Boyfriends saying its ok to snog other guys |
 May 15 2005, 12:14 PM
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I think its out of order my boyfriend told me its fine if I snog other guys I'm so confused
 What do I do? 
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May 15 2005, 12:41 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Dear, this shouldn't be here.
 This should be in either Relationships or the Girls' Locker. Anyway, do you mean "snog" as in "snag"? Otherwise, I don't know what you're asking.. If you mean get with other people at the same time, that's not a good idea. |
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May 15 2005, 01:15 PM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
"Snog" as in "make out," you know, kissing. It's a British-ism
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May 15 2005, 01:57 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
^ Oh! Okay, thanks.
I guess I should've looked at urbandictionary before posting. :P
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May 16 2005, 03:53 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
What the heck? Snog? Hahahha what a cute word.
Topic Moved to Relationships (Community Center > Relationships) |
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May 16 2005, 04:53 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
wth?! ur in a relationship and he is telling u its ok to make-out with other people? i dont get that at all...if u really dont like the idea talk to him about it, because to me that sounds really stupid
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May 16 2005, 02:55 PM
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That's weird.
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May 16 2005, 03:15 PM
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 between your smiles and regrets Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,217 |
1) you could talk to him about how you feel.
2) or you break up with him because like this will prolly show that he "snogs" with other girls |
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May 16 2005, 03:51 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
omg snog??? i'm glad i read this book written by some british lady or i wouldnt have a clue as to what you were talking about...anyways if my man said i could kiss other dudes i would think he was really feelin me that much. he probably kissin other girls
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May 16 2005, 07:36 PM
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haha i know what snog means...i love british slang.
 anyways, um yeah that is kinda odd...i'd talk to him about it and yeah it kinda sounds like an excuse for him to go snog other girls... 
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May 16 2005, 07:41 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
no. its wrong. hes might saying that because he does it.
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May 16 2005, 07:45 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
nope, not okay to me. i kno if my bf went off and kissed sum1 else, i would kick his butt and tell him to explain himself, truthfully, and not some "we just fell on each other blah blah" crap. i believe that a kiss is something very special, and that it should be shared with some one you love.
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May 20 2005, 12:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,697 |
i say no
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May 20 2005, 06:13 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Sounds like he doesn't care about it much...I don't know...but this might be a sign that he doesn't see your relationship with him as important...and he might be hinting a breakup?
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May 21 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
uh...no if he tells you taht you can then he will too
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May 21 2005, 10:17 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
that's just wrong, if he lets you do that maybe he's also doing it to other girls. talk to him about it
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May 21 2005, 11:07 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
i don't think that's a very good bf, i mean i would get very jealous if my bf did that to another girl.
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May 22 2005, 01:22 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
Wth? O_o. No I don't think so. Idk know why but it kinda sounds like he said that to you so that he could do that himself to some other girls. But then again I could be wrong. I just don't think it's right he said that.
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May 22 2005, 01:45 AM
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 Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
lol if ur boyfriend lets u snog with other guys then obviously he isnt a very good boy friend now is he? dump him, get a better one ^_^.
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May 22 2005, 01:50 AM
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 kATARiNA Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 133,352 |
i hope its not!
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May 22 2005, 09:27 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
hmmm i dont think it would be ok if he allows that then he really dont care towards you that much i say break up with the jerk
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May 22 2005, 11:27 AM
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that is one weird guy...
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May 22 2005, 11:36 AM
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Im Gavin HI!! Group: Member Posts: 802 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,644 |
i dont know to either say he is secure.. or extremely insecure.... id have 2 meet him..... bot snogging with other guys.... he probably wants to catch u so he can dump u... i dunno..
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May 22 2005, 12:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
He probably is already 'snogging' up anotehr women out there.
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May 22 2005, 02:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
wtf. NO it is not okay. i really want to hear from someone that says it's okay.
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May 22 2005, 02:31 PM
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Uhmm, no. That's kind of a red flag saying, "HEY! I'VE BEEN SCREWING/MAKING OUT WITH OTHER GIRLS!" BUt I'd probably take advantage of the opportunity.
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May 23 2005, 03:27 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
If you like that sort of thing I don't care what you do.
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May 24 2005, 05:43 AM
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haha then it would be time to rethink your relantionship
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Jun 9 2005, 06:51 AM
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 My weakness is that I care too much. Also that I love you with a Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,426 |
No no definately not. When you're in a relationship wih someone you shouldn't go snogging with other guys, it'll just give him areason to break up or to do the same with other girls. I would talk to him if it bothers you this much. And ask him why he said this.
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Jun 9 2005, 11:29 AM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
a total no no
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Jun 9 2005, 11:31 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
He's been snogging, shagging and any other 'ing' with other girls already. Dump him, move on.
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Jun 9 2005, 07:44 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ He might be saying that because he's guilty of doing "those things" with other girls and he wants to say, "Well you can do it too!" I don't know how easy it is for you to just dump him, but I say you have a 1 on 1 with him and get to know him a bit better. If he thinks it's okay for you to snog other guys, maybe he's not ready for a REAL commitment.
It's good that you're not saying, "Oh cool!" and that you're actually analyzing the situation. 
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Jun 9 2005, 07:51 PM
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 Love_101_213 Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,565 |
Hell to the no thats not okkk
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Jun 10 2005, 02:28 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
what?? ur boyfriend is telling you that it's okay to makeout with other guys? whoa...thats not good. I would def consider dumping this guy. Because if he thinks that it's okay for u to be kissing other guys, then he probably is using that to justify that it's okay for him to be kissing other girls. Why would you want a boyfriend that would want either of those things? yeck! lol very much consider not being in this relationship
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Jun 12 2005, 12:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 108 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,903 |
if he says its fine for you to "snog" other guys; it means he is probably snogging other girls. anyway, i voted no cause i would never tell my gf that it was ok to do anything with anyone else but me :) - i trust her so i dont have to worry
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Jun 12 2005, 07:15 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
He's saying that because he just snogged another girl probably. Thats what people do, cover up for what they just did by saying its okay for everyone else to do it..
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Jun 12 2005, 08:22 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(SpedMonkee @ May 16 2005, 4:53 AM) wth?! ur in a relationship and he is telling u its ok to make-out with other people? i dont get that at all...if u really dont like the idea talk to him about it, because to me that sounds really stupid  that is exactly what i was about to say!!! |
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Jun 13 2005, 12:37 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
QUOTE(xromanticKISS @ May 16 2005, 12:15 PM) 1) you could talk to him about how you feel. 2) or you break up with him because like this will prolly show that he "snogs" with other girls i totally agree w/ this. This might be true or he was joking. |
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Jun 13 2005, 02:31 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
If you are comfortable with it then go ahead. If not, ask him why he wants you to make out with other boys.
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Jun 14 2005, 03:48 PM
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mmm...he could feel that he's not good enough for you if he says that =\ I say no.
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Jun 14 2005, 10:41 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
He is probably just saying this to you because he wants to "snog" with another girl or already did it. So no!
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Jul 8 2005, 12:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 636 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,646 |
snog usually refers to make out, french, ect. (sry if someone else already explained)
hmm to me i think it means he doesnt care about you.. |
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Jul 8 2005, 12:21 AM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
If it means make-out. THEN NO.
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Jul 8 2005, 05:34 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
Aha. You must be British. The land of Earl Grey and snogging. "How do you do?"
Lol I say it means he doesn't care, and that means he doesn't love you. |
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Jul 8 2005, 06:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
often, when we want our bf/gf to do smthn..but we dont wanna tel them we want them to do it. WE do it..and hope that they'd do the same
i think he just wants u to allow him to "snog" with other girls but still..that is just soo wrong in every way possible. |
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Jul 9 2005, 05:25 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Hes probably giving you approval to snog other guys so he won't feel so guilty about snogging other girls. Maybe?
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Jul 9 2005, 08:51 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
maybe hes telling you its okay to snog, because he wants to snog. tell him how you feel. thats really weird tho...
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Jul 14 2005, 12:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
uh NO. That's consider cheating. Feelings might develop & such.
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Jul 14 2005, 01:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
flirting is okay with other guys. but snogging??!?!?! (it means kissing right) NO that is wrong!!!! no exceptions
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Jul 14 2005, 02:51 PM
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Good-Bye. Group: Member Posts: 2,100 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 161,149 |
That just weird.
Like Tina said... QUOTE flirting is okay with other guys. but snogging??!?!?! (it means kissing right) NO that is wrong!!!! no exceptions Flirting is totally fine [I guess] but snogging is just plain NO. [Haha I just said what she said] Yes mayb he doesnt love you. I mean you can kiss anyone and a kiss is suposse to be special. |
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Jul 14 2005, 10:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
i dont think it is ok.. as much as i may like/love him.. i still dont think that would be fair ... that would be stupid... wth is the point of the relationship anyways if you allow you man to do thaT?!?
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