Ok. Yes. Annie has boy troubles =( |
Ok. Yes. Annie has boy troubles =( |
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![]() Call me C.Annie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,994 ![]() |
Ok so theres this guy that I like, right? And I dont really hang around with him or anything but we do talk and stuff. My problem is is that Im not really like him...I mean like Im not with the "in" crowd. I mean, they like me and stuff but I feel wierd hanging around with them. And I've tried to hang around with him before with some of my friends and a few of his but it didnt really work (cat fight) so what Im trying to say is, how can I get him to know that I like him without really saying it and to not be so shy around him? And yes, I have tried the "Get him to notice you" thing but it didnt quite work...
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*suddenly she* |
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maybe this should be in relationships?
as nike puts it, just do it. and clobber him when he's alone. well, maybe you shouldn't clobber him. |
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![]() Call me C.Annie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,994 ![]() |
But whenever I try to it comes out as "Can i borrow a pencil" or something really stupid
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![]() Hi, I'm Jo. ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,563 ![]() |
give him the "looks" as in "i'm in to you". Laugh at his jokes. Hit him(lightly!). It doesn't matter if you don't have the same friends. My boyfriend and I didn't have the same friends but then we went out and we just naturally became friends with eachothers friends. be cute around him. Flirt with the single guys in his group of friends. But be yourself. If it's meant to be it'll happen.
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QUOTE(suddenly she @ May 17 2005, 5:12 PM) maybe this should be in relationships? as nike puts it, just do it. and clobber him when he's alone. well, maybe you shouldn't clobber him. [FONT=Times][SIZE=7][COLOR=green]uhmm...well...how will he know if you don't tell him?? but all i can say..is that make sure you'll say it if you think he likes you or rather if he tell you he likes you...so thet you wouldn't be broken hearted... ![]() |
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![]() Tasty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 ![]() |
hmm toughie. maybe try to get him alone, ya kno?? or see if he has ne friends outside "that" crowd, or like ppl that u kno and they kno him, ya kno? then ask them to hang with him and u go 2. or i would say just don't try to change for him, try to get him alone sumtimes, u kno like at his locker, say an occasional "hey" or try to start a convo (not by asking him to borrow a pencil..lol) and really get him to want to talk to ya. basically if u show him that u're interesting, he'll prolly be ready to leave the borring crowd and he'll WANT to hang with u since u'll be a breath of fresh air to him.
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moved to relationships.
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Well when I firsted like a guy, I showered him with attention, hung out with him. And he found out I liked him then we stopped talking -__-;; well I guess you can always drag your friends along everytime you want to talk to him go like "Oh let's say hi to ______" ahaha xD my friends always want me to do that but I'm a super shy freak p_p;;
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QUOTE(Annie5332 @ May 17 2005, 5:35 PM) hey, i did the same thing before. it's natural. ![]() but what's your friend status right now? consider what you usually talk to him about and just build up the friendship. you'll be much more confident after. |
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![]() Hah! Its funny cause its true... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 ![]() |
Flirt with him. Stare at him in "that way" and just play around with him. Try to be more assertive.
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![]() memories live FOREVER<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 ![]() |
give him the hints. flirt, talk with him more, etc. if he still doesnt get it then just tell him.
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![]() I'll never be who I was again.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 ![]() |
drop hints...if he doesnt c it, just go up to him and tell him..
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Jessica ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 ![]() |
Hrm, it depends. You know you don't have to hang out w/ his friends neccessarily a lot. It doesn't really matter to me, whether I feel comfortable w/ his friends or not, as long as I feel comfortable around him.
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![]() Call me C.Annie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,994 ![]() |
Ok, well I asked him...and he said no because he doesnt like me.
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Maybe you should like start talking to him more. he'll come around sooner or later. NEVER do the "can i borrow a pencil" thing. It's really tacky and plus, why would you ask HIM to borrow a pencil. let him get to know you better and when he wants to come out of his shell, he will and you'lll know it.
Mooch Mooch, LaddLuver1 |
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