problems talking to people.., you want to talk to. |
 May 4 2005, 08:13 PM
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 kristin  Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985  |
There's this guy..I've sort of had a bit of obsession on for almost 3 years now. I went out with him...in 7th grade. Things were great..but I don't want to get into it. We broke up..moved on.
But the things is. I never got over him..usually people stop thinking about ex's maybe after a month of grieving..but this has been over a year. So after the breakup, a lot of drama happened. Because about 4 months later (still obsessed)..he went out with my best friend (what a bitch, right?!). He's probably over me. He's had about 3 girlfriends since me..and I've had...yes, zero. My friend is convincing me..I should just tell him how I feel. But how weird is that! We sort of lost track. You know, there's an I.M. now and then, and a 'Hey' in the hall. But nothing more. He'd think I'm like crazy. I want to get to know him again though. So my question seems pretty dumb after that. ...but..When it comes to getting to know someone..again. How? I try to talk to him online..but there's really nothing to talk about after the "sup nmu? nm. cool. yeah"...the typical. I know I fell in love with his personality...when I knew him more. And it just sucks, feeling like I can't talk to him like I used to. Sorry if this doesn't make since...but help would be apprieciated. 
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May 4 2005, 08:17 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
do what your friend said... if he never knows, then nothing will ever happen.
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May 5 2005, 12:49 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
maybe think of an interesting topic before you IM him, like the cool assembly/play that day, or the party last night, or w.e. maybe he'll become his old self around you again
 good luck
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May 5 2005, 07:26 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I been in the same situation. I haven't talked to my ex for about two years now since we broke up. But, the thing is you have to find another person to replace those memories of the person that you once cared for. Going back and trying is sometimes harder.
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May 6 2005, 01:55 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,643 |
If you really want him back...Start talking to him again. Get to know him better. He might not even be the same person anymore. If once you know him better, you decide you still want him back, go ahead and make your move.
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May 6 2005, 07:19 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
just be upfront about it. tell him that you miss being as close as you were three years ago and that you'd appreciate it if you two could try to rebuild your friendship.
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May 6 2005, 07:38 PM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
hmm.. well.. i dun really know wat to say.. but try takin it slowly =).. anywayz.. GOOD LUCKK ^__________^
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May 6 2005, 09:43 PM
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You can never really know if he got over you unless you ask.
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May 6 2005, 09:45 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
well.. if you want to get to know him better, talk to him more.
but as you said, you guys ahve nothing to talk about. a good conversation starter thing is .. making fun of something. i know that sounds INCREDIBLY rude&mean&all that jazz, but .. it's kind of true. i hope i helped 
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May 6 2005, 10:01 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
aww, kristin!! i gave all the advice i could in the chatroom the other day but i guess all you can do it try, ALOT! lol
good luck! 
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