ever tried not falling inlove? Options

[PinkTrash]

hmm; im like starting this new thing where i won't go out; won't crush on guyss; and tryy not to fall inlove with a guy. ever tried doing that? on purpose? i dont know, i just feel really bad about this guy and i so i just felt like being commited to this little rule. :)

[dani41790]

Wow that must be a little hard. I tried that before too. I think I lasted for about 2 years.

[yukichan]

i tried that before..it didnt work though..i only lasted about 4 months...

[Nicolatofu]

yes.. actually I'm doing it now. I really don't want a boyfriend at the moment. I'm perfectly content at the moment being single. When I feel that someone's worth breaking that littletime off, then who knows, maybe I'll go out with them.

As of currently, I'm enjoying being single.. I mean, it's almost more fun at times... you can flirt with any guy and not worry about what your boyfriend would say! There are upsides to it.. people just choose to look at it in a negative way.

[PinkTrash]

samee way i feel. :)
whoaa. 2 years = a lot. ;o

[FoOd]

I do that too.

I just blindfold myself and walk through school totally blind so I wouldn't fall in love.
BUt my teacher made me take it off because I had to take notes.

[onemanshow]

thats very hard man.. ahha.. well id tried to not fall inlove ANYMORE wif this gal.. cos shes been hurting me continuously..

[misoshiru]

yes i have, but it never works.

[_sarcastic_]

i've tried doing that, i kinda lost

[hiromi]

I have tried once before. The idea died a week later... >_>

[toodlepops.]

Yes, I'm doing it right now.
We'll see how long it can last. ;]

[loljuliana]

yeah i've done that before; except with the going out thing =) i dont like staying home. so anyways; i tried it, and it didnt work that well xP

[pinayprincess]

uh.. no? -- ive fallen in love for a reason [[like i never tired 'not' to fall in love]] and i think if i were in that sitchuation, i would have gone with the flow..

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Oh yes, I`ve tried to do that since i broke up with my bf cause i got hurt really bad and the not going out or liking someone thing worked for a while maybe 5 months and then i liked the guy i liked right now =) lols i mean it`s hard we can`t force ourselves not to like someone

[Kneuklid Romance]

......no because I'm already taken happily....

....but that is a strange idea.

I just thought.. either this is a valid subject straight from the heart...or this is a parody for all of those people that say "I love you" after 2-3 days of knowing them.

-Kevyn

[blondisnirvana]

I'm trying it right now now because I'm not loving the thoughts I'm having about one of my best friends. I don't even know if he's gay It can be good to try to not fall in love in some circumstances

[Shattered_Hope]

I've tried that before....it lasted about a few months.......

[enyceXaddiction]

anit-love yeah i tried it. didnt work for me.

[NgocQuyen]

haha...i tried something like that...i mean....it's weird...haha...i've thought alot of guys were cute and stuffs...but i never let myself like them...something like that...haha...my attempt failed horribly though...it lasted well....not long...lemme tell you what..hahah...

[xlaydee_v]

you know that's impossible right? because when you like someone, it's like something you can't help lols. and if you notice, when you like someone, and you TRY to get over them, it doesn't even work so.. well idk good luck on that thing? (although it really would never work lols)

[Angel_Cece]

=) i do it all the time. it doesnt work for me though. lol

[Rachel]

I don't really think you can stop yourself from falling in love. It just happens.

[*Weird addiction*]

I am TRYING real hard right now...but i'm hopeless...

[SimplicityGirl]

I'm on that anti love thing right now...been hurt way too much by my ex. But I know it won't last too long...because I think I'm starting to crush after this guy...we'll see...

[mickybeans]

i've tried that before and i lasted for a good two years. i just waited for him to find me (:

[winterzflamez88]

I do that too.

I just blindfold myself and walk through school totally blind so I wouldn't fall in love. 
BUt my teacher made me take it off because I had to take notes. 

LoL Yeah, but love is blind! I was like that after i got so obsessed with this boy, it was out of hand, i got jealous of every girl he talked to. So i kept off boys for quite a while until.... i didn't want to...i culdn't help it.... but this other boy was so incredibly sweet, and I fell in <3 with him. I got out of the boring i hate everything phase, and I was so happy all of a sudden. thats wen I nu that's what was missing. u get hurt, but no pain no gain, eh?

[angelrevelation]

i've tried getting OVER crushes... because it never seems like they would ever like me but yea not now. there is some hope! lol

[dreamii]

yeahh, im doing that right now =]
sometimes i just think love waste alot of your time.....and things would never work out, well at lease for me o_o
so now im not (trying) to like anyone, the "guy" would come when he comes, so no need to get crazy about it =p

[technicolour]

after i broke up with my ex bf cause he called me fat..a b!tch etc. etc. etc. i swore that i would not go out with a guy for the rest of the year..haven't quite broken the promise yet..but i came close..but i guess it depends if he is really great then i guess breaking the vow's alright..right?

[x shootingstar x]

Let me share my silly experience.
When I was in elementary (yes, elementary) and middle school.. I had crushes.. maybe a lot too. It was just crushes.. I was probably a little bit obsess with them though. It was just bothersome.. wastes my time thinking about them. When I got into 9th grade. I decided to be crush-free. Maybe it was because I was a lil bit more mature. Then... boom... it hit me. I had a crush on this boy.. After that, I was a lil bit hurt... complicated stuff. After that.. I decided to go back to my crush-free state. It worked for a while until the summer. And so on and so on, now... I'm loving someone. =D

[sheepy]

it sounds hard O_O but good luck~

[toxic_s2]

oh..i did that...it lasted for...a little more than a year. pretty good actually..

but yeah... i totally gave up on boys for that period of time. (first year of high school. 9th grade...i thought "okay, im in high school. after this is college and i have to start paying more attention to my education and less on boys. " )

but you get lonely..><;; and if you are me...(i've been crushing on guys since elementary..even as early as kindergarden :o! ) then it's pretty hard. ><;;

cus for me...i was so used to goin to school and looking forward to that one class with him..or lunch so i can see him..or during break so i can meet up with him...or just..anything. it was hard for me to just..go to school and actually go there for...EDUCATION and not for your crush(es).

[canny]

Wise man don't fall in love

[PinkTrash]

i dont think im going to last either.. >.<"

[WrathOfOnigo]

Yes, once upon a time i tried...
In the end I FAILED MISERABLY!!
I think I made it about a day or two. I amw ay to guy obsessed.

[Paradox of Life]

It's pretty easy for me because everyone in my grade is a frickin' immature idiot who hasn't gone through puberty yet, so yah.. And I'm already taken anyway so

[multifaceted]

you cant stop the heart from love. it just does it by itself no matter how much you stick to that freaking rule

[kill me please]

ive done that, back in middle school it was kinda easy. but now it would just be hell.

[gothicdork]

Why try not to fall in love? I've done that so many times that I've ended up pushing people away that truly cared about me. I've always ended up hurting myself. There are times when you aren't trying to fall in love that you do and don't know it until it hits you like a lead brick in teh face.....so to speak. If you can't fall in love with someone, all the more power to you. Sorry I'm in a relationship righ tnow........which I guess can make my opinion biased. well gotta go.


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[Dabme]

yeah I tried that but I still did fall in love.

[iheartsimba]

It's actually nice. After a while, you become dependent on people. "OMIGWASH WILL HE PASS ME IN THE HALL TODAY" "OMIGAWSH HE LOOKED AT ME". And sometimes it becomes just your imagination. That drives me crazy. One day I made this rule that every guy I walked by that was hot, I thought to myself: "I'm independent! I don't need a guy to make me happy! Look away! I don't need anyone" haha how lame. But it worked. That was a good day.

[aznplayaz]

I've tried but if you love someone you can't really stop yourself from loving them. (that's what i believe)

[PinkTrash]

iunnno; its confusing. and plus the guy i was crushing on, was my ex, and i wasnt over him, but he apparently was. and it was really hard, and it hurttt; so this was my only resort. well not really; but the best one i suppose.

[winterzflamez88]

yea n usually if i wanna keep from falling in love with a boy, i act mean to him all the time and end up loving him even more, but then he just hates me cz i'm mean to him. it's a TRAP I TELL YOU!!! AHHHH!!!!

[x LUV x ALWAYS x]

ive never tried that; maybe i should.

but what im doing right now is similar...im trying to fall out of "love" (okay its not really LOVE but more like...i really really like him) with one of my good friends...because he just keeps hurting me for fun...and teasing me. but its really hard to lose the feeling because i see him all the time and stuff.

after i get over this, ill try that i think ^_^

[mouse_3k]

yah. Actually im doing tht now. I refuse to let myself get attached to my bf since we just started dating. Dont know, the past ppl tht hurt me made me stronger so im just keepin my guard up

[babierain]

yeah;; i've done that, not on purpose though