in luv!, First time luver and I need some advice |
 May 20 2005, 10:08 PM
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So theres this one guy, tim and I like him and hes my first crush. My one friend tells me that he totally flirts with me and I dont notice it. If you knew me or him you'd know that were not the type that would go out. I dont know wether I should ask him out or let him ask me out. What if he doesn't like me??? I mean, its already happened that I told my old friend that I liked him then she blabbed and it spread. Thank God she let me blame it on her otherwise I would have been screwed. But, anyways. Please help me out?!?!?!?
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May 20 2005, 10:11 PM
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 Call me C.Annie Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,994 |
Well, in my way of seeing this, you should just slowly tell him how you feel. Like flirt with him and talk about interesting things and things you guys have in common. Have him come over to your house and watch Billy Madison =) You should just totally be yourself and if he doesnt like you for who you are, hes not worth it. Because theres tons of other guys out there that probably want to date you later on in life or something.
Best wishes and good luck, XoXo//Annie |
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May 21 2005, 01:02 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
what exactly is your definition of first love?
 just get to know him better, and ask him out when the time's right, if he doesnt ask you first. and make sure your friend doesnt blab 
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May 21 2005, 08:46 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
that's not exactly what you call first love.
anyways, drop hints, flirt with him, then if he doesn't make the first move, then you do it |
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May 21 2005, 10:16 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Be patient....maybe he's just trying to get to know you more and find the right moment to ask you out....during this time...you should spend it to get to know more about him....just....give it time...and I guess....you can ask him out if you can't wait till he asks you out...
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May 21 2005, 04:09 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
QUOTE Be patient....maybe he's just trying to get to know you more and find the right moment to ask you out....during this time...you should spend it to get to know more about him....just....give it time...and I guess....you can ask him out if you can't wait till he asks you out... I agree i couldn't have said it better  I never been in luv so i don't know what it feels like  i guess if feels tingling inside?
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May 21 2005, 04:09 PM
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JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
QUOTE Be patient....maybe he's just trying to get to know you more and find the right moment to ask you out....during this time...you should spend it to get to know more about him....just....give it time...and I guess....you can ask him out if you can't wait till he asks you out... I agree I never been in luv so i don't know what it feels like i guess if feels tingling inside?
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May 21 2005, 04:10 PM
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JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
OMG I DOUBLE POSTED AND I DIDN"T EVEN KNOW IT!!!!!!!!!!!
BTW PPLZ sry for triple posting |
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May 21 2005, 04:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,570 |
Honestly? Stay friends... being friends rocks, like I like someone soo bad, but I just don't wanna go out with them, although they would never ask me out. But still... it's really different when your friends.
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May 21 2005, 04:14 PM
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 No Day But Today. Group: Member Posts: 1,405 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,184 |
Just ask him out when he's alone and not with his friends or whatnot. It's really not that scary once you actually start asking him. And if he rejects you, it's ok, you might think you will be really sad but you won't be. Just act cool and be like "Ok that's fine, I'll see you around"
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May 21 2005, 06:10 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Topic Moved to Relationships
(Community Center > Relationship) Eeeee my first time moving something in the Community Center. How can he be your first love when you guys aren't even going out ?  Well anyways, you should let him know that you uh.. love him. Try to ask him out when he's alone. Or something.
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May 21 2005, 06:34 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
a girl should never ask a guy out. that is WRONG. let him ask him YOU out. drop him hints. and acctally tell him you like him so if he does like you back he'll know what to do from then on.
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May 21 2005, 07:02 PM
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hmm...i doubt it's love it's called a crush. Well first find out if he's taken and if he likes you. you wouldn't want to send the wrong message. Then if he does like you i guess you should wait for him to ask you, unless you can't take it then go ahead and ask if you'd like to hang out first. Say you'll bring along friends to break the ice.
___+EDIT Oh yes if he says no when you ask him out, act like it's no big deal if you break down and cry a river it'll make you seem...you know so just say "oh okay, well see you around bye." then you can cry o_O |
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May 23 2005, 03:14 AM
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 Just sit and listen... Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,339 |
QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ May 21 2005, 6:34 PM) a girl should never ask a guy out. that is WRONG. let him ask him YOU out. drop him hints. and acctally tell him you like him so if he does like you back he'll know what to do from then on.  What's so wrong about it? That's just a double standard. And if I had a dime for every time some kid threw the word "love" around like a child playing fetch with a dog... well you know the rest. Love is a REALLY deep word, and something that probably won't be in your vocabulary with the appropriate meaning for another dozen years or so (I don't know how old you are and i'm too lazy to look it up...) Being in love with someone is something no one can really define easily... but it's basically knowing that you are 1 step away from moving in with each other, and then another step from getting married. The word you're looking for is crush |
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May 23 2005, 05:45 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
the two of u aren't even going out yet, how can it be a first love? maybe a strong crush, maybe an infatuation. anywho. get to know him better. flirt a little. drop some hints here and there that u would like to go out with him. and if u want to, u can make the first move. nothing wrong with a girl asking out a guy.
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May 23 2005, 09:23 AM
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 .bubblicious inspirations. @ www.bubbliciousoul.com Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,228 |
how could u be in love with him already when u both aren't even going out yet? well love is a very big word. but if u really fancy this guy then drop him little hints, let him know that u're aware of him, but want him to make the first move. let him know that u care, but don't go all over him. guys like to be noticed but not pushed. good luck*
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May 24 2005, 08:42 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
make sure he still likes you. and are you really sure that you love him? sometimes just because he flirts with you; doesnt mean that he likes you. sometimes they flirt with everyone. so you have to figure out if he really likes you first so you dont get crushed / embarrassed when you ask him out.
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May 24 2005, 08:50 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
umm...do you even know what love is?
i mean come on chick...you havent even went with him or anything and you're in love already? maybe you're not in love...but rather you have a really huge crush on him...now...theres nothing wrong with crushes... te he he....anyways...to handle your sich..i guess...you could try talking to him...i mean it wouldnt hurt...and since you're "so in love" with him...then why not talk to him?  
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