im STiLL in love with him <3, iono what to do |
 May 13 2005, 03:58 PM
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Me and my boyfriend broke up two days ago because of his grades.. he says it`s because he needs to focus on it more then me because he`s kinda failing all he`s classes, but he told me he wants to ask me out next year im like awws
 :satisfied: . but im so scared over the summer he will find someone new and forget about me because things do change. even our friendship whenever i try to talk to him he walks away it makes me teary eyed  but ppl say he still has feelings for me ... what should i do .. some ppl say moveon others say wait because they have the feelin he`ll come back to me ... but im so confuse and heartbroken... he even saw me cry a couple of times .. i kno he worrys about me but 3 months over the summer meanin he`ll stop lovin me?? 
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May 13 2005, 04:05 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Try and stay in touch...email him...call him or w/e.......I doub the's gonna find a new person over the summer though...
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May 13 2005, 05:21 PM
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Well you can't expect yourself to get over him in a few days if it was a really good relationship it could take months. Or if you're one of those people that forgive easily maybe a week. Well maybe try talking to him online it might give you and him more courage.
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May 13 2005, 05:37 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ May 13 2005, 5:21 PM) Well you can't expect yourself to get over him in a few days if it was a really good relationship it could take months. Or if you're one of those people that forgive easily maybe a week. Well maybe try talking to him online it might give you and him more courage.  ^agreed try to stay close to him |
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May 13 2005, 06:04 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's hard getting over someone, just give it time. as for him, i don't think he'll find someone over the summer that quickly unless he's desperate but i don't think you have to worry since he told you that he wants to be with you next year. but don't just go waiting for him.
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May 13 2005, 08:20 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
i feel like you should move on. next year when he's ready, you might jst fall back "in love" with him again.
besides, why would he get another gf if that's the reason he dumped you in the first place? |
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May 13 2005, 09:33 PM
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ok im going to give you two point of views:
STAY WITH HIM -- you should wait for him, yeah he says he'll ask you out next year BUT... MOVE ON -- there's a chance that he might find another person, if that happens dont worry about it, just remember, THERE MANY FISHES IN THE SEA [if u get what im saying] |
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May 15 2005, 07:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Why don't you give it time....and for now...just move on....I don't think you should just wait...and keep your life on hold. But if nothing happens then everything will be great when he asks you out again and everything...but if not...it will because you had your own life...and if he does move on too you won't be the one left behind. *sigh* But if you want....to keep your life on hold and everything....you're welcomed to wait for him...till next year.
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May 15 2005, 07:57 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ May 13 2005, 5:21 PM) Well you can't expect yourself to get over him in a few days if it was a really good relationship it could take months. have to agree on that because, she's right. you can't get over a person in like a few days. try to figure out yourself if you're the one that actually wants to wait. or if you have a vibe telling you, there's no point of waiting. |
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May 15 2005, 08:04 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Well, he did just break up with you because of his grades soobviously he still loves you. Keep your friendship with him and stay close so you will keep both of your feelings for each other. IF he doesn't ask you back out once school starts again then move on.
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May 16 2005, 05:37 AM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Always stay in touch with him. Yes, I think he still has feelings for you.
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May 16 2005, 01:09 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
awww. ........ i think you should keep in touch with him .. try to keep in touch with him and maybe in that way he won't forget you. ^.^
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May 16 2005, 08:15 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
as for now; i say just move on. when he comes back to you and asks you out, see if you really still like him, and if you do, go out with him.
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May 17 2005, 10:08 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
stay in touch w/ him. and don't let another girl start to get his attention. :) good luck.
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May 17 2005, 10:17 PM
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Guys don't usually commit themselves like that unless they really mean it... so wait, he'll come back.
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May 17 2005, 11:36 PM
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Good things come to those who wait..........
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May 18 2005, 11:49 PM
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I think you should move on. Because if he loves you then he would still be with you. It's stupid how he blame you because of his grade. I mean he should have time for school and you. He should do his hw and all that school stuff then when he got his free time he can spend the whole time with you. Its not fair how he have time for his friends but not his gf. If he ends up having a new gf then he doesn't want to be with u anymore. But if you loves him that much then wait. If he don't come bacc it ain't meant to be. Let's see what happen. Good lucc ! always put yourself first and know that you can live on without him.
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May 19 2005, 01:28 AM
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I think you should move on. His grades are just an excuse he is using. It's possible to have a loving relationship and have good grades. You two would be better off as a friends. Move on, find a guy with a enough brains for school and a g/f.
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May 19 2005, 07:12 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
tell him how yooh feel.. tell him yooh want to be with him again, make him promise not to like anyone else..?
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