Have You Ever..., Been Like This Options

[automatikprinces...]

"Its Crazy,Tell Me How Come,Something I Really Want,Something I Love,Is Soo Bad For Me,I Can't Explain It,It's Like A Bad Habit,I Can't Shake It,Soo Crazy,Crazy,Crazy,I Can't Believe It,How I Need Him,He Makes A Diffrence!"
Lyrics From Ciara Feat. Cha Lu-It's Crazy

It Really Relates To My Situation,It's Soo Damn Difficult! After 4Years And A Half Relationship,And A Baby With Him,And It's Over..Have You Ever Felt Like You Wanted Someone SOOO MUCH! And You Can't Be With Him Because He's Untrustful And It's Already Too Late And He's Already Got Someone Else He's In Love With Already,Maybe He Was Never Really In Love With Me And I Was Just Playing A Fool's Game...Ugh,But After It's All Said And Done I Still Want Him Back It's Soo Difficult I Have No Clue What To Do When Someone I Want Sooo Bad! I Can't Have!I've Been Really Depressed Because Of Him! I Dropped Out Of School After Working Soo Hard To Raise My Baby And Him And I Left Everything I Had For Nothing He Doesn't Even Want To Be Our Baby's Dad! Im On Prescribed Zoloft 200MG I Hate My Life At This Point,Im Just Living To Feed And Raise My Babies And Be A Good Mommy I Never Had *sigh What Would You Guys Do?

[Nicolatofu]

I'm sorry to hear you are going through tough times. It's hard to believe the father would do something like that. Just stay strong. If that guy didn't want to be with me, then I'd forget him. Now you have a baby to worry about. If he doesn't want to be a part of that, then it's his loss. No girl needs a man to move on

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[enyceXaddiction]

its okay everything will fall in place sooner or later. just forget the guy esspecally what he has done to you. i know how you feel. a guy that you love so much has hurted you buh you still love him. its okays feel better.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Oh how i hate when guys don't like you back and you have to actually WATCH in front of your face him falling for someone else.

[automatikprinces...]

yeah thnx guys and yeah its really hard to see him fall for someone else =( after he has a son with me and a daughter or son coming soon he doesnt care though thats what hurts me the most that my little frankie and my new daughter or son is going to grow up without their real father and thnx again guys

[Chii]

you should take him to court and get some child support if you're not already collecting it...

nowadays, kids don't need an actual father, just a father figure. you can always be a mom and a dad to your kid and the unborn baby. sure it will be hard but it's not your fault...just because the relationship is rocky with you and him doesn't mean that he has to walk out...

things will work out, they always do


by the way, you really look like this girl i used to know, you're both so pretty

[MeanBastard]

You should learn to type. Coherently.

[Shattered_Hope]

I'm sorry that you're in a rough situation now...but you don't need a jerk like him who's leaving you even though he has a child much less children with you...Forget about him and try to move on and raise your children....someday, it'll be better for you again..hopefully anyway...Hope it all works out for you....

[literemix24]

I think you should take him to court. He's a jerk, and you're too good for him. -_-"

[x LUV x ALWAYS x]

Oh how i hate when guys don't like you back and you have to actually WATCH in front of your face him falling for someone else.

that is pure hell. im going through it right now while hearing that he still likes me, and that i should ask him out or something. i am very confused. tehe.

and, feel better. really. i hope you get through this well <33

[x shootingstar x]

damn, forget about the guy and move on. he isn't worth it.

live by this.. 'it'z better to learn to let go now then later, when you're deeper in the shit."

hope all goes well for you. =]

[SimplicityGirl]

Sorry if this is a bit rude, but I checked on your profile and you're only 17. What were you thinking when you had the baby with him and dropped school? And seriously, what did you think you could achieve with the relationship you had with him? I mean, I'm not against people having boyfriends or girlfriends at a young age, but you know, maybe you should've thought it out before you went together with him.

And as for your situation...just forget about him and move on. You already dropped school and more or less dented your future by doing that and by staying in the relationship with him, you're not gonna get anywhere. I know I may sound a bit rude and uncaring, but I'm just pointing what must be pointed out. You're 17, and you really shouldn't be having kids and dropping school because of some guy. How are you going to support you and the baby on your own? Are your parents supportive of you? Think it through.

Even though, yes, I think that you have a right to be sad over this, I still think that he isn't worth your time. If you stick around with him, he's just gonna hurt you more than you are now. Just forgive, forget and move on with your life, and I hope that you think twice before you do another thing like that.

And I'm sorry if this post sounds really rude and inconsiderate, but I'm just stating my view.

[CrazayChristian]

Your obviously new to this helping thing.


Anyways,

If you lived in Texas somewhere by the Austin area, I could say was have a Maternity home for people in your situation. I'm sure they have one in your area or at least state.

You can easily take him to Court, and he'd have to at least pay child support. I learned the hard way, when you can't do it, let a higher authority handle it.

And I don't know if your a religious type, but I also find Praying helps out alot.

Hope things get better ^_^

[*mzkandi*]

Sorry if this is a bit rude, but I checked on your profile and you're only 17. What were you thinking when you had the baby with him and dropped school? And seriously, what did you think you could achieve with the relationship you had with him? I mean, I'm not against people having boyfriends or girlfriends at a young age, but you know, maybe you should've thought it out before you went together with him.

I understand you trying to be blunt but you could be a little bit more sensitive to her situation.

automatikprincess- I feel your pain. I have never been there personally but I know a few people who have. Its hard in general to let go of someone you have loved for many years but add on to the fact that you have a baby together would be 10 times as hard. Have you tried talking to anyonea? Close friends or relatives? They are to best for when you need a shoulder to cry on. Even though it doesnt seem like it noe, eventually it will pass.

[megan_x3]

I'm sorry to hear you are going through tough times. It's hard to believe the father would do something like that. Just stay strong. If that guy didn't want to be with me, then I'd forget him. Now you have a baby to worry about. If he doesn't want to be a part of that, then it's his loss. No girl needs a man to move on

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Same as what Nicole said, you don't need a man to move on with your life. I don't think any girl is in desperate need of having a man by their side. Woman is strong as what they are and can fight through being a widow???? Maybe he did never really liked and was playing around with you just to get you pregnant. Many guys are just playing around and wasting the woman's time. Maybe you should really just move on with your life. Later on when your baby grows up to be an middle school student, you should tell him or her that your father left you guys with another woman ... and you shouldn't be remembering those diffacult times that you had without him. Move on I should say.