Ways To Get Over Him?, Please Help! Options

[malimars]

Sorry if there was other topics about this but I have never seen any,I really like this guy but he's in love with some other girl and we would be nothing more then friends so yeah Im just wondering whats your idea's about it!Like its not as easy for me as most girls for the fact that he is at my house everyday all day,So basically I always have to see him and I live here so theres no since of always going out I usually am always out but when were not together were always texting so theres like no difference and I stopped texting and talking to him for reasons and I dont know its just not helping!Anyone please Help!

[aera]

one thing you should do is to keep communicating with him. maybe he really does like you but if you stop communicating with him, then you might be sending him the wrong message. try talking to him, maybe flirt?

[Shattered_Hope]

Well.....it normally takes time...but I don't think you should just like avoid him...tell him why you haven't been talking to him and maybe....how you feel about him too...he deserves to know....

[malimars]

He left my house one time and I was never expecting him back so i texted him telling him to always remember I loved him and so on and he texted me back telling me he loved me so much and so on and then after ward when I heard he was coming back he texted me telling me he only told me that stuff to make me happy so I dont know if he ment it or was embarrassed afterwards..So ya I did tell him my feelings but then changed the story around saying my friend was the one texting cause I was embarrassed and after telling him all that an seeing him again I dont know lol

[malimars]

This one is a toughy eh?Lol i seen so many people come cheak it out but cant reply lol its hard!

[malimars]

This one is a toughy eh?Lol i seen so many people come cheak it out but cant reply lol its hard!

[xenosaga]

don't double/triple post!

well you can try talking to him about how you feel, maybe it'll knock some sense into him about your feelings?

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Well take up an activity if he asks tell him you were doing that. You can try getting over him by just finding someone else, perhaps someone who feels the same way toward you. Other than that there's no need to avoid him, it's gonna make him feel bad.

[PinkTrash]

sometimes its just really hard to get over someone.. and you just have to wait till an incident happends and you just miraculously get over him. or maybe; you will suddenly realize you're too good. i dont know, sometimes things just happen..

[CrazayChristian]

Let me lead you by experiance,

I wanted to get over someone (and currently still havn't) and I always heard to push them out and forget about them. So, I stoped talking to them and they did nothing to keep talking to me... I cut almost all communication and they were indiffrent. I'm not saying it wouldn't work, I'm just saying it put me in one of the worst Situations I had ever been in and well... I risked our friendship.

On the other hand, time can be a helper. Most of the time guys don't just jump into relationships with someone, it takes warming up. If you flirt with him a bit, then usually the little attraction switch begins to toggle.

And saying "I Love you" loses it's meaning after a while. I mean now I hear "Love" right and left between friends and you no longer can tell when people mean it anymore. When he said "I said it to make you happy" That's usually a hit towards "I said it because I care about you and I might actually mean it" On the other hand, guys will do certain things to entertain a girl. Depends on how he is.

All I can say is even though a relationship may rock, friendships rock longer.(I don't care if it's cheesy I had to learn the hard way)

-Joshua

[enyceXaddiction]

i wrote a entry some what like that. yeah the guy i like likes another girl to but just dont give up on him just yet. my friends ususally say "get over the guy when you start losing feelings for him"

[malimars]

Tnx Crazay Kinda helped ya i know ignoring him dont help and when i do he always talks to me anyways either thru texting or face to face and i just tell him i dont wanna talk to u and it really hurts him and i dont wanna do that cuz it hurts me too But i have gotten over him alot from before I started to notice all the bad things instead of good things about him....and my friends point things out about him but u gurls know how it is no matter what everything is cute about them lol But the more ive been trying the more i have been succeeding lol

[Shana_Kru]

hmm i just say let it be cos i know what its like when youre with a guy an anotha girl likes him.....u eitha needa be str8 up an ask him wats up an if u guys r as close m8s as it sounds it shouldnt effect ur friendship eitha way...but yeah if hes wit unutha girl and happy and you really love him then you should be happy that hes happy..on the utha hand he mite like you so do watevah

[malimars]

Lol i dunno its so confusing but i just wanna get over him like seriously its making me so mad i dont wanna like him!grr lol!