hitting girls, . Options

[tmauze]

i'm not sure about ya'll, but a lot of guys at my school hit girls. not like violently, just playfully i guess. what's with that?! i'm a wuss and it really hurts not to mention what reaction do ya'll expect??

[vampireduster]

we do that at mine. One time my friend Alex gave me a huge bruise on my shoulder. It took two weeks to heal up

[fameONE]

Even in a playful manner its wrong. It subconciously encourages that type of behavior in a serious situation.

[HoodieObsessed]

omg, I competely agree, I'm really big wuss, I hate getting poked or hit even if it's light, I just like start crying, it's so embarrising..but it really hurts me

...boo, I'm so pathetic...

once I was at my friends house and she was tugging my hair when we were sitting down next to each other..and she seriusly had ALL my hair in her hands and was jsut lighly tugging it and I got all teary and started crying and she's like "omg, I'm so sorry, i I ddin't mean to hurt you etc." an dlets go of my hair I'm like "no no, it didn't hurt, I'm jsut a cry baby *sob* I'm fien really"

...

and I was fine!! I'm jstu such a damn cry baby

just don't hurt me plz?

thx

[T_R_G]

man wtf
it aint fair
you girls wanted to be treated equally
its not really being an equal exchange if you choose what you want to be equal like and what not to be...

[iliang86]

ive never hit a girl in my life...haha dont intend to either

[whomps]

There's this guy at my school who does. Once he hit me, I was like "Wow wth are you gay?" Then I punched him back. Really hard. I don't hit guys (nonplayfully).. so they shouldn't hit me.
But seriously.. I don't really get that mad if they're trying to hit me playfully, but if it hurts I'll be like "WTF" and then smack them. Because it takes a lot to hurt me.

[fameONE]

man wtf
it aint fair
you girls wanted to be treated equally
its not really being an equal exchange if you choose what you want to be equal like and what not to be...

Your logic is misguided and ignorant... douchebag.

[*paul murphy*]

Ugh, don't get me started

[FoOd]

It's all fun in games until someone gets hurt.

Nothing has happened in my schoool, or towards me.... yet.

[mouse_3k]

I hate it when I playfully hit guys and they dont playfully hit me back. Just because iom a girl dont mean u can treat me like a little pussycat...I want to be treated equal since im a tomboy, I dont care if I get hit, Ill just hit you back.

[cutelilmonkie930]

guyz kan hit me playfulli...but not hard....n i dont care bout equallity...u jus kant push grlz around..

[xMayleex]

If a boy hits me, i will hit him back, i dont care lol. I was walking home today and this boy was kicking this girl and she was crying. It was pretty sad, i dont like boys hitting girls.

[Eryi]

Theres different meanings to 'hitting' on girls. Like going out with them or doing it. I guess its just a guys thing and it's a new kind of vocabulary for them, me personally don't use it.

[AngryBaby]

Even in a playful manner its wrong. It subconciously encourages that type of behavior in a serious situation.

are u syaing like even in playful manner like really soft its wrong?

But i can never hit a girl hard it would just not feel right ya know?

once this WANTED me to hit her as hard as i can in the arm.
i was like no, im not gonna do that to u.
and she was like aw, and gave me a hug.

[JustAnotherTeena...]

Some people (like my friend) have low pain tolerence. It doesn't take much to hurt them, & it hurts more. It's nothing to be ashamed of, & it doesn't make you a wuss. It's not your fault. Other people (like me), have high pain tolerence. Which is the exact opposite. It can't be helped, it's just life.

Personally, I don't care if a guy playhits me. I'd hit 'em back. It's fun to me. I'm kinda a girly tomboy if that makes any sense Heh. I act like a tomboy sometimes. I hang with guys, I'm tough, I enjoy throwing a football around, etc. But I'm definatly girly most of the time too. Eh, I guess I'm weird or something, w/e.

[shortiiex]

in my school guys all hits girl's boobs are ass

[someflipguy]

"open chest" *runs away* haha

well anyways, don't take it to serious, sometimes guys are just dorks live with it. Can't stand the heat, get out of the fire.

[appleandcherry]

Okay

The way i see things is that the idea that Boys can't hit girls is kind of getting out of hand.

At school i tend to see Girls hit boys ( not play) 1/10 times cause they just feel like it - its happend to me many-a-time. The reason they do this is because of the idea that they have in thier head. That idea is : " ha i can hit him and he cant hit me back" .

I don't agree with this at all, if i girl hits me i will hit her back - its not because im "gay" or what ever people say you are when you hit a girl.
Its because i belive that it is totaly unfair that girls seem to be able to get away with things that us boys can't.

now, most likly the following posts are going to be quite harsh on-reply to this but just think about it.

Remember im not saying i hit girs because i feel like it, i hit them when they eaither start annoing me to such a level or they hit me in the first place ( proberbly becuase i annoyed them) but thats not the point - All i want to get through is that because of this rule that society seems to have made, girls think they can go around hitting boys and wont get hit back.

There are several girls in my year/grade that are very lucky because they are girls, but im not putting up with them walking all over me.

All you need is a "soft" punch on their shoulder and that should make them realise that hitting boys for the sake of it isn't fun. ( Soft as we boys call soft but not hard - as a few posts have shown on here, that girls have a low pain tolerance.)

Im sure there is a few of you who agree with me and more then a few that don't. Only reason being , is that its today's society rule.

Tell me what u think?

M3nAc3

[MrElsewhere]

i poke more than i playfully hit. but i do playfully hit. harming a girl is wrong in my book, unless its a life and death kinda situation.

[appleandcherry]

Yes - im with you there

i would never "harm" a girl as such , but I make sure she knows not to do that again.

M3nac3

[maia_dc]

I think it's stupid if a girl wants to be "hit back."
Because the fact remains that men's bodies are just stronger than women's bodies. It's that simple. Sure, there are exceptions- boys who are weaker, and girls who are stronger- but men's bodies are built for strength, and women's for endurance. If a guy was to go all out on a girl, chances are he would seriously hurt her.

And hitting playfully back is pointless. Be a gentleman.

Anyway, girls shouldn't even hit guys. It's just like, wtf? If you don't want him to hit you back DON'T HIT HIM AT ALL. But usually girls only hit guys if the guys are asking for it. Seems like a lot of guys I know just like the attention.

[appleandcherry]

Get me upto date quickly -

...if girl want to be "hit back."

who said anything about the girl wanting to be hit back?
Unless ive totaly missunderstood what your trying to say...?



M3nAc3

[maia_dc]

^I think you have misunderstood me. I wasn't posting my reply in response to anything you said. I was just making my own private point about girls who say they want to be "hit back" and "treated equally" when they hit guys.

Maybe I should have made that more clear...?

[*SimplePlan_Luvr*]

Hmm I hit n kick guyz crz' it doesnt hurt them lol I hit/kick lik a wimp lol hehe I even get 2 kick them where it hurts lol yeah below da belt but it doesnt hurt them Does it hurts if guy get kicked below da belt da guy I kicked even seemed hurt or cried b4 I guess I REALLY do kick lik a wimp. Poor mee

[sk8ter4life750]

No I don't hit girls it is wrong and cause demsetic abuse later on.

[*suddenly she*]

as for me, i have a mad pain tolerance, meaning that you can smack me constantly for a few hours (literally) and i won't even get bruised. i'm like. anti-bruise or something.

this guy, kevin, no, he's not a wimp, he swims and plays football does that to me all the time. i've never gotten a bruise from him. i guess it builds patience. i've never hit him back because of that.. i've roundhouse kicked his back for being an a-hole, and he's not a jerk anymore, so that's cool.

i've always wondered why girls were always like "OW" when they got poked or half-punched. i never really thought it hurt that much, since it didn't with me.

i agree with appleandcherry on this. there are a lot of girls that smack around guys for the heck of smacking around guys, and they wouldn't if the guy would hit them back. those kinds of girls just look for attention, or they think it's cute.

and it bugs the qiewr out of me, because it isn't.

for most, i think glaring at them or telling them to stop is enough. it's not cute, it's not funny, and it's not right. anything physical is the last result.

hum, i think i'm off topic.

simpleplan_luvr, yes, it hurts if you kick a guy below the belt. if they don't react, it's probably because they don't have anything there or you really can't kick at all.

i really can't think right now.

[Joss-eh-lime]

Well some guy slapped me lightly. Then i tried to slap him back, like joking nd he stopped my hand nd said:

why is it that when i hit someone they try to hit me harder?

um, word to guys: dont slap playfully

[KELLYYY]

One time, I was messing around with my crush, Jeffrey. I started hitting him playfully. And he was like, "You lucky I don't hit girls."

Soooo, just asking, why do guys say that? Why can't they hit girls?

[ikn0w ur m0m]

i would deff hit a grl. if she is gonna hit me lyke a man and come up into my face and start hittin me and shit, i wont close first hit her i would open hand smack her.

[iheartjohn]

Since it's been proven that men are physically stronger than women (**boys stronger than girls), it'd be pointless for a guy to hit a girl in a serious manner.

It's frowned upon because it's like a tiger against a rabbit, in a physical fight. (No offense, girls.)

[Spirited Away]

Merged topics.

There is already a couple of such topics, please post in them instead of creating a new one. Thanks.

[appleandcherry]

Kewl kewl

ahh i see lol - sorry

[ikn0w ur m0m]

but still, if the grl wants to hit u and scartch u and stuff why should she get away wiht it.

[inlonelinessidie]

^^ Well if a girl just comes up to you and starts beating the shit outta you for no reason, that's terribly wrong. But a guy hitting her back would be wrong as well. Are you gonna fight fire with fire?

Hitting people for no reason is stupid. I've never understood why all these girls at school do that. My opinions on this topic are basically the same as maia_dc's.

[SilverInandescen...]

Your logic is misguided and ignorant... douchebag. 

douchebag means showerbag in German... Why would that be an insult?

[Hohohehe]

a guy hitting a girl is soooo not right

[sadolakced acid]

yea, it's not right for guys to hit girls because girls are weaklings who can't defend themselves.


i hit my friends that are guys. thus, i hit my friends that are girls. that's because i'm treating them as equals.

plus, if you start into a i 'hit' (i don't really hit, it's more of a tap or poke, or slight push) you, you 'hit' me thing, it's an excuse to grab her hand and hold on to it. to stop her from 'hitting' you.

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

Don't hit us and we don't hit you x)

[sheepy]

oh well, i guess thats what we get for always hitting them.

[nocturnal]

I knocked some jackass out for hitting my girlfriend. I guess I could of like taken time to de-escalate it. But I was pissed.

[SILFIES11]

hitting girls is wrong! the only girl i hit is my girlfriend and its only when she wants me to slap her a$$ so yea self explainitory... but hitting other girls when they dont want to get hit then dont hit them seriously

[Justingamemaster]

You can't hit girls dude...it's just plain stupid. Why would you? If i seen you hit a girl i would pwn you.

I asked this girl why she hit me all the time...she said it was because she was 'flirting'. So girls hit guys because they flirt. and guys hit girls because they think it's funny/cool, when it's not.

but still, if the grl wants to hit u and scartch u and stuff why should she get away wiht it.

Seriously do girls hit you and scratch you? Are you in Preschool? Just tell them to stop...or yell at them they will feel more embarrassed than anything. and embarassment = more worse than getting hit.

[heyyfrankie]

i don't hit girls at all. whether it be violently or playfully. my uncle taught me to never hit girls unless your life is in danger.

[JlIaTMK]

Hm, well.... I don't know.... if.... those girls mind it?

All because you mind it, does not mean they do as well....

[JsWuz]

happens at my skool but id ver do dat to a girl its wrong

[Le_Jay]

If a girl runs at you with a knife, would you hit her?

Numbnut.

[O x LiseE x O]

Say "Hit me one more time and I will kick you in the balls" Then wink. lol that's what I do!

[sadolakced acid]

of course it's wrong. girls are inferior weaklings that can't defend themselves, therefore we shouldn't hit them.

[feesh]

I never hit girls or poke em or anything. I just dont believe in it. Ill knock the crap out of my guy friends but I dont touch girls, even when they hit me. Cause its wrong. And if I see a guy hit a girl, I hit him like ten times harder. Le_Jay

If a girl runs at you with a knife, would you hit her?

Nope, I would grap her arm and take the knife or run but I wouldnt hit her.

[ikayto]

That's like so elementary, and a little of middle school.

Yeah, guy's shouldn't be rough with girls because in reality they're more frail than we are; not trying to sound sexist but it's just the truth.

Meh, girls always hit me anyways, but i dont do anything besides laugh.

[sadolakced acid]

sigh:


women: we want to go to work at jobs!
men: alright, you can help build this building
women: we can't lift that! we're just women!
men: alright then, but you'll get paid less
Women: unfair! it's not our fault we can lift only 1/3 of what men can!
men: but... it takes three women to do what a man could do...
women: sexist pig!
court: pay up.
men: fine.

woman: ::hits man:: haha you can't hit me
man: why not?
woman: because i'm weak and frail.
man: so women are weak and frail?
woman: sexist pig!
man: bleh

army: it's war, you have to go to war now
man: but i don't want to
army: i've called your draft number
man: but...
woman: haha.
man: hey! how come she doesn't have to go to war?
army: she's a woman, she's too weak.
man: women are too weak!
woman: sexist pig!

man: could you wash this load of laundry for me?
woman: what, you think this is the 50s? can't you do that yourself? it's the future; we're equals now! you have to treat me equally!

woman: ahhh there's a mouse! ahhhh
man: :: sigh:: alright, i've got it.

woman: i can't assemble this thing i bought, could you do it for me?
man: fine, i will
woman: thank you!

man: hey, could you cook me this for dinner?
woman: i'm not your slave! we're equals!


sigh. do you see what this is?

girls can either pick: equal or not.

not whichever one suits them at the current time.

sexist pigs.

[*mzkandi*]

All I know is if I guy hits me (playful or otherwise) it will so be on...

[malimars]

Im a chick and i play fight with guys all the time That are MUCH bigger then me most of the time i come out with alot of bruises but so do they Most chicks get stronger or w/e by fighting with guys that are stonger lol

[Le_Jay]

Le_Jay Nope, I would grap her arm and take the knife or run but I wouldnt hit her.

You are an idiot if you attempt to disarm a knife-weilding person, regardless of their sex. A sharp blade is still a sharp blade if a woman holds it. Your hand would be sliced if you attempted to grab the knife. If you macho-men think you can stereotype girls as being inferior creatures and not being capable of fighting, I sincerely hope you get P**sy-whipped by the girls I know that do martial arts.

[xXBrittz14Xx]

sadolakced acid: of course it's wrong. girls are inferior weaklings that can't defend themselves, therefore we shouldn't hit them.

umm, excuse me! and who do you think you are? since when did girls become lower than men? we are all equal, we arent lower than you! you think ur so great! i could probably kick ur ass!

if a girl doesnt want to be hit you probably shouldnt hit her, unless she hits you first or antagonizes, or provokes you, then by all means kick her ass!!! If a guy wants to hit me thats perfectly okay, you do it to your guy friends, so whats so different about me??? if u want to hit me, then go for it, but you'd better be ready for when i hit you bak, and get u so much HARDER than u just got me!!!

if a girl hits u, u'd better GET HER BAK! but if she isnt bothering you, and rele wants to leave her alone, then u rele should leave her alone....but no law seys u have to

i think guys should hit girls (dont get me wrong im not against girls, i mean i am a girl) but if guys can get hit so can we! Its survival of the fittest, u cant take it, thats 2 damn bad then. this is why us girls are categorized as weak, i mean HELLO! - dont leave us girls alone, u adapt 2 ur environment and evolve to work with it. if we are treated equally as the guys r, girls will eventually become just as strong, or stronger. our world is going nowhere, if ppl r holding bak, afraid of pushing some1's limits. we have to challenge ourselfs, and try our best, and in the end we will be stronger from it. anything u guys can do girls can do BETTER!!!

you kno what guys, we complained, we cried, we whined, we wanted to be treated EQUALLY! so by all means u'd better treat us just as you'd treat ne other guy! we wanted equality, so treat us equally then! if we complain about wat we asked for, we r only complaining about ourselves. But not all girls do that, so screw the rest, just treat us all, the way we asked, and begged for, to be treated EQUAL!

[aleks666]

NEVER HIT A GIRL......PERIOD! Hitting girls is just wrong, even if it is in a playful manner! The only time i could say i would hit a girl would be in bed.....probably sumthing like spanking lol........my girl seems to enjoy it! Thats probably the only place i would ever hit a girl.....my girl lol

[llamalam]

lol...they're just like them ppl from prehistoric ages...

[ichigofan]

i like fighting with boys its funny cuz they expect you to be like oh stop it hurts and meanwhile their the ones in pain YAYYYYYYYYY

[aznplayaz]

I don't hit girls thats just disrespectful i do it do my cousins though not alot though

[[x]Mari[x]]

You are an idiot if you attempt to disarm a knife-weilding person, regardless of their sex. A sharp blade is still a sharp blade if a woman holds it. Your hand would be sliced if you attempted to grab the knife. If you macho-men think you can stereotype girls as being inferior creatures and not being capable of fighting, I sincerely hope you get P**sy-whipped by the girls I know that do martial arts.

Some people just have morals they wouldn't go against no matter what. What's wrong with that?

[sadolakced acid]

Some people just have morals they wouldn't go against no matter what. What's wrong with that?

some of those people rule this country, and it isn't thier body that's getting blown to pieces.

[*CrackedRearView*]

some of those people rule this country, and it isn't thier body that's getting blown to pieces.

Well, you have quite a misplaced bleeding heart, seeing how the United States' army is compiled completely of volunteers.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Hitting people in general is wrong unless there is a justified reason.

[*incoherent*]

lmao guys at your school "play hit"? thats what the gay guys at my school do with the girls and the guys at your school shouldnt hit you period.

[*mipadi*]

Hitting people in general is wrong unless there is a justified reason.

Such as not getting in the kitchen and making you a sammich?

[mocassinsx29]

Nah, girls don't guys, guys don't hit girls. In my school. o_o;;;

[SpedMonkee]

well i hate it when they judge u on if u hit them or not. like if ur not rough with them they think ur like every other guy who thinks that they are weak and cant take it. but then when u do do it like they want and u hurt them you get in trouble....

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Such as not getting in the kitchen and making you a sammich?

Of course, such absurdness should not go without a few slaps.

[*salcha*]

This guy in my class got mad at me, and scratched me across my entire arm. Then it started to bleed. ):

[BarreL]

i sometimes play punch my guy friend

but most of the time i just poke

i dont think he could hurt a fly

but i dont wanna take my chances

plus its redundant to punch a guy in all reality

poking is much better

[xxslithr0atxx]

[Hell-Rell]

I love hitting girls. I get a huge adridaline rush from it. I feel like hittin one right now.


Naw jus playin

[kenji9592]

what the hell is wrong with some of you people everyones equal if u play fight u play fight so if a girl or guy wants it ruff in bed ur not gonna do it just coz u think there weak RUBISH!

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

They used to do it at mine, but now they're is this no bully hitting policy shit & guys don't do it no more...to me it's realli jusst a compliment, but you kno girls don't take it like they like it...they're like OMG?!?!...& be like omg?!?!..why did yu do that & yell at them...but really they like it...