mothers, interfering with your relationships |
 May 23 2005, 11:16 AM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,783  |
my mom wont let me date she wouldnt even let my sister who's 17 go to the movies with a gay guy. how can i go out with out her knowing she always has to make sure everyone is with their parent when they leave where ever i go without her. and my crush, who's always talking and flirting with me knows i cant go out anyways. and his friend has a big mouth and my mom would find out. what should i do?
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May 23 2005, 11:31 AM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
dang thats harsh.. um talk to her. you could always just hang out somewhere like a friends house, you know the whole thing where you go over your friends, but he lives near by and comes over too.. and you just hang out. but really you need to try and talk to her and let her know whats going on.
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May 23 2005, 03:57 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
talk to your mom about it, tell her you are old enough to handle yourself
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 23 2005, 07:23 PM
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Arrange a meeting with a group of your girl friends and tell your crush and his friends to meet you at the park or something. Once you're mom sees you with your friends, tell her that ___ moms gonna drop you off. and make sure ___ mom is okay with it as well, and then she should be okay then you meet them at the park and have a grand old time.
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May 23 2005, 07:32 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Oh. Wow. You're mom is overprotective. I guess just tell her that you're meeting up with your friends and their parents are going to be there. Basically, lie. Ahaha. And if your friend has a big mouth, don't tell her where you're going.
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May 23 2005, 07:41 PM
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Talking to your mom about what you feel is key. The world is a crazy place today and parents sometimes feel the need to be overprotective. Tell her its tme she let you have a lil freedom.
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May 23 2005, 08:20 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
talk to your mom!! all u gotta do is lay it down the line and let her know what U want to do. let her know how u feel. don't go off behind her back since that'll only make things worse for you. talk talk talk to her and show her how u feel. if she still doesn't trust u, then there's gotta be some kind of reason, and u have the right to know what that reason is if she'll ever really trust you. for now i'd say to do as you're told, and just lay it out for her and let her know that its time for her to let you go. by the way...how old r u?? if u're younger than 16 i can kinda see where she's commin from, you're young and still need sum time to know who you are as a person. wait a few years, there will be PLENTY of time to date in the future. enjoy life as it is now.
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May 24 2005, 05:50 AM
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 deleted Group: Member Posts: 3,168 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,276 |
talk to your mom. that's all you really can do =)
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May 24 2005, 10:29 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
All mothers are like this....they all worry...just show her that you are responsible and that you are old enough. If she argues...and starts ranting about when she was younger....etc....just tell her that it's a different generation.
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