*sigh, don't know.. Options

[xlaydee_v]

Well, there's this guy i really really really really like. i dont feel like saying love because sometimes im not sure. and plus, im only 12. well anyways. about 2 months ago, a little longer..i told him i liked him. and he said he did too. and then i told him that i did a lot.. and he said he did too. i've been waiting since that day for him to ask me out. but it didn't happen. he usually goes to the park afterschool with me and some other friends. but he didn't after 2 or 3 days that i told him i liked him. but then even after he stopped coming; he told me he liked me a lot..

and near that period of time; i assumed he was avoiding me. he showed all the signs. and plus he didnt even act like he liked me. but i still did.

after a while, i just decided i was avoiding him rather him avoiding me because i though he was avoiding me. confusing, yes but.. you probably get what i mean.

then, finally he came back to the park for two days. and on that second day i asked him if he still liked me and all because not only have i not seen him; i didnt get to talk to him a lot too.. and this is how the convo went

me: do you still like me? dont lie if you dont.
him: i dont know
me: how do you not know lol
me: you do know
me: *sigh
me: alright so i guess you don't..?
him: what
me: do you or do oyu not?
me: no idk.
him: maybe
him: i really dont know
him: i wasn't thinkin bout it

and after he said that.. i was kinda really sad.. i mean.. i've been waiting for him and he just changes his mind.. *sigh.. but he's a bit akward.. so maybe i still have a chance? hopefully :T

well i've been going on this 2 week trip. its a trip where we go to another program but its liek school. and his class was supposed to go with mine but his teachers are too strict.. anyways. i started that trip the next school day after the day i asked him. my friends told me after 3 days when i started he started going back to the park. for a long time. and he leaves 10 minutes before i come. (i come back @ 3:05ish and he goes there starting from liek 2:35-2:40)some of my friends think he's avoiding me.. but some think its a coincidence. and some think its because he's ignored at times. but i dont really know lols. and he really wouldn't know when i come back because he didnt see me in a while.

also.. one day in the morning i was getting on the bus to go there. and my friend saw him and she told me and im like "huh?" cause it was early in the morning and im still slow then :p but anyways she says "he's there in the handball court!!" and i said "oo.." i felt so slow cause i passed right by it. then i look and she says "he was looking right at you -_-;;" so.. idk. i'm getting really mixed opinions and things about him. and the thing is that i really like him. i've liked him 8 times. and he's the guy i liked the most so far. :T

so guys.. what do you think?

do you think he lieks me?
do you think he's just doing things accidently that seems he doesnt like me?
or do i have nothing to worry about? O_o

i would like your opinion guys. <3

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

do you think he lieks me? Yes, he could be just shy
do you think he's just doing things accidently that seems he doesnt like me? Yes, people tend to do that, when they like someone alot.
or do i have nothing to worry about? Give it more time, perhaps talk to him more, it might give him moer courage.

GOOD LUCK Vania<3

[sweetest-emotion]

hmm deff. interesting. i fhe told u that he really likes ya, then he should've ment it. i dunno, when my guy (now bf) told me he liked me, he asked me out about a week after, since he still needed to figure sum stuff out (which we talked about). so i dunno, try ur hardest to be with him, call him, and just really confront him. ask him why he's been avoiding you. if he doesn't know, then, i hate to say it, but u can go out there and find sum1 else better for ya, sum1 who will not be such a pansy about it. just confront him. and u need to start to be with him, cuz when u asked him if he still liked u, it was prolly after he started avoiding u right? so u gotta start seeing him more, and then eventually he'll see how u're such a great person. u just gotta give it time, but i would ask him up front. ppl have to be honest in these situations.

[NgocQuyen]

lols...wow...what a story...lols...i really have no idea...i mean from the way you're telling it...i think he's either really shy and doesnt want to confront you....like he's avoiding you because he doesnt know what to say to you....maybe...because that's what my crush did to me...and it turned out that he thought i was cute and wanted to talk to me...so yeaaa......but iunno...have you tried telling him how you're truely feeling? i mean maybe the best thing to do was not to wait for him...but instead if you really like him then to just go for it and take the chance and tell him whats up...xD i mean straight up...dont leave anything out...xD hahaha....iunno that's what i would do...=]

[Shattered_Hope]

From what you've said....no, I don't think he likes you...and no I don't think he's doing things accidently that shows that he doesn't like you....What I do think is that he didn't want to reject you when you told him you liked him because I'm guessing you two were friends...and the fact that it was a shock to him....so I guess...he's avoiding you because he doesn't know what to do if he were to meet you face to face and have you ask him if he likes you and him afraid to tell you that he only sees you as a friend....I think this is what the situation really is...but it could be different.....talk to him about it....and try and get a straight answer out of him....and if it proves that he doesn't see you as more than a friend...then just forget about him and move on.

[xlaydee_v]

From what you've said....no, I don't think he likes you...and no I don't think he's doing things accidently that shows that he doesn't like you....What I do think is that he didn't want to reject you when you told him you liked him because I'm guessing you two were friends...and the fact that it was a shock to him....so I guess...he's avoiding you because he doesn't know what to do if he were to meet you face to face and have you ask him if he likes you and him afraid to tell you that he only sees you as a friend....I think this is what the situation really is...but it could be different.....talk to him about it....and try and get a straight answer out of him....and if it proves that he doesn't see you as more than a friend...then just forget about him and move on.

it wasnt a surprise for him because mad people started rumors and he found out SURPRISINGLY. weird casue i only told like 2 people and the whole world finds out. and.. idk he said he even liked me 4 or 5 times before.. ugh he's so confusing maybe you're right or wrong i dont even know what to think. i jsut gotta ask him lol

[separatewings]

I honestly think that he is just afraid of getting into relationships or he is just alittle freaked out. I would think that you should take things alittle slower with him. Let him come to you when he knows for sure. But at the same time. Don't get to hopeful. Be ready to have a leg out of the door. You deserve someone else who would return your feelings.

[x shootingstar x]

wow. sigh* this reminds me of my past, which is not that far bak. i used to like this guy and we were acting so weird.. i liked him a few times too.. (like him, stop, like him stop, so on.) he made me really happy and then really sad. But guess what? You don't have this kind of feeling when you open up. You probably don't know what I mean.

Well.. I think it's a maturity thing. You know those lil big crushes you have when you're young. It's kind of like that. (I know, I'm going off topic.. but I want to mention this.) Well, anyway, I don't know where I'm going on with this..

ANYWAY, I think he's thinking if he likes you or not. idk.

=[ i'm a bad helper.

[xlaydee_v]

wow. sigh* this reminds me of my past, which is not that far bak. i used to like this guy and we were acting so weird.. i liked him a few times too.. (like him, stop, like him stop, so on.) he made me really happy and then really sad. But guess what? You don't have this kind of feeling when you open up. You probably don't know what I mean.

Well.. I think it's a maturity thing. You know those lil big crushes you have when you're young. It's kind of like that. (I know, I'm going off topic.. but I want to mention this.) Well, anyway, I don't know where I'm going on with this..

ANYWAY, I think he's thinking if he likes you or not. idk.

=[ i'm a bad helper.

lols.. i basically get waht you mean. you're saying that once we admit how we feel to each other the feelings fade away cause it's akward and not how you expected it to be.. i felt like that once.. lol but anyways.. i may sound ignorant when i say this but.. it's not infatuation or anything like that..