What should i choose?, Help me! Options

[Jayembe]

Well i've got this friend named Jon and he likes me and i like him but for now we just flirt and laugh and are still friends but I know that at some point he's going to ask me to be his girlfriend. Sure i would say yes but theres a problem behind it. Every single girl Jon has dated in the past he's dumped and hated to the point that he wont even ever talk to her. He'll call her a slut or tell her that he hates her. I really like Jon and since im young i obviously know it ain't going to last forever but, i want to be his girlfriend at the same time i dont want to have him end up hating me. Should i say no if he asks or should i say yes and hope that its going to last very long. I don't wanna hurt him but i dont wanna lose him either.

[dahding]

he doesn't sound mature enough to be in any relationship...i don't think u should go into the relationship, knowing that u'd probably get hurt badly in the end. i think u should let him down gently and say how u don't want to risk ur friendship with him or something. remember, there always more guys. gluck with it all.

[silver-rain]

Well I think that since you both like each other, you should say yes. Don't worry about the future, concentrate on the present. Since he likes you, and you like him too, just focus on that. You shouldn't stress out about the breakup. True even though it might not last long but maybe your relationship might not end up like his other ones, it could last, or end amicably. You wouldn't really know unless you accept and see what happens.
Good luck.

[Chii]

umm...you do know that the point of dating is to find your future spouse right...?

you don't date to just for little flings or just to have a boyfriend/girlfriend, you date because you're attracted to someone and you see a good future...this is usually why really young people shouldn't date, they just date to date, not for love.

he seems like a jerk, is this what you want to deal with for the rest of your life? ...or in your case, the next few days/weeks?

[WrathOfOnigo]

Erm.. please say no to him. See, even if you are doing it for the moment and to have a couple months of happiness with a guy you're still setting up something worse for the future. I mean if you really want him as a boyfriend you can ruin the relationship as friends and go for something bigger, then eventually he'll hate you.
If he hates you...
Send him a virus,

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

lol! he's not ready for a serious relationship. u should talk to him about that. it might help. dont say yes cuz ur just going to get hurt.

[Shattered_Hope]

If you like him then take a crazy chance.

[loljuliana]

say no. it's not worth losing a friend. say no and keep a friend. say yes, be happy for a little while, and then lose a friend.

[T_R_G]

basing this on what you said its a risky situation.
those girls must of done something to make him hate them so much.
say yes if you really want to its your decision afterall.
make sure you stay true to yourself and you will be fine.
if he ends up hating you..
his loss

[expoised]

it sounds like this guy isn't ready for a relationship. don't go out with a guy who can't respect a girl; by calling his ex's sluts, etc. it shows that he doesn't respect them and it's no wonder why the relationship didn't work out...
i'd say no.

[sheddingtears]

don't think about what would happen when he breaks up with you. we all can't see the future. who knows, you might change jon and he might think you're the girl of his life.