girls... Options

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well, it's kinda strange in some ways in which some girls try to attract guyz but in some way i think it's kinda tacky...
i've seen some girls showing a lot of their skin in public, but then i heard of cases of rape bcuz the rapists think the girl who showed a lot of skin 'provocative'...
also, how many times hav u seen ppl w. either the bra straps showing, or any other part of it showing? the girl may think it may attract guyz but...at the end they just look strange...some guy gets attracted and snaps it for fun...and they dont attract the guyz the way they want...
what do u think?

[Le_Jay]

A bit of skin isn't bad, a bit of skin isn't necessarily good either. Really depends on how someone displays it. For example, at a social, there was this girl wearing a dress with plenty of back being exposed, but you could tell by her fidgetting with the dress every 5 minutes, she wasn't comfortable with it, and probably a shy person. Then there's those that openly flirt the skin.

Summary: Wear it, don't flaunt it.

[blogdeleted]

Yeah, that's right. I totally agree with your point. But have u seen some ppl with like the whole back of the bra or like both of the straps exposed?? Yeah. That can be a little too much tho. some ppl who wear a black bra or sth under a white t-shirt can look real tacky. a pink or red bra under a white t-shirt shines through like a neon light and looks really, really tacky. also, it's really hard to hide bra straps under a white shirt, so i think that unless one needs to, then either a different colored shirt or a strapless is ok. or if one really doesn't need one, just wear a white t-shirt and that's the top.
What do u think about that?

[Le_Jay]

I think you're straying more into odd fashion sense... However, come to think of it, if a guy takes a hint from something as simple as a bra strap that's exposed under a shirt or a shoulder-less top... I just don't think its that big a deal for those 2 reasons.

[SnowSlasher]

I dont really mind what woman wear that much, although i find a tendancy for the "prissy" (the "princess" types) like to wear clothes exposing a lot of belly and back at the same time... i think its just me...

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Oh man, I hate showing skin it makes me feel naked. That's why I always carry a sweater around. Well I guess some guys are turned on but what they see.

[aera]

^i agree. i dont like showing alot of skin because it makes me feel exposed and uncovered. so i usually dont where clothes like that. or i wear a jacket.

[asiu1990]

as a guy, i like seeing skin tho

[blogdeleted]

as a guy, i like seeing skin tho 

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[Le_Jay]

as a guy, i like seeing skin tho 

Nothing is as sexually stimulating as seeing someone's hand. Or their neck.

You sick skin-fetisher.

Like your attitude bylrarzeitnt btw.

[Eryi]

Some girls are like that. *mumbles:slut* Well it's their way of attracting either the male or the female.

[dragyn]

Heh. Every once in a while I will wear a colorful bra under a black tank (like a wife-beater) but not to get attention, just to add some color with the straps (my wardrobe is entirely black). I don't think just brastraps showing is that bad, but when you wear super-bright bras under white shirts, that is tacky.

[tootsie_kiddo]

but jeez, i'll rather wear a tanktop and show my bra straps than be in a t-shirt when it's really hot

[ficklenesswhatev...]

Heh. Every once in a while I will wear a colorful bra under a black tank (like a wife-beater) but not to get attention, just to add some color with the straps (my wardrobe is entirely black). I don't think just brastraps showing is that bad, but when you wear super-bright bras under white shirts, that is tacky.

I agree. It's just a bra strap. If you can't handle that, then you shouldn't go into public. The whole back showing I think is going a little far, and the neon bra under a white top...wow, someone wants to get raped.

[misoshiru]

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please don't spam.

i don't see anything wrong with brastraps showing. yeah, so maybe seeing a bright green bra under a white t-shirt is a bit weird. and maybe some people dont wear it to attract guys. it's just the way they dress. if they're raped because they dress too explicitly, then maybe they deserve it.

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Like your attitude bylrarzeitnt btw.

Thanks! =P

[parallel]

Dude. What is up with you making topics about girls all the time? I also noticed that a lot of them involve the word 'bra' in em.


Anyway. Those girls just think they look good..but really. They're hoes.

[maia_dc]

Bra straps aren't the devil. There's nothing provocative about them either.

And skin is just skin. Sometimes girls dress to please themselves not the men around them. And also, have you ever heard of "don't blame the victim?" Blaming a victim of rape is pretty ignorant. Rapists are sick people, and I don't think a victim of rape is to blame for their exposed bra strap.

[IamRad]

Bra straps aren't the devil. There's nothing provocative about them either.

And skin is just skin. Sometimes girls dress to please themselves not the men around them. And also, have you ever heard of "don't blame the victim?" Blaming a victim of rape is pretty ignorant. Rapists are sick people, and I don't think a victim of rape is to blame for their exposed bra strap.

totally agreed

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

ehh doesn't really matter as long as they are fine with it

[Trolling]

I think its fine as long as they dont mind it... But there should be limits... I saw a 400lb woman in the mall wearing booty shorts... I didnt know what I was looking at for a min -.- Then everything went white and I blanked out

[Trolling]

I think its fine as long as they dont mind it... But there should be limits... I saw a 400lb woman in the mall wearing booty shorts... I didnt know what I was looking at for a min -.- Then everything went white and I blanked out

[shortiiex]

i feel uncomfortable exposing so much skin...it feels werid
girls look nice with jeans as with a short skirt

[lbjshaq2345]

i like seein skin as long as the girl aint overweight as in 150+ basically if she weigh more than me i aint goin near her

[lilnatcat]

I feel uncomfortable exposing too much of my skin....lik in a mini skirt and a skimpy top.......thats not me.

I don't mind singlet and tank tops with like a pair of jeans.....cargos.....below the knee skirts..............but anything thats gotta do with mini's of anything, its a big nono for me.

[Chii]

And skin is just skin. Sometimes girls dress to please themselves not the men around them.

i agree, when i was younger i used to be on the chubby side and had no self confidence. as i got older, i slimmed down so i wear short skirts and tank tops and such because i feel good about my body now.

i don't dress that way to please random people on the street.

[*mishyerr*]

WHATEVER. This makes me laugh. I like to look sexy and dress sexy because I just feel FUN when I'm doing it. I don't do it to attract the boys, I just think it's absolutely fun to run free... my poor skin needs some wind sometimes :(

[kpx_danny]

i thought it was pretty attractive... i mean isnt that the reason why they are sometimes raped?

[vehvih]

According to the Bible:

God created human with skin.
^ therefor he/she should me happy with it.

I'm not Catholic though.

Anyway, when I dress up any look I want .. I don't do it for the boys, I do it for myself.. because I don't believe looks can't get you boys. Yeah, attract them.. sure.

[monkeylover]

What's wrong with bra straps? Jeez theyre just straps. And for skin it matters where...

[ParanoidAndroid]

I don't like showing off skin. I'd kill myself before i show my bear legs and cleavage to guys. I hate it when they whistle me for wearing corsets (which is why I wear sweaters with it). The main reason why i like to wear winter clothes all the time is because I want to get pale. Avoiding boys with skin fettish is the second part. Girls who wear stuff that are toooo short are whores (no offense). My brother told me when he saw this girl wearing a strapless and waistless shirt, he almost puked at all the skin and flab sticking out.

[ichigofan]

Well sometimes Bra Straps stick out because the bra might not fit correctly so Its not always on purpose. I hate it when its winter and I see girls trying to be "sexy" and showing lots of skin.. HELLO its freezing outside. I feel that a girl can be sexy without having to look like a slut-- IE nice fitting sweater with tight jeans is a hot look you dont always have to dress like a hooker. I dont go out trying to attract guys because thats not me but my ex'es say that when they see a girl who looks slutty- theyll approach her but not for anything serious just like a little fling or something...