sandra sucks, horrayy, oh well Options

[*Weird addiction*]

I need to confess...i know there's a confession thread but i need to do this openly...

I started smoking again...i feel REALLY bad. Well, i'm having problems at home, i know it's no excuse but i mean...i'm destined to die from cancer i guess.

I'm soo sorry...i just couldn't stop..i started a week ago...

I was the girl that used to smoke but quit.
Now i'm the girl that used to smoke, quit and started again = looser

In case you ever get invited to my funeral, this is what you have to say:

Sandra was cB's slut (i know many of you think i am), and cB's biggest looser... she was crazy (bla bla)... don't forget to mention something good about me.

Just remember kids...SMOKING IS BAD.

SOMEFLIPGUY: IF YOU ARE STILL SMOKING, DON'T FORGET TO GET ME A PACKET OF CIGARRETE WHEN YOU DIE AND COME TO HELL...I PREFER MARLBORO LIGHT.

I'm really sorry .

[*mzkandi*]

Its not that serious Sandra. People smoke, quit, smoke, quit, all the time. Nobodys perfect. Maybe you'll quit again someday and if not well....I know people that have quit even when they said could never, you just never know

[*Weird addiction*]

But i was so proud of myself...

[*mzkandi*]

its ok. dont beat yourself up. do you see yourself possibly trying to quit in the future or no? I dont think there is anything wrong with your relapse. Its normal, but I can see why you would be kinda disappointed.

[WinterNights2]

Who cares if you still smoke again it's only one thing. Don't smoke when you have babies, or it might come out all weird and stuff. Oh well i used to do drugs, but I quit. Not heroin or shit. Just a little weed.

[Spirited Away]

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It's your life, Sandra.

[yeseulx3]

yes... it's your own life, and you have control over it.

[*Fallen_Fairy*]

flush the ciggs, get the patch :)

[*Weird addiction*]

flush the ciggs, get the patch :)

... and you think i didn't do that , i did, but oh well...i'm made for cigs

[Nicolatofu]

Aww Sandra. It seems really hard to quit a habit like that that you are so used to. I've seen my mom repeat that exact same cycle many times.. but with the support of everyone around her, hopefully she'll quit soon.

Smoking seems to calm yourself and since you're having problems, I'm sure that's what triggered you to start up again. Maybe when you're at a more stable time in your life, you could try it again. We're here to support you when you need it.

[shortiiex]

your not a loser...you just gotta fight it
will think of it this way...if you smoke all of your dreams will die.....liek probably no kids...cancer.living family and friends behind

[Shattered_Hope]

Don't stress yourself out, there's many that are never able to take a break from smoking. Maybe someday you'll be able to quit for good but till then, keep trying.

[*jooleeah*]

I'm sorry Don't worry about it though....many people smoke and quit over and over again. Eventually, if you try hard enough, you'll finally quit. Have you tried everything? Like, joined groups and such? I know that sounds really corny, but I heard it really does help. Don't give up!

[*tweeak*]

since you dont want to hear me bitch at things irrelevant to you

'loser' only has one 'o'

[loljuliana]

aww; dont be so hard on yourself. it's normal for people to do that. my friend tried to quit smoking and told everyone that if they see him with another cigerette, then either beat him up; or throw away his cigerette.

[me1issaaaa]

SANDRA, NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You're going to make me cry!!!!!!!

You can do it. I know you can, dollface. I wub you and YOU'RE GOING TO DROP THIS HABIT.

I'm always here for you. <3

[jue]

dont worry; that happens to everyone; jsut tried to quite again(=
and if yu cant always carry candy around with yu or gum so yu have sumthing in yur mouth besides a ciggarette.

[heyyfrankie]

i don't really know what to say...i guess good luck. smoking is a very bad habit. hopefully you can beat it and i am sorry that "relapsed".

[DanielleMaria05]

Aww.. I'm sorry you started again. I don't smoke personally, but I know people who have, and they say it is very hard, so, We're behind you. Whatever you choose

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

try chewing gum instead of smoking. you might get alot of mood swings tho so take heed.

[*basick*]

if you smoke all of your dreams will die.....liek probably no kids...cancer.living family and friends behind

theres plenty of smokers with kids, family, and friends... and not every smoker has cancer

[mouse_3k]

its smoking what can u do? get the patch

[Looow]

Aw. Don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure you can try again. Not everything works the first time.

"If at first you don't suceed, hgte yourself up and trying again, brush yourself and ttry again, try again.."
Aaliyah.

Something like that.

[inthemudhole]

Just keep trying, Sandra. You don't suck. It's a hard thing to do.
I'm in the same situation as you are, but not with smoking...A different, non-substance addiction, if you will.

Anyway, just keep trying, dear! You can do it!

[Just_Dream]

You were able to quit once.. You can do it again! YOu know what you need? You need a friend who's also quitting--that way you and your friend could keep checks on each other. Bleh but then again, didn't your father offer you a cigarette when you were in the process of quitting? Perhaps what you did was too drastic.. Next time you consider quitting, try taking it slowly. Like, slowly stop smoking--smoke less and less. It'll help the cravings. I am disappointed, but it is your choice. If you do decide to quit again, we'll be here rooting for you!

[brand0n]

smoking is a nono :(

[toodlepops.]

Aww, Sandra.
I was feeling so happy for you.
Anyways, keep trying. O know you can do it! =]

// And no, you're not a loser.

[misoshiru]

awwww. sandra, it's ok.
yeah, as most of them have said already, people have relapses. you can do it. you can stop smoking again, and you're going to beat it this time!!

[gelionie]

At least you tried.
Don't give yourself too much pressure.
As long as you know smoking is bad for you, you're better than a lot others.

http://www.quotegarden.com/smoking.html

[pingpang_0811]

Sandra was cB's slut (i know many of you think i am), and cB's biggest looser... she was crazy (bla bla)... don't forget to mention something good about me.

i don't think so!! you are not a loser!! never! ever!
try to eat chewing gum instead of cigarette all day
does it work?

[kill me please]

ah that does suck . i will admit i have before , but i dont make it a habit, try to stay away from doing that. its weird cause i guess i dont get addicted to things easy. i even have a pack in my room that i havent even touched in like 3 months.
im sure you can quit again if you try. oh and that whole thing were you want something in your hand to eat or whatever.. make sure its something healthy

and uh if you dont quit, despite what they say.. you could live forever!! (ok a long time)

[*Weird addiction*]

since you dont want to hear me bitch at things irrelevant to you

'loser' only has one 'o'

LMFAO! that just made my day

[racoons > you]

lol.
sandra, firstly you're not a slut, so bequiet

secondly, dont put yourself down, or you'll never have the confidence to really go through with it

[miss barnes]

hey! you're not a slut. what would make you think that we think that? anyways, yea smoking is hard to quit so just get the patch

[funbobby]

There is nothing wrong with smoking, so unless it erally really depresses you, enjoy it! All that nicotiney goodness, everyone else is just jealous. Remember, Marlboro makes your unborn baby beautiful.
Oh and theres nothing wrong with being a slut, think of it my friends way, more guys will like you that way.

[*Kathleen*]

As Brie said, at least you tried. Second, you're not going to die instantly. It's not the end of the world. You're still young and have time to stop. Don't worry. We're all here for you - as you can see. Just keep trying. We know it's hard, but don't forget that we're here to help you through it. And you're not a slut, as James pointed out.

[surfhottieoffcoa...]

I AM PRIEST ALBA AND I HAVE FORGIVEN YOUR SINS. MAY GOD SHALL SHINE UPON YOUR LIFE

[eli5e]

i smoke too ..who cares.. we're all gonna die anyway lol

[freeflow]

aww sandra its ok. there alot of people in this world that just smoke but you tryed to stop and thats good that you did . sometimes bad things make you do things that you dont wanna do or that you gave up doing before .. its normal for everyone . and your NOT a loser and you DONT suck . its alright later in your life you might give up smoking later ..its really up to you but if you smoke its ok im still your friend

[JlIaTMK]

Sandra dearest, you need to get off of the smoking and find some new hobbies to take your mind off of it =D.

[*Weird addiction*]

I AM PRIEST ALBA AND I HAVE FORGIVEN YOUR SINS.  MAY GOD SHALL SHINE UPON YOUR LIFE

awwwwww...now i seriously wish i believe in god but thanks!!

Sandra dearest, you need to get off of the smoking and find some new hobbies to take your mind off of it =D.

Hmm...hobbies like what

[angel-roh]

Yeah keep trying that stop smoking, Sandra. It's hard and life can be difficult. But hold on. Try to get counselors, pastors, your best friend to stop you. "trying" is a hard thing because it might never work. But a girl like you, I think you can handle it even though I don't know you. Well good luck on quit smoking!

[danishcookiez]

Aw Sandra, don't be so hard on yourself. It's definitely hard, I know, my best friend is in the same situation as you. I guess one way to help stop is to cut down on the temptation. If you have friends that smoke, don't be around them when they do so. You have control over your life and your choices. Don't give up!!! If you're stressed out, hang out with friends, or do something fun, or get lots of sleep (that always helps), but don't give in to the temptation! =(

[xsweetxcandyx]

awww its ok sweetie... i'm sure you will stop someday

[sunissed14127]

All I can say is keep on trying. I know it probably sounds easier than it looks (I wouldnt know because I cant stand the smell of smoke). I'm sure you'll come over your habit as long as you have confidence in yourself & do your best not to smoke.

[Eryi]

tsk tsk, I'm very dissapointed in you Sandra. I guess whats good is for the best.