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 May 24 2005, 04:58 AM
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im not gonna go all into detail because it still hurts a little bit too much now. but last night my g/f, or should i call her my ex now...(hurts to say that), broke up with me. she said that she needed to get her school work straight, which i understand, but she was always on my case about mine first. she said this wasnt permanent and that once she gets this all straightened there will be the summer. i know that this is true and i shouldnt hold her back from getting this stuff done, but i just cant help resent her and hate her for her decision. i dont want to feel this way towards her, but its the only feeling i have right now besides pity for myself...
i know this isnt really a question or anything but it was good to vent it out a little and i do want to know if all of you think its wrong for me to feel this way towards her.. 
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May 24 2005, 05:53 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
well, yeah. if she cares a lot about her work and urs, then it's for the best isn't it? and the summer is like, what, a month away? suck it up.
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| *stephinika* |
May 24 2005, 09:35 AM
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i think you'll be fine, just try to keep your mind off of her. besides, its not permanent and summer is just about here like dustin said. try to relax and remind yourself its just a temporary thing.
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May 24 2005, 02:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
she was always on ur case and cared about you. it should be time to for you to care about hers. besides, school IS important.
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May 24 2005, 06:01 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
yea school is totally important and all, but y did she have to call it off? i mean she could've said hey lets cool it for a lil bit and wait to be all over each other untill summer starts. not a breakup...thats weird. i dunno i mean yea school is really important and all, but it seems that she was selfish in doing this. she just thought about her feelings and her school work, wat about urs?? and wat about how u would feel about this "breakup"?? i dunno, its deff. weird. sure she cares about you, but to go off and break ur heart?? yea thats caring all right. i'd say talk to her and find out wats on her mind. if its just school, then kool, but to like breakup and then say u're gonna get back together...wat makes her think that u will??? i dunno this is a lil too fishy for me...
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May 24 2005, 06:11 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
If you do really care for her, you'd know it's sometimes best to let her go. Besdies, it's not permanent. Patience is virtue.
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| *mzkandi* |
May 24 2005, 06:29 PM
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Dont be selfish. Dont worry we all get that way sometimes. If you want whats best for her and really care about her then you will let her do what she needs to do and be supportive
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May 24 2005, 08:19 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
it's not wrong. a lot of people go through this. but it'll be all worth it in the end when you 2 are back together
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May 24 2005, 08:26 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i would probably feel a little resentment...i mean i would hate her descision...but not her herself...you have to respect a girl that's willing to give up someone she cares for her education...not many girls are willing to do that you know? sometimes its love first then school...but i gots to give this girl props..xD i mean come on now..if you really cared about her wouldnt you respect her decision anyhow?
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 24 2005, 09:05 PM
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Look at the bright side, the more you wait, the more you can't wait to see that person. So when you see her shower her with attention puhahaa.
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May 24 2005, 10:32 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
you'll be fine, theres only like less than a month before summer comes
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May 25 2005, 02:21 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Summer is drawing near....why are you worrying about it? She's taking a break and she even said it was only until summer....she wants her grades up so you can't blame her for taking a break with you until school is finished....if you care about her....then a few weeks wait won't be that long...be patient.
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May 25 2005, 07:34 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it's fine to be a little pissed/annoyed but it's not okay to stay that way for too long...
don't worry too much, she's not your ex, it's a break not a break up. you both need to focus on getting a good future, how are you going to move out on your own and get married when you're both broke? |
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May 25 2005, 09:12 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
It's not a breakup. Don't get so fussed over it.
It's only a break. If you care for her, you'd do what she wants you to do... |
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