i hate my life.... Options

[brand0n]

there was this girl thats i was good friends with...i fell in love with her...we really had fun together and stuff but one day, this guy just came outa nowhere and hes around her 24/7 and she starts to like him and im all left alone..i told myself i would move on and i became best friends with another girl. BEST FRIENDS...although she was my best friend, i kinda fell for her secretly but not showing it. few days ago, she got with my really close friend. neither of them knew i liked her. im left all alone again.

i know most of u guys are gunna say OMFG UR YOUNG, WHO CARES, WHEN UR OLD U WILL FIND UR TRUE LOVE

well.......

it hurts.......it really hurts.....i dont know what to do anymore..

[parallel]

Aww. Poor baby. No seriously. I know how you feel. And I'm not gonna tell you to get over it cuz it's extremely difficult to. But. Maybe you should just start speaking out yah know? Make your feelings obvious. =]

[WhiteLotus*]

Aww. Don't worry about it so much. You're going to find that one girl in life that'll keep you happy and will cherish you. Sometimes you get heartbroken; it's a thing in life we must go through.

To ease the pain, write down your emotions. Maybe in a poem, a story. Something! Writing things out will make it better.

And don't worry! There are better fish in the aquarium.

Hope you feel better!

Oh, and I do believe this goes into Relationships. Next time put things where they need to properly go, okay?

[FoOd]

If it bothers you so much, just tell your friend and the girl.

Why bottle it all inside? Its only going to eventually kill you, so just tell them how you feel.

Feel better soon.

[tooeffingcrazy]

Move to Relationships

[*mishyerr*]

First, do not consider it love. It's infatuation. [That might ease the pain] I understand it hurts, dear. I know how it feels to be rejected.. for two years straight by someone I was ' in love ' with. There are some good Wicca candle magic spells to relieve a broken heart, as well. You need to tell the girls you like faster. Apparently, you're being too shy and slow that they have to move on. You need to find out whether they like you or not before another 'her' gets stolen. ;] Goodluck honey;

Or you could just go beat everyone up and steal the chicks' hearts. <3

[sheddingtears]

now that you've experienced something twice, try not to make the same mistake again so you won't get hurt.

it's called bad timing.

i've gone through this so many times.

when you like someone a lot, find the courage inside of you and go for it.

:)

[sammi rules you]

1) uhm. welcome to life. titling this "i hate my life..." is stupid. people like people and sometimes the people don't like them back. you get over it.
2) say something to the people you like and maybe they might know you like them and won't do that to you!

[aera]

next time, dont wait until youre hurt. tell them you like them. at my school, girls dont tell guys they like them. so the guys have to tell the girls.

[sumipark]

i agree. dont wait. tell them. its better to tell than keeping it in..

[dahding]

u hate ur life? *passes a razor blade* go wild kiddo.

in all seriousness, there are always more girls. and they didn't know that u had feelings for them. so how were they supposed to know not to run off with some other guy and instead wait for u to make a move, but u had no balls to actually ask them out?

and yeah. it hurts. but that's life u know? there are the ups and downs. and eventually, u'll find the one girl who'll love u just as much, and u two can run off together to vegas to get married. before some douche comes along and swipes her away.

[taintedtrash]

First, do not consider it love. It's infatuation.  [That might ease the pain] I understand it hurts, dear. I know how it feels to be rejected.. for two years straight by someone I was ' in love ' with.  There are some good Wicca candle magic spells to relieve a broken heart, as well. You need to tell the girls you like faster. Apparently, you're being too shy and slow that they have to move on. You need to find out whether they like you or not before another 'her' gets stolen. ;] Goodluck honey;

Or you could just go beat everyone up and steal the chicks' hearts. <3

i dont know if anyone has the right to judge another's feelings as infatuation or love.

but, never regret and ask yourself "what if"s. tell her, the worst that can happen is gettin rejected. but we all need to get rejected in life in some shape or form to actually grow from it. suck it up, get some balls, and just go for it.

if you do get rejected, atleast you've got a good reason to move on,right? not sit here like a hopeless romantic and think that your princess who likes someone else will come back to you. you're just waisting your time.

this coming from a girl who liked a guy for 3 years, rejected, and still had that stupid hope thinking he'll finally realize that it's me. i wasted those 3 years, just waiting like a fool.

don't be a fool.

[aznhunnie6o1]

Aww... It'll get better!! Next time you like a girl, you should definantly tell her. You don't always have to tell them in person. You can IM them or write them a note that says you like them.

I wrote a note saying "I like you" to my boyfriend like.. on wednesday and he asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday.

They might have secretly liked you but you never told them so they just gave up...

Look on the bright side. There are plenty of women in this world.

[rOckThISshYt]

If you're in love, fight for her. Don't just let people trample your heart, even if it is accidental.

[brand0n]

i cant..........hes my really really close friend..but he doesnt know i like her..

but i dont wanna tell him. hes such a good friend. i dont want him to feel bad about liking her just because of me..

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I agree with them, don't wait for the last minute they might be out of your grasp before you get the chance to tell them how you feel.

[KELLYYY]

I know how you feel. I fell for this guy and he dated my best friend. Sigh. But nobody ever knew I liked him. :)

[loljuliana]

well there's nothing you can really do i guess. you should've told her that you liked her. well even though they're together, that doesnt mean that you cant be friends with her. just plan a time where you both could hang out, just you and her. or you could hang out with her&her boyfriend; just not all the time. or make new friends i guess.

try keeping your mind off it? you could go play a sport more often, or start writing poems or stories; maybe a biography?? haha i dont know; but just anything to keep your mind off it. feel better

[_sarcastic_]

if you keep bottling it up inside, eventually it'll make you depressed, why not just tell her how you feel.

[yukichan]

aww..feel better..
well maybe next time instead of keeping ur feelings in, u should say it out loud and express it..

[jue]

awwn;T
just tell her how you feel; im sure she`ll like you and even if she doesnt, at least she knows the truth(=