WHAT DO i DO?!, THiS ONE GUY.. Options

[LA_MORENA]

ok. There is this one guy named Ryan, i met him in the begining of the school year and ever since then we have been really good friends. i have always been there for him when he was in need. I am also a good friend of his girlfriend. But just a few days ago, he told me that he LOVES me,as in more than a friend. At first I thought he was just playing games, but he was really serious about it. N he told me that he doesnt love her, n he wants to leave her for me. I have no idea what to do. Can someone please help me out!!??

[sumipark]

tell him he needs to work it out with her and yu have nothing to do with it until its all cleared out and the blame wont go to yu..or dont listen to me at all which is a better plan.

[--x who0ps]

uhmm who`s a closer friend to you?
the guy you like, or his girlfriend?
if it's the guy, then get with him.
if it's his girlfriend, then dont get with him. stand by her.
plus there's that saying "chicks before dicks"? or wtevr -__-;;

[dahding]

u have to respect his gf. u can't just say, "sure, let's get together" and mess up everything she holds dear. wouldn't it make u feel really guilty, knowing that u were the reason that he broke up with his gf and hurt her that way? i just don't think it's a fair thing to do...i think u should be the better person, step back, and tell him to try to fix problems with his gf. if things still don't work out with him and his gf, then it's up to him/his gf to end things. then u can come in and go out with him...but it'd be kinda awkward, considering how u and his gf are friends. confusing.

[Weird_I_Know]

yeah- you have to respect his current girlfriend- once I was the girl on the other side and it hurts once you find out- so perhaps talk to her and then also make him clear up his problems first- if you guys end up getting together do it once he's clear out of a relationship

[*mishyerr*]

uhmm who`s a closer friend to you?
the guy you like, or his girlfriend?
if it's the guy, then get with him.
if it's his girlfriend, then dont get with him. stand by her.
plus there's that saying "chicks before dicks"? or wtevr -__-;;

Agreed.

[heyyfrankie]

i think that there is a different between loving someone and being in love with someone. i think that if he doesn't want to go out with his current girlfriend anymore, he should break up with her. but i don't know if he should go out with you because that is kinda wrong because you will be going out with your friend's ex and i don't think it is a good choice.

[Shattered_Hope]

You don't do anything....until he's over his g/f...as in broke up with her already. For now, keep your distance. He has a girlfriend and he's already telling you his feelings.....this means that you should keep the girlfriend in mind and respect her. Think what it would be like if you were the girlfriend, how you would feel if something like this happened. I think you should space yourself away from him until he decides to leave her on his own...not because of you.

[rOckThISshYt]

I think you should come to a clear decision about whether or not you like him. I don't think he should be with his girlfriend if he has stronger feelings for you because if she knew then she'd be even more hurt. And yeah... if you're closer to the girlfriend, I'd stick by her. But I also think that girls shouldn't hate each other for dating their exes. I mean, two of my friends dated my ex. And I really did not care.

[aera]

if he doesnt love her, he should break up with her. if you like him that way and he asks you out, then say yes. but if you dont like him, then say no. but i dont think he should break up with her for you. tell him that if hes going to break up with her, its because he doesnt like her anymore, not because he now loves you.
did that make any sense...?

[loljuliana]

you cant let him do that to his girlfriend. tell his girlfriend before she gets even more hurt; and probably let her dump him before he can dump her. and just explain to him that you just dont think it's right.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

just stay out of it, tell him to work it out with his girlfriend if you try to take matters into your own hands you'll end up either hurting one of them or even both. tell him that it's just not fair to his gf and it's not right.

[moo.]

talk it out with your friend first

[_sarcastic_]

think about it, if he can do that to his current gf wouldn't he be able to do that to you in the future? if you guys go together that is.
yeah i agree with the ppl above, tell him to work it out with his gf first

[jue]

first tell him that you think its wrong for him to be going out with you and saying that he loves you before he breaks up with his girlfriend and then ask him why he suddenly changed his feelings for the other girl