what you talk about, with guys. |
 May 8 2005, 02:14 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456  |
hi im a guy that sucks at talking to girls. i can never keep a conversation going unless they do all the talking, which usually doesnt last. just wanted to know some things girls are interested in talking about. just need some advice...
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May 8 2005, 03:37 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
i talk to this guy alot, and we just randomly bring up things to talk about. i dk how it happens, but its awesome. just bring random topics up
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May 8 2005, 06:00 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I just talk about music, in hopes that he's a music freak as well.
Talk about things you have in common...*shrugs* For me, it's music. I could talk about music all day. Writing it, listening to it, playing it, seeing it, etc. I could talk about bands and my dreams to be in a band. So I guess you could just apply that to another subject that you like. |
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May 8 2005, 06:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
when i talk to guys it is just about really random things
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May 8 2005, 06:19 PM
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 poison is pretty. Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,648 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ May 8 2005, 5:15 PM) when i talk to guys it is just about really random things  me too..if we're hanging out at a place, i'll just look around and say something funny about what i see, which gets us started on about an hour of silly randomness. but if you're not that funny--talk about what you did that weekend, things you want to do soon or something yall both are interested in. |
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May 8 2005, 06:33 PM
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 -Officially Insane- Group: Member Posts: 870 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,293 |
Just talk about things that you like, & ask her what sorts of things she likes...find out what kind of movies/music/books you both like, etc. etc..
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May 8 2005, 06:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
what kinda random things do you talk about though?
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May 8 2005, 07:08 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
it depends what kind of girl ur talking to...like if shes athlethic talk to her about sports...well for most girls, talk about what they like to do, or favorite stuff...
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May 8 2005, 07:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,843 |
We say things like
*jeez our english teacher is a total spaz *wut'd u get on the bio test? (and then complain about the bad grades and bitch teacher) *omg this morning my alarm clock didn't go off and... *so how's your______ project doing? *I'm so tired *did you see (insert movie here)? *hey hav you heard the new (insert band here) CD *dude this morning a pink parrot landed on my shoulder ("really?") nah |
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May 9 2005, 12:03 AM
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 Donna-chan Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 |
^ ya when they ask you questions/compliments just reply and your conversation will/might last long...all my guy friends are weird so i dont know what in the world they talk about..
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May 9 2005, 01:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 297 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,338 |
Haha um... depends who he is.
Music, The girl he likes, School, Anything that comes up... |
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May 9 2005, 04:50 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
-Blue Collar TV (my guy friends got me into it)
-music -jokes -grades -kicking....a language of it's own |
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May 9 2005, 08:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,447 |
Me and this guy i talk to a lot just talk abt everything. like one of us will just say something out of the blue and the other just goes with it.
 we talk abt nething from the plant behind him <---> our days <---> love life <---> musicso yea, sorry if that didnt help u  just pick something until u find something he'll respond well to i guess
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May 9 2005, 08:23 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
um... almost everything...
-anime -interesting things -grades -teachers -stupid things -"i walked into another wall today" really? "yes. after i tripped over the stairs" and other ways we got hurt during the day... -and sometimes, other people 
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May 9 2005, 08:29 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
games (video and online - but this is because im really interested in these online games like WC, americas army, gunZ, halo, etc but i never get to play. talking about them is fun though). teachers. other people.
random things. anime. stufff. anything that comes up. |
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May 9 2005, 08:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,249 |
well we jst talk bout anythin dat comes up... try to have a sense of humor... many girls like dat but not too much... i dunno wat else to say... but try to talk to a girl bout her interests or even yours...
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May 9 2005, 08:52 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
depends on the guy for me actaully. if its a close guy friend i tell him about my problems and they always comfort me, better than the girls. jacking off and whatnot have ALWAYS been FUN conversations. never ever awkward for me lol.
if its a guy i like i jus talk about the normal things buh` add a little flirty stuff into it. |
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May 10 2005, 08:12 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i talk about everything with guys.
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May 10 2005, 11:01 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
It depends on how much you like him when he is just your friend you can talk about anything.. but when you like him, flirt a bit, too
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May 10 2005, 02:03 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I talk to guys basically about anything but girly things. Like I talk to them bout football and stuff like tht...then again I am a tomboy so I can keep a convo wit a guy well
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May 10 2005, 02:31 PM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
Im weird, i talk about sport and stuff, i can talk about alot of things, but i need to get to know them first, i dont feel comfortable otherwise.
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May 10 2005, 09:46 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
anything. whatever that comes to my mind.
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May 11 2005, 12:39 AM
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 ART is everything. Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,166 |
talk about varies of things..don't stick to talking about one topic everytime you see her.
e.g school work alllll the time........it just get annoying afterward.. 
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May 11 2005, 01:16 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,730 |
Hmm, random things, whatever pops up in my head, as long as it doens't sound weird.
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May 11 2005, 04:51 PM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
ANYTHING...its like im one of the guys....(sorta)
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May 11 2005, 05:45 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Hmm about anything, upcoming activities, TV, movies, music, clothing, people at your school, school work. Goodluck, you could start off with compliments, that always makes a girl smile
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May 11 2005, 06:06 PM
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 Loser Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,558 |
Ah, I normally talk about school, teachers, music, and alot of silly stuff (like possible ways to shoplift violins without being caught) XD but yeah... that isn't much help
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May 13 2005, 04:18 PM
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it really depends on how strong the relationship is.
my little "guy group..." music and life. reinforcing opinions and blah. just random guys- um. music. and school. this really cool person.. anything and everything. |
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May 14 2005, 12:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 137,907 |
well I would have to say I talk about random things when Im with my guy friends. Im pretty much into track and cross country, so we end up talking about sports, a hard test coming up, music, a movie..etc. pretty much anything random.
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May 14 2005, 02:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
It's a lot easier to talk to girls if you try and ignore the fact that they're a girl. Apart from genitalia and 'hot' girls, you can usually talk to girls about just as many things as you can to a guy. A girl may look at it in a different light, but that does not mean you can't talk to her about it.
Music is a wonderful default. There are so many different types of music and bands, that you actually could talk about music all day. Just try to avoid phrases like "______ sucks!" because you never know who you'll offend. Just stick with "I don't like them." |
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May 17 2005, 08:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,570 |
Sex... lol, seriously, we just always talk about dirty stuff. And what Winterflames said..[first page] I mean just bring up one topic, then when someone says something else that reminds you of something bring that up and yeaah it'll keep going that way. Unless your boring and you have nothing to share. :x
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May 19 2005, 03:31 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
Well, pretty much everything I talk about wiht guys is SOME sort of complaint...you know, teachers, certain assingment, school in general, etc. Sometimes it's good to just jump in on any old conversation.
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