never thought I'd say it, but..., ...TOO MANY BOYS. Options

[me1issaaaa]

Go awayyyyy! *Hides*

What is it about the end of the year? People always figure it's the "best time" to tell each other how they feel. But... it's making things wierd.

Okay, so. Here it goes. I have a boyfriend. His name is Drew. And I love him to death. He's my best friend - I know I can trust him with my life and I adore every little thing about him. I have never been so happy about anything before. I don't have a doubt about our relationship. Only problem? He lives in Texas. But it's alright because I've known him for a long, long time and he's coming back to visit me a few times this summer, so no worries there.

Anyway, let's see... I have a friend and he has recently told me that he loves me. What the heck. I like this kid, but he's kind of creeping me out. I don't think he even knows about Drew, I'm afraid to tell him because I don't want to hurt his feelings or anything. I don't know, I'm trying to avoid him.

Next, there's this boy Chris. He goes to the new school I'm going to next year, he's cool and everything, but he's such a horny little badger. ...I'm not even going to get into that. He's cool, we have a bunch in common like music and movies and just... stuff in general, but he kind of creeps me out. I don't know.

And then we have Korry. He's an awesome person, I can tell him nearly anything. I had no idea he liked me until today when we exchanged yearbooks so we could sign each other's. He said, "It was great being able to meet you this year, too bad you're moving. P.S. - I was gonna ask you out, but I'm a loser." Now i don't really know how to approach him because....... I didn't know he felt this way. I'm very flattered, but I don't see him that way. Granted, when I first met him I did have a bit of a crush on him, but that was a while back.

Most recently, there's Adrian. My most recent stalker. Ahh. My friend Jordan and I have this routine where everyday at a certain time, we go to the vending machines just to hang out and talk and stuff. I'd seen Adrian around school a bit and... I liked his shoulers. Haha. They were all beefy and muscular and stuff. I don't know, I just thought it was cool. We just started talking for the first time about 3 days ago. He came up and asked if the yearbook I was holding was mine, just to break the ice, I'm guessing. Then he asks to see my picture, he hits on me and says I'm pretty and stuff, and he won't stop winking at me, as I just stand there... like "WTF, mate " Anyway, yesterday he put on a major flirt show. He kept touching my face and grabbing my hand to see my ring. He then takes it off and won't gve it back until I grab his hand to take it from me, then he puts it back on himself. All the while, I'm still just confused about everything, and the bell rings, so I tell him I have to go. We say bye, no hug or anything like that, then he grabs my hand and kisses me. *Dies* DON'T DO THAT DAMMIT. At this point, it was so unexpected I just turned around and walked away. Today I avoided him as much as I possibly could. Eww. I was so dumbfounded I didn't even think about telling him about Drew, I was just so...... shocked by everything.



Yeah. Icky situation. I don't question my status with Drew one bit, I don't want to be with anybody else but him. That's not the problem. I'm just confused about everything else. Why me? Why NOW? Why do these boys like ME of all people? I'm not that special. And I'm taken. So..... where do I go from here? I don't want to lose friendships or anything, but sadly, that's usually what happens once you tell people something like, "I have a boyfriend I don't like you that way."

EWWWWW. This is a gross situation.

Have any of you ever had this problem?

[_sarcastic_]

i had this problem before 3 guys liked me but none of them told me cept one of them (my crush), when he did i told him i liked him too. we got together, and one other guy knew about it so he went after another girl. the other one was just pissed off and dislikes us now.

tell that Adrian guy that you have a bf, you shouldn't think twice on telling him that. who knows maybe when you do, he will stop doing all those icky stuff.

[xenosaga]

yes definately...what i mostly do is go up to them and tell them how i feel..even though you mention your relationship with your boyfriend, maybe they would understand...if they become heartbroken, maybe you can talk him into finding someone else for him..

[Shattered_Hope]

Maybe they're acting like this because they don't know that you are taken....if you told them this...maybe the problem will all go away....

[aznangel4eva]

wow...i know EXACLTY wht yooh mean...
like rite now 7 guys like me @ my skoo...-n- there are sitll more that hit on me. -_-
its kinda gay since me -n- my bf JUST broke up so they're all kinda comin oughtta nowhere -sigh- aw wellz...gives you more of a choice...right? haha

[bambamboozle]

tell 'em, then they'll know to back off

[Just_Dream]

Mmm yea actually I've been in a situation similar to this lol. But not with so many guys! Damn haha! Anyways, I think the reason why people tell those they like that they are fond of them at the end of the year because they realize that at the end of the year that it's OKAY to tell those they like, that they like them. Since it is at the end of the year and all, it's almost as if all is forgiven once it is said, especially at the end. It's like relieving the burden, you know? Knowing that they couldn't have you and yea...

And when one does it at the end of the year, it's so much simpler because the other person is usually left speechless and I guess it's easier to MOVE ON if one is rejected. When you think about it, if you got rejected by a guy you liked (hypothetically speaking--also if you were still single) at the end of the year, it's easier to move on because during the summer you can find someone else and/or you don't have to see that person's face for a few months. You know what I mean? I think it sounds logical. :P

I've been in a similar situation. Okay lesee... back 3 years ago in 8th grade, I dated this one guy, but then I broke up with him. Then I started talking to this other guy more and he liked me. I still wasn't ready for a relationship, so I kind of just.. well... said that we should be friends lol. He's cool though--I thought he was cute back then. We went to the last school dance together, which was somewhere around June I believe? i can't remember haha and July was when school was over.

Also, There was this other guy who said he used to like me.. It's like.. Wow why is he telling me this now? Haha this is all in 8th grade!

Then there was this other guy who's been "in LOVE" with me since 6th grade and he told me he was getting over me and stuff, even though deep down he still had feelings for me. Yes, all of this at the end of the year.. WTH.

And THEN, on the 8th grade trip to a college (stupidest thing ever!), I met this guy and I sort of liked him. But at the same time, I didn't want to be in a relationship, since it was a week before 8th grade promotion haha. But yea in the end, I didn't date him, even though I did like-like him and called him a lot over summer haha.

Then freshman year I met the love of my life. My story ends here since I'm still with my beloved...

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

You should tell them that they're a great friend and all but your taken and you aren't that kinda person o_o

[KELLYYY]

Yeah. About 4 guys asked me out in ONE week. I was still going out with my ex. I just had to break it to them.

[angelrevelation]

horny little badger!!! HAHAHAHAHA lol srry...

you'll have to tell those guy's you're taken... or else drew might get the wrong idea lol. well i guess you should feel flattered though (but creeped out, especially from that last guy... i can imagine). i've had 2 or 3 (not quite sure) guys like me in the past month or so, but not that many, not to mention definite ones you're lucky lol

[enyceXaddiction]

just tell them now before you hurt their feelings even MORE

[WrathOfOnigo]

I WISH!! Well I wish that a lot of guys would have crushes on me. But not while I had a boyfriend.
You should probably tell them about Drew and just continue your life without letting them get in the way of your relationship.

[jordanriane]

Wow, that is just..

First off, you stated that those guys are creeps, and that way you post it, sounds as if though you're near being disgusted. That takes care of that situation.

Keep on dating a guy in a long distance relationship (where you never see them)--those ALWAYS work out.[/sarcasm]. Especially when you rarely see them; It's so easy to lie.

[PinkTrash]

well; you'd have to tell those creepy boys that you really aren't intrested and that you're taken with someone that you loved. If you dont want to ruin your friendship; then you should probably do it fast before they get more madly inlove with youu and want you more; and you just suddenly break it to them that youre really not intrested. its the best way. :) and if they understand; theyre true friends. if they dont; well then who cares =| theyre creepy guys anyway.. ;P

[xlaydee_v]

lols wow. maybe because you're really pretty, and you have an attractive personality. idk you. i can't judge that. but guys like you for who you are. and yes it is you above all other girls becuase idk it's like that for them right now i guess. lols you can't force them to not like you.. because idk that's a bit immature and i'm 12 and i know that. and the whole rejection part.. omfgsh it's really hard for me too. i don't want to hurt their feelings nor do i want to lose them as friends.. but the best thing to do is just tell them before they get even more hurt when you tell them at the last minute.
good luck

[me1issaaaa]

Wow, that is just..

First off, you stated that those guys are creeps, and that way you post it, sounds as if though you're near being disgusted. That takes care of that situation.

Keep on dating a guy in a long distance relationship (where you never see them)--those ALWAYS work out.[/sarcasm]. Especially when you rarely see them; It's so easy to lie.

I suppose, but... I trust him. I know him. There's no problem there.

Thanks for the suggestions, though. I'm not even really sure I'll be seeing Adrian anymore since he's a senior and I'm moving and... three days left of school. So yeah.

I honestly don't know why all of these people suddenly tell me this. It's making things wierd. Rooooar.

Drew and I talked and he says he trusts me. I believe him, and trust him 100% in return. For instance, last night he went to a show and wore a sticker that says "Property of Mel". Girls asked if "Mel" was his gf - he said yes and that I'm the one he loves. Cheesy, yes just a bit, but I love it. And him.



.....I completely forgot what else I was going to say.