Losing your self |
 May 18 2005, 05:12 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,896  |
I've been changing my personalities each year.But I don't feel good about it.I'm always lonly at the end.I get ditched and every friend I had leaves me.Some years I even be myself and show my old friends what I really act like. But still it happenes. I think I'm always going to be a loner. Should I keep doing the same thing over again? Should I just stay alone because no one fits in the same catagory as me? Should I just do suicide? What do I do? I don't know!!! I feel miserable if I'm not myself and I don't want to lose my friends like all the time!
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May 18 2005, 05:16 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Hey, at least you were being yourself. Don't suicide, you'll find better friends than that.
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May 18 2005, 05:38 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Instead of making friends with anyone....wait for the people who you actually have many things in common with and then....you won't be ditched. Give it time.....sooner or later....you'll make real friends that'll accept you for who you are...just be patient.
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May 18 2005, 09:28 PM
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Don't try to make friends, they will come to you. You'll find them eventually.
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May 18 2005, 09:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 137,888 |
all i can say is be urself,try to be the one to stand out they'll notice u.......an yea dont make friends let friends comto u.suicide,........we have too many things to worry about in the world and u want to commit somthin like that.
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May 18 2005, 09:59 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i know what u mean...im kinda like u..i change every year, so my friends started hating me and all...but now i found friends who accept for my different ness..just wait for the right ppl to come to u..dont commit suicide..its just not worth it..if u want someone to talk to, feel free to pm me...
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May 18 2005, 10:57 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ May 18 2005, 2:38 PM) Instead of making friends with anyone....wait for the people who you actually have many things in common with and then....you won't be ditched. Give it time.....sooner or later....you'll make real friends that'll accept you for who you are...just be patient.  exactly. Be yourself, if your freinds can't handle it, than they arn't your true freinds 
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May 19 2005, 06:54 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
be patient, just be yourself instead of having different personalities maybe that's why they're having a hard time getting along with you. anyways, find friends who you have a lot in common with, then they won't leave you
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May 19 2005, 08:01 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,928 |
Well, Im pretty much another simliar person. Except I only have 2 faces, all happy and optimistic, and another, the real one, is negative, depressing, pessimistic, calm and philosophic (sp?). Well, in f1 and first half of f2, I showed my happy face because i believed everyone liked my happy face, and I did get some 'fake' friends by following some other guy. But in the latter half of f2, I just got pissed off always acting so I showed my real me and everyones like Woah cuz they got used to the happy me and most of the so called friends just left me cuz I dint follow anymore. Right now, In my near finished f3 (Im forteen just so you know) Im still pretty lonely cuz I dont follow others, but It felt warm cuz I actually made 2 friends who would accept my real personality and stuff and they are really good friends who will share my problems etc. Well, I just have to say go be yourself and dont regret it. Real friends will come to you in the future and just let it flow :)
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May 19 2005, 05:04 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I agree w/ Shattered_Hope. Don't make yourself change because of your friends. Make new friends that appreciate who you are.
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May 19 2005, 06:06 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
wow, suicide would be the worst answer possible. you have to "find yourself" which obviously sounds so cliche its not even funny. changing personalities? you're apparently not comfortable with the way you are. just think about it, are you changing around to be more like other people? if you are, seriously stop. no one wants to be friends with a person with no backbone. find your own interests and ways of life. real friends would care about you no matter what. and there's probably people out there you havent lost, you just think you have. because i've been like this too, trust me. you're grouping everyone together and saying you've lost all your friends, but in reality, they feel as if they've lost you. try and connect with them again. if that doesnt happen, join some club or activity in which you can meet people. go to camps during the summer. get interested in a sport/ instrument.. something. and make friends. just MAKE SURE the sport you're interested in you're actually interested in and not faking it, because then you'll never be happy. just try to be yourself and see how it turns out.
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May 19 2005, 08:07 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
just be yourself and let some REAL friends come to you. but whatevery you do...DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE! IT ISN'T THE ANSWER!
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May 19 2005, 08:14 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
the number one thing is to not commit suicide. you dont have to change yourself to make friends. maybe the reason why people arents friends with you now is because theyve noticed that youve been changing your personality alot. just be yourself and friends will come to you.
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May 19 2005, 09:45 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
wow i can definitely relate to you, i change personalities every year. i havent lost that many friends though, i just don't talk to them as much. however, this year in the past month or so i've lost a few of my very close friends and i miss them dearly.
and, dear, i've thought about suicide before too. i guess i'm being a hypocrite, but don't think about it. |
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