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 May 14 2005, 08:59 PM
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 sO seDuctivE  Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,009  |
Here's my recent dilemma. Any help is DEEPLY appreciated.
I've been with my wonderful boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months. He cheated on me with another girl one year, 8 months into our relationship, I found out and he then apologized and promised me he would change and it wouldn't happen again, me, being the foolish person I am, actually believed him. Since then, I've had suspicions, but whenever I mention them he usually gets mad at me so I try to keep my mouth shut as much as possible. This morning however, he told me to check his e-mail for a certain one he was supposed to be recieving so he gave me his password and I went into his account. He has nothing to hide, right? So, I looked through his sent messages, messages in his trash and his inbox, and there were a lot of e-mails from his ex-girlfriend. Apparently, in his sent messages, he was telling her he loved her and what have you. This was one of the e-mails he sent her: I have the right number, it's the same one you gave me on my other cell..the one i texted you from. I don't know..I mean I WANT to be around..I seriously do...and I know youre a blunt person, I won't tell you you arent...but i mean...I dont know. I'll email you Okay...I'll explain to you why it hit me like it did. In a previous e-mail she stated she was going for surgery to have her tonsils taken out, and she said if he wanted to be with her that badly (which in a previous e-mail he said he did) he would be around...and he stated in the above that he wants to. Anyway, the e-mail that made me burst into tears was 2 of them. The one on our anniversary when he told her "I love you" and the other one where he was referring to when she told him she would take him back and he goes "you have no idea how happy that made me." And yada yada yada. Well...the other e-mails were along the same, him saying "I love you. I always loved you and I always will love you" and how much he wants her. She never said I love you back, btw. I talked to the hoe-bag and she told me he never mentioned he was with me, however he said he was with some girl but it was nothing serious. Interesting. The last e-mail I showed you above, happened on 5/10/05, just 4 days ago. I got mad, I cried, and I wrote her 2 letters and I don't know what to do. I want to be with him, but he lied to me...and i think he will continue to do so. should i trust him? |
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May 14 2005, 09:36 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
no you shouldn't trust him, dump him. he's a jerk, he didn't even tell his ex that he's with you, and he told her it wasn't serious. 3 years sounds pretty serious to me. he will continue to do this, just dump his sorry a$$
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May 14 2005, 09:45 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Honey, hurry and dump his ass. You gave him a chance the first time he cheated on you. You shouldn't trust him.
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May 14 2005, 10:01 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
be strong and be brave. break it off with him...
and then put on steel toed boots, kick him in his family jewels, and make sure he can't ever breed to make more aholes like himself. |
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May 15 2005, 12:06 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
dump him..he isnt worth ur time...
and hope u feel better... 
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May 15 2005, 02:39 AM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ May 14 2005, 6:45 PM) Honey, hurry and dump his ass. You gave him a chance the first time he cheated on you. You shouldn't trust him.  I completely agree, he sounds like a complete jerk  he's not worth it
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May 15 2005, 03:05 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
dump his sorry ass. you shouldn't even have gave him a chance back then when he first cheated on you. he can't be trusted.
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May 15 2005, 07:06 AM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
Just finish with him, he sounds like a lying bastard. You shouldnt have finished with him when he cheated on you at first because there was always the chance he could do it again.
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May 15 2005, 08:44 AM
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 between your smiles and regrets Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,217 |
i think you should dump him because it seems to me that he isnt the "boyfriend material". + you deserve sooo much better, not a scumbag thats gonna go on having some relationship with some othergirl and breaking yourheart
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May 15 2005, 10:09 AM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
I suggest you break it off , but first talk to him about it to exlpain himself..hes a jerk.
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May 15 2005, 10:24 AM
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No don't trust him, you got all the proof you need. Dump that jerk he deserves it before he hurts you even more!
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May 15 2005, 11:25 AM
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sO seDuctivE Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,009 |
The sad part is, is that you're all right, but I'm just foolish...
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May 15 2005, 12:10 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
NO BREAK IT OF WITH HIM
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May 15 2005, 01:47 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Why would you trust him? If he keeps cheating on you DUMP him. This guy is a sorry excuse for a boyfriend.
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May 15 2005, 02:50 PM
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If only... Group: Member Posts: 409 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,037 |
^^Hahha
That sounds wow.,. "This guy is a sorry excuse for a boyfriend. " |
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May 15 2005, 05:13 PM
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sO seDuctivE Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,009 |
QUOTE(WrathOfOnigo @ May 15 2005, 1:47 PM) Why would you trust him? If he keeps cheating on you DUMP him. This guy is a sorry excuse for a boyfriend. I know, but like I said, I'm a fool in love with a fool. Ahhhh. |
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May 16 2005, 07:57 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Please do yourself a favor and break up with him. It's obvious he doesn't love you that much to be cheating on you with another girl. Move on and forget about him...it's pretty obvious that he can't be trusted.
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May 16 2005, 08:04 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
dump him. dump him. dump him. he lied to both you and his ex-girlfriend. its possible hes having other affairs too.
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May 16 2005, 08:06 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
after all that, dont trust him. you cant let him do that to you. tell his ex about what's been going around between you&him, that way, she might not make the same mistake as you did.
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May 16 2005, 08:08 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
oh my gosh...please dont tell me you've read all them stupid little emails that him and that girl sent back and forth to eachother and yet you're still asking if you should trust him...let me say this pretty loud and clear....HEO TO THE NAH!!!!!!!! good gosh....i mean...are you oblivious to the fact that he's telling ANOTHER girl that he loves her? wtfers is this mess? that bitsh cheated on you once...what makes you think he wont do it again...once a liar..always a liar...if you dont dump his sorry little dirt bag self...then i will do this....i will laugh.....at the stupidity that has ruled your poor innocent mind....hhahahaha....im just messing with you...but please dump him....dont listen to his lies....find someone else...you never know if theres someone else out there thats falling for you because your trapped in that evil relationship...=P
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May 16 2005, 08:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,916 |
Honey, I think you should break up with him. What is the point of loving him and staying in the relationship if he doesn't return the love to you? I believe you deserve someone so much better that deserves you and would be ever faithful. There are tons of others. Just dump that idiot.
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May 19 2005, 05:06 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
I think you should dump him. A girl like you is too good for a guy like him. If he lied, the first time, and "promised" not to do it again, you can trust him again. But if he does it a second time, I highly doubt that you can ever trust him, again.
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May 28 2005, 11:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
dump him. damn. i mean.. i know it's hard.. but do it anyways.. it's better to get over it now then later. right?
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May 29 2005, 12:17 AM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
hell naw u shouldnt be with him. he did u so damn dirty. it would be so over in my eyes
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May 29 2005, 02:20 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Dump him. If you don't do it now, you'll end up hurting yourself more.
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