jealousy, other guys hitting on my g/f Options

[sk8ing_matt]

yeah my g/f is really hot and almost every guy hits on her .......is it normal for me to get jealous or protective of her

[CrazayChristian]

c**k blocking you huh?

Well here's what you do, if she starts flirtin back, just play her game. Do so with someone else.

Don't act really needy, if some guy is being and arse then show your better than him. If your really big then your intimidating, if your adverage then make her know your better through your actions. (this under no circumstances means for you to go out and buy her stuff/ compliment her too much) The point is to keep what we call "sexual tension" between y'all. Think of it like a tug of war, You want the rope to be tight, but even. If you slack off by complimenting her then the slack of the rope makes things boring. What you do is be really cocky and funny. If your the better guy then it won't matter.

[shereyol]

yeah it's alright to feel jealous and protective, you should. talk to her and tell her how you feel about this

[howie]

of coz u should!
i will let da guys know my girl love me one only!!!!

[heyyfrankie]

if you have a strong relationship and alot of trust with her, than there is absolutely no reason why you should/would be jealous. IMO, i think that jealousy is a wasted emotion. don't worry.

[Vozedale]

Looks like you have been reading some of that Double Your Dating stuff CrazayChristian. It seems logical that it works, for dating, but I don't know if I really buy into that purpose.

1. You can't be yourself all the time.
2. This can lead to problems if love comes in.
3. If the relationship is serious and is headed for commitment or marriage, it doesn't work anymore.
4. You can't express how you feel, you hardly have someone to really talk to about your deep emotional issues, which is both very satisfying and leads to a deeper understanding and attachment between people.

I don't know if I will buy the books, but from what I have read online, this is my interpretation.

[NgocQuyen]

lols...i would be kinda jealous..but i'de probly get over it...i mean...if your girl is hot then that's to your benifit....she's on fire and she's with you? that must mean you're on fire too...YAY!! hahahaha...but yea...you should trust her...and if she's one of them girls thats just a cheating little trick then she's obviously not worth your time...

[beautifuls0ul_x3]

of course it is normal...wouldn't it be a little abnormal if u didn't? lol just a thought. but she is "your" girl so you really shouldn't be that jealous. if ya know what i mean. but if you trust her then there is no reason you really should be jealous and over protective of her. that's just my opinion though.

[HoodieObsessed]

yeah it's alright to feel jealous and protective, you should.  talk to her and tell her how you feel about this

yup yup

[CrazayChristian]

I read, but I don't have the books and crap. And I'm hypocritical toward it cuz I know what to do I just don't end up doing it.

That, and I have been around people who know what thier doing and they say basically the same thing, he can be nice and stuff, but it usually has to be after a while. In other words if Y'all have been an Item for a while then step up and do what you think would make her happy. Being natural is all you have to worry about DON'T TRY. And by that I mean, "Feel, don't think."

[SpedMonkee]

I read, but I don't have the books and crap. And I'm hypocritical toward it cuz I know what to do I just don't end up doing it.

That, and I have been around people who know what thier doing and they say basically the same thing, he can be nice and stuff, but it usually has to be after a while. In other words if Y'all have been an Item for a while then step up and do what you think would make her happy. Being natural is all you have to worry about DON'T TRY. And by that I mean, "Feel, don't think."

i do hope you know though that the DYD stuff is only to get women interested in you... that is unless you feel comfortable keeping it up. that stuff usually does not work for a long term and serious relationship.. it does help to use from time to time to keep things playful and interesting, but dont expect this to helo you in the long run


and for the main quesion lol.. yes it is normal to feel jealous..it happens to everyone. the best thing you could do is talk to her or not take it into consideration as much. if you really trust her you have no real reason to worry.

[moralsdecayaway]

dont worry about it man... guys do that with my girlfriend too.. dont try to get back at her though.. thats just immature.. just remind her why she is with you.. find your strengths and use them to your advantage.. the point is.. shes with you.. which means you are better than those guys.. dont let them think they are better than you.. if it gets to the point where you feel angry when you get jealous.. talk to her about it.. believe me.. dont hide things with your g/f.. shes your best friend also.. talk to her.. communication is the heart of all relationships..

[sk8ter4life750]

Talk to the guys and you might have to fight for her, or talk to her about it.

[Le_Jay]

Be cautious, not protective. For some dumb reason, girls like to assume you don't trust them if you're over-protective, not see it as a sign of affection.

[bad_girl]

duh its normal for yooh to be sensetive n shiet.. lol.

tell those guys "she's mine, hands off".

[EmmalieV]

Of course its normal , but guys should respect that she has a boyfriend.

[enyceXaddiction]

yes. that shows how much you care for her. but dont go crazy with it. your gf is gonna think your a physco freak. just talk to her about it. (camly)

[LiLBabe91800]

OF COURSE!

i mean, like even this one guy i was all over and we WERN'T even going out would like make me get off of him or let go of my hand if i even as did as much as even LOOK at a guy in a flirty-ish way.

and my ex-boyfriend was being protective even after HE broke up with ME.

its compeltly fine. and i do it too. if i'm going out with someone, no one is taking my guy away from me.