My boyfriend..., he's really shy, should I make kiss him? |
 May 15 2005, 05:51 PM
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If you knew me, you would know that I DO NOT MAKE THE FIRST MOVE, I believe it's the guys job.. I have never made the first move
 but my boyfriend, is very.. VERY shy, and I doubt he would make the first move, but after he would kiss me alot. So should I make the first move, or confront him on being more affectionate?? 
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May 15 2005, 05:57 PM
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it kind of depends on u..if u're willing to wait and let HIM make the first move, then just..wait! haha if u can't wait, just make the first move =] first time for everything!
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May 15 2005, 05:58 PM
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it's really up to u do the decison...
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May 15 2005, 06:19 PM
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 between your smiles and regrets Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,217 |
hm well. i think you should get like a friend thats close to him to talk to him being like "oh did you and your name do anything yet?" then he prolly be like "no" and then that person will be like "well i think you and her should kiss, because i know she`ll kiss you back"
or .. you can just make the first move when it seems like the right moment. |
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May 15 2005, 06:20 PM
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lol, thanks
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May 15 2005, 06:28 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
GO FOR IT! trust me, i'm a shy girl too, and if my bf didn't make the first move, i dunno if i would've, but if he really likes ya, and if he's all nice around you, i say that you can just mention sumthin like that to him, like "hey, lets just sit here and cuddle" and then look into his eyes, cup his face, and plant one on him! he'll get the message...just suck it up and kiss him. a relationship is all about taking chances.
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May 15 2005, 07:50 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Just go for it! You don't have anything to lose.
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May 15 2005, 10:33 PM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
Okay, well, a little story, not to freak you out oranything.
Haha but im not one to make first moves either. &so one night i was at my friends and hesaid if i kissed him first then ed kiss me back. so i went in to kiss him and got nervus and completely missed. >_< hah. but id say if you feel like at the momet, you should make the fist move, then o for t. unless he WANTS wait, |
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May 15 2005, 10:48 PM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
for me, it usually depends on the atmosphere, situation and both moods. and i just go with the flow, do what i feel like. Dont be afraid to make the first move! .. Cant we have a both lean in sorta thing?
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May 16 2005, 05:43 AM
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 weird Sarah. yes,me... Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 |
u said your bf is very shy, i really want to know how u both be together
 mm...... if he's really very very shy, u should do the first move^^" or maybe u can set a romantic background, push him to do sth. |
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May 16 2005, 06:50 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if he's really shy then who made the first move to ask the other person out.
if he did, then just wait soon enough when he's ready he'll make the first move to kiss you if you did, then this shouldn't be too hard to do, making the first move. gather up the courage and plant one on him |
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May 16 2005, 01:25 PM
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yes go for it, kiss him first! good luck
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May 16 2005, 09:42 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Make the first move or....just be patient and wait....you can't really do anything about the fact that he's shy..
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May 17 2005, 07:28 PM
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it is hard to make the first move but sometimes you just gotta go for it...
maybe when you say goodbye to him...kiss him on the lips....if he likes it he'll start making with you |
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