sometimes you need more than just a boyfriend as a shoulder to lean on when your to weak to stand on your own.

[smilz2dasun]

^ i like this girl's posts.

anyway.. this list is really good. you really do have a way with words and i enjoy reading your posts as well.

my now ex-bf was always the first one to bring up talk about my period though. i always thought it was strange and i never brought it up first because i thought he'd be uncomfortable. now he makes references and remarks about it all the time.. :\

and about the chivalry...i can't imagine why a girl would complain about that. i've never even found a guy that would go that extra mile to do things for me.. at least not one that stood out. i'm sure he opened a door or two for me once.. but yea, i fall for chivalrous (i know i butchered the spelling) guys..

[mocassinsx29]

Lord, it sounds like your describing the most annoying girl in the world, but you know guys aren't perfect either you know. And if a girl's being pissy about playing football, trying a new game, or not appreciating the opening of doors and paying of clothes, don't try and change her, just break up.

[starlette]

wow...most guys are jerks. My boyfriend is a hell of a lot more sensitive than that. I mean...Maybe its because we were best friends before we got together, but he cares about everything. We likes my friends. And oh, my friends so NOT start shit like that with me and my mattie. They are way more mature than that. And the whole tlaking on the phone thing? My boyfriend loves to talk to me. He calls me. And he does it not because he knows I want him to, but because he wants to talk to me and to hear whats going on in my life. And maybe if guys didnt spend so much time wasting away in front of a tv screen playing halo, we might actually be interested in playing with you. But its just frustrating when you know more about a freakin video game than you do your girl friend. Girls, someone needs to write a rebuttle. The reason relationships dont last is because you are with the wrong type of guy. If a girl is like that, I can guarantee there is a guy out there for her. I hate chivalry...my boyfriend knows this and rarely does it. Because itmakes me feel helpless. but everyonce in a while, AT THE RIGHT TIME, he offers to grab the door, or help me carry something heavy. Its just a balence.

[mocassinsx29]

^ I agree buttt... I'm to lazy to write a rebuttle. :(

[supahstah_luv]

good stuff!
thanks for taking the time to post this up
maybe this should be pinned?

[jeSs1cA]

WOW, this is very good info. Thanks for sharing this..

[*salcha*]

Haha, this is a reasonable list. Girls complain a lot :x

[Paradox of Life]

Wow, this is old. Your list makes a lot of sense. Too bad we won't be hearing smart stuff like this as often.

You rock, Brandon.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

ahaha i dont do anything thats listed up there. i dont even let them pay for me most of the time, i'll half it cos i hate it when guys pay for everything.

[HoodieObsessed]

3. Ladies, you need to come to terms with the fact that all guys aren't mumbling morons with a sub 100 IQ. Most of us are well rounded and we are itnerested in something unique in one way or another. And, if it doesn't seem all that unique to you, it still means a lot to us. If we're busting our asses going to chickflicks, listening to sob stories about you and your friends who said what about whom, then you'd best be willing to enjoy a game of football. Furthermore, don't reject something as soon as its brought to your attention because you aren't familiar with it. Play Halo, damnit, appreciate German automobile engineering, listen to new music for once in your life and open your mind as well as your hearts.

I dont' like halo very much. neither does my brother. we bought it cause everyone raved aobut it but it's kinda dull. We prefer Prince of Persia and Beyond Good and Evil myself.

And as for German automobile engineering...don't even get me started. ppl who are obsessed with cars drive me BANANAS. it is jsut the absolutely stupidiest thing ever. once again, my two brothers agree with me, proving that it's not just a girl thing. infact, it's probably not a guy thing to like cars, msot likely it's jsut a YOU thing. so stop grouping everyone into catagories, it's bothering me.

Cars are transportation devices. end of story.

now one tihng I can go crazy over is an awesome looking computer case



...I just thought I'd kinda point out that not everyguy in the world is exactly like you. my brothers would be proof of that.

anyway, it's not a BAD list, I just don't think it really helps anytihng because every relationship is different, and msot of the problems on the list are very hard to avoid (such as the girls freinds) and actualy usually arn't problems at all.

[sheddingtears]

wow. ill keep that in mind when that guy comes around.
but then again, all guys are different and yeah.

[elaboratedream]

great list, I'll keep that in mind. as for the games and the car thing, I like some of those "guy" games and I don't mind listening to things about cars. My brother and dad are completely obsessed with 'em so I know some things... lol. I even confused a guy friend when he tried to talk about cars...

[harmoniouskazoo]

Eww. I can't stand when guys won't let me pay for anything or open doors (the only time I expect doors to be opened is if my hands are full)...

>_<

[TiGGeRX1205]

Play Halo, damnit, appreciate German automobile engineering, listen to new music for once in your life and open your mind as well as your hearts.

Some guys think it's weird I play alot of video games and know a bit about cars.
but I understand what your saying. Nicely put

[yellowgurl]

hate to admit it but its true its true

[fameONE]

This was written MONTHS ago

Its pretty esoteric

I just went through the last two pages and saw defensive replies...

...get over yourselves

N00bs, please refrain from digging up old topics.

[kill.t3h.r0cK]

Hah, I wish I met a nice guy once in a while...Halo is truly kick ass, but I suck @ it, but kick ass none the less. Ah, I paid for everything because he was broke && I opened doors because he wouldn't. Damnit, I date flippin' needy, soul suckin', sex wanting, immature boys! Rawr, I need a veggie burger.... Btw, liked reading the list, gave me something to do.

[jue]

1. For starters, we do not care about your ex. We don't care what he looked like, what music he listened to, what he didn't do for you or where you two went on your 2 year anniversary. We do not care. The most obvious would be that you're comparing us, and no guy wants to constantly be compared. So, are you tired of meeting jerks and scaring off the good guys? Well, then stop doing this.

totally agree. Just means that this guy your dating is still living in the past and hasnt move on.

[*xcaitlinx*]

marry me! *sigh* i wish every guy was like this..

[breakingdawn]

4. Love it or hate it, guys (in general) will never be comfortable with a woman's menstruation process. So dont' talk about it. And when you're PMSing, let us know you're PMSing and don't bite our heads off when we assume your erratic mood swing is because of PMS. (Especially on the phone, most guys don't like talking on the phone to begin with) Why do we need to know about your flow, or why you can't wear a bikini or a thong? We don't. Say that you're PMSing and to give you a week and we'll be glad to accomodate ya. KTHX!

Ugg.. my male friend, that calls me, brings up the subject, like all the time. He askes all these questions, it's rather annoying. I threatened to bite his head off if he didn't stop asking me. That helped.

[cheerbee07]

funny..i'll keep that in mind

[krazee_but_cutes...]

lol. funny piece. and i guess it can be true. but not all girls are like that. though the menstration thing i can understand. us girls don't need to know about your erections and what not, so we don't need to share our menstral cycle

[Shahin]

Nice sum-up

[Olive]

This was written MONTHS ago

Its pretty esoteric

I just went through the last two pages and saw defensive replies...

...get over yourselves

N00bs, please refrain from digging up old topics.

I don't think anyone saw this.

haha but this line made me laugh:

...get over yourselves

[xforgottenlove]

mmm wow this was helpful. haha gotta keep this in mind

[aicilah999]

so true. i`ll keep this in mind ....
i just wish a guy would go out of his way and do stuff for me :[

[GREASEbaby]

I aggree with point 3, it's very true. Haha, I'm like a guy right there. I'll go to my friends and I'll say something like, "OH yeah DUKE'S GONNA DOMINATE March Madness!" or "Hey wanna watch the football game?" "Oh this video game hella rocks" And they'll just stare at me like I'm a complete freak...haha the guy things rock my ass.

[randomness025]

that was great! i already knew it but...ummm yea

same here.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

I will keep this in my mind when i am out with my one and only. =)

[*This Confession*]

3. Ladies, you need to come to terms with the fact that all guys aren't mumbling morons with a sub 100 IQ. Most of us are well rounded and we are itnerested in something unique in one way or another. And, if it doesn't seem all that unique to you, it still means a lot to us. If we're busting our asses going to chickflicks, listening to sob stories about you and your friends who said what about whom, then you'd best be willing to enjoy a game of football. Furthermore, don't reject something as soon as its brought to your attention because you aren't familiar with it. Play Halo, damnit, appreciate German automobile engineering, listen to new music for once in your life and open your mind as well as your hearts.

4. Love it or hate it, guys (in general) will never be comfortable with a woman's menstruation process. So dont' talk about it. And when you're PMSing, let us know you're PMSing and don't bite our heads off when we assume your erratic mood swing is because of PMS. (Especially on the phone, most guys don't like talking on the phone to begin with) Why do we need to know about your flow, or why you can't wear a bikini or a thong? We don't. Say that you're PMSing and to give you a week and we'll be glad to accomodate ya. KTHX!

I don't find any of these really true
and i read this a incredibly long time ago..

number 3- made me laugh a little at the end.
although I like playing video games, and listening to real music
[meaning: no rap or country, i = &dies;]
and I like to open my mind to new things.
As long as their not stupid.


to number 4

is completely wrong
for some guys
some guys live with only woman and get use to it
and walk in to showers and it looks like someone
got murdered.

haha

[adolelolz]

xD I would love a boyfriend who asked me to play Halo with him...and not laugh at me when I lose miserably...and then play MarioKart with me so I can laugh at him when he loses.

[PrincessAda]

Wow good job.

[da_SALSA]

I knew most of this and I try my best not to do any of these whatsoever! Number 2 is VERY true. I guess it's just how us girls work...kinda sucks how friends usually cause the drama. I have no problem with Number 5 since my guy and I barely go out (both of us are busy most of the time) and when we he does, he pays and sometimes I pay. I have no problem with that. I guess it's mutual understanding.

[xLilSwtPiNaix]

5. Last but certainly not least is the loss of chivalry. Girls do not seem to appreciate a guy going out of his way to make sure he opens every door and pays for everything. Ladies, you may not particularly like someone buying you things or seeming like you need a guy to do things for you but you have to shut up and deal with it. In reality, we know that you're more than capable of paying your own way, opening your own heavy door and getting in the car yourself. But understand that if a guy is doing this for you, he is making an effort to treat you right. So for you to actually show your annoyance is a huge disrespect.

thats so weird... i was just doing that to my friend. i was being so hard headed about him getting me something fer a late b-day presant. i kept on telling him not to get me anything but he insisted =T ill tell him sorry tomarrow.

lmao! thanks fer the advice

[mseryel2]

yes, this is a great guide on guys
...and yes i have noticed taht most girls are like this about their boyfriends
good job

[iminlovewithTomD...]

Mmk, this helps. :)

And yes, when I get a boyfriend, I WILL play Halo with them!! haha, actually i've never played halo, just halo 2... i like lockout the best.. my faaaavorite map.

though i'm quite horrible at the game...

Anyhow, i'm getting off topic... so back ON topic

I think this helps a lot for people who are like 12/13 (as myself... being 13) like with the whole... "not dating yet" thing (cuz i've never had a boyfriend yet... and i kinda still don't even need one) so that we know how to be when we do have them.

but do guys hate it when you like say mean things about your ex once in a while? jw... cuz i don't see how it would make him feel bad if you said, "i don't know anybody fagottier than that guy... except my ex. hehe" (bad example... first thing that came to mind) I mean, just so long as its not excessive or anything.

[gr00vyswordsman]

wow, you really are the nice guy...bet you dont get laid much lol ( no offense ^_<) #5 made me laugh. Girls can complain all they want to, it's THEIR REALITY...and throws the guy off guard a lil so what, :)

[EmoEyelinerx]

i actually find the opening doors thing (at least too often) and pulling out chairs type of thing annoying. i mean, i can do it myself

Lol thats the same way I feel but I guess if he wants to go all out and open the door and pull out my chair I guess I could get use to it.


Nice post.

[courtn3y]

Nicely done

[Joss-eh-lime]

awesome info :)
nicely put.


but...i truly feel stupid sitting in the car waiting for him to :
turn off the car, close his door, walk around, and open my door, and let him watch me step out.

it feels...uncomfortable.

[*Mercy*]

5. Last but certainly not least is the loss of chivalry. Girls do not seem to appreciate a guy going out of his way to make sure he opens every door and pays for everything. Ladies, you may not particularly like someone buying you things or seeming like you need a guy to do things for you but you have to shut up and deal with it. In reality, we know that you're more than capable of paying your own way, opening your own heavy door and getting in the car yourself. But understand that if a guy is doing this for you, he is making an effort to treat you right. So for you to actually show your annoyance is a huge disrespect.

Genius.

[Dobby]

Dobby loves to open car doors, and iron shirts, clean toilets, scrub tile, drink bile, vaccuum cobwebs, vanish monsters, anything for the lady house elf... But also for Harry Potter...