Ever have that one girl who doesnt.... |
 May 23 2005, 04:06 PM
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ok. i got your attention. lol well theres this girl i went out with and we went steady for like 3 weeks, and out of no where she broke up with me, wont talk, wont anything. and i dont even know why she broke up with me.
PLEASE HELP!!! <3 bryan |
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May 23 2005, 04:11 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
I did that before
 Se probably liked you but was scared. How old ar eyou? I was 12/13 at the time. I guess I wasn't really ready for all the pressure of being "serious". And everyone kept talking to me about going out with him and annoying me..and we were very good firends before. And that's what I wanted back..because when we went out there was too much pressure to act "differently"...but after a few days I started talking to him again. And things got back to normal...sort of
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May 23 2005, 06:37 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Damn, she shafted you hard kid.
Well, the only way to get her attention is to return the favor. If she wants to be cold and standoffish; do the same. But there's a right and wrong way to do it. Don't become that bitter jerkoff that talks chit about her behind her back. Just act as if she doesn't exist. However, if you do happen to catch eyes with her, smile. If she bumps into you sometime, say hi. Its all a chess game. |
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May 23 2005, 07:01 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS
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May 23 2005, 07:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,578 |
well it was onli 3weeks nt being harsh bt it wasnt like months on end.....guess it still hurts thou
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May 23 2005, 07:09 PM
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 goal: become friggen off. member again. argh. Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 141,544 |
well first i want to know how old you are.
then i would ask you who asked who out. maybe u asked her out. and she was just "playing" along these kinds of relationships are stupid to contemplate over. coming froma girls point of view: some of us are bored, and stupid and just wanting to mess with boys. so we do these idiotic things. just dont talk to her, dont beg her to tell u things, and when she gets over you and the break up and when you do too... hopefully by tnought or tomorrow, then just pretend that she was just another person on the street. dont notice her. i mean, relationships should start out as good friendships.. maybe this 3 week thing, could be the greatest thing that happen this year... hope i helped. |
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May 23 2005, 07:13 PM
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Perhaps she heard a dirty rumor that you were cheating on her or something, or maybe she wasn't feeling the vibe anymore. Or she could've liked someone else and she wanted to go after them. Don't worry about her, there are others out there.
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May 23 2005, 08:28 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
hmm, harsh. she was prolly scared or just lost interest. (and i'm sorry but "going steady" isn't really 3 weeks, steady is when u commit to each other, like an immature marriage of some sorts). and u totally have the right to know why she broke up with you. i'd say totally talk to her asap and find out. u have the right to know why.
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May 24 2005, 03:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,570 |
Neither do we, at that we don't even know her name.
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May 24 2005, 07:00 PM
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ok im 16 and her name is chelsea and mines bryan
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May 24 2005, 08:18 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
either confront her. or ask her friends.
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May 24 2005, 08:19 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
ehh...why you tripping over some trick like that for then? i mean if she broke up with you within 3 weeks then maybe she just didnt feel the same way...you know...she could have a change of heart or something...some girls do that you know...its mad wack but its just the way it goes...you dont need to be tripping over that though...just go out...have some fun...meet new peeps and get over her...xD i would...=] life so much more fun that way
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May 24 2005, 09:46 PM
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./ Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,533 |
ok so what i got from lilxl0ser was that i should move on? im not good at ghetto interpretations. lol
bryan |
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May 24 2005, 10:18 PM
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We girls are such selfish being arent we? Anyways I have done it before to a guy. I wasnt wanting to get serious and I thought he would take a hint if I just never spoke to him again. Meh eventually he did get the hint and started dating a friend of mine.
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May 25 2005, 01:24 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
haha idid that before..^W^ i unno why..his frds probably
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May 25 2005, 03:58 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,868 |
she's probably afraid of commitment. heck, i'm 20 and i still like some independence even though i have a gf that lives w/ me.
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May 25 2005, 05:23 AM
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./ Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,533 |
yeah i get it now. thanks alot.
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