boy troubles Options

[lilpimpette]

Ok, If you haven't read my other post, let me update you. I like this guy named Kyle. 2 people have told me he has to get to know me better, and 2 other people told me he doesn't like me. The 2 people who said he doesn't like me, are basically crazy over me. Alot of people tell me that those two people are jealous and don't want me with Kyle.

Ok, my friend, Raquel called Kyle today. I was on the other line, on mute. Raquel basically asked if he intended to ask someone out, and he said he was gonna ask some other girl out. Then she asked him if he would consider going out with me, and he said "If I like her I will tell her." Raquel then told him that I was a good person and that I deserve a chance, and he said "Ok." To me, I think he is getting annoyed by people asking him these questions because he seemed tense on the phone. But it isn't my fault people keep asking him about it!

I don't know if he was telling the truth to Raquel about maybe wanting to go out with me because, he hardly knows Raquel, and I doubt he would say something about me to a stranger. I'm still confused on what to think. I almost called him, but whats the point? He will just say the same thing, and probably get a little more mad.

Advice please!

[Shattered_Hope]

I think you need to talk to him......not your friends....people can get annoyed when they get asked by people they barely even know how they feel about a specific person....

[Chii]

i think you should let this all go, this whole "does kyle like her back" thing seems to be ruling your life and his. it probably does annoy him and he already said he was going to ask this other girl out. just because those guys are jealous doesn't mean that they are. they can just be looking out for you.

[dani41790]

I agree with Shattered_Hope. You really should talk to him about it instead of getting your friends to.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

thats EXACTLY what i went through like a week ago. you really should talk to him, cos thats what i did and we went out. then he broke up with me cos his mom made him or something ... but [ yes thats actually yhe truth. his mom made him ] . if he doenst like you back i know it`ll hurt and whatnot, but then you guys werent supposed to be together. those 2 other dudes sound good tho. just dont ever get your hopes up, thats what i learned. it should be memyself&i thats all i have in the end thats what i found out. maybe i just havent found the right person but i still really really really like that guy...

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

i think u should just wait till he comes to u n tells u that he likes u. just let it go n if he likes u he'll tell u if he doesnt...well then u'll just have to move on with ur life. but i dont think that he would be tensed wen someone asked him if he liked u or not if he did like u.

[onemanshow]

well.. pretty annoying if he doesn't like u.. but its sweet getting all these ppl asking him about u... but i would rather.. be quiet and think hehe

[troubled_angel]

I think you should let it be for awhile and see if he says anything to you, then maybe talk to him your self, not have other people do it for you. That would get really annoying.

[multifaceted]

that is happening to me right now... i really should talk to him... just too shy to.

[kyuubi319]

Tell your friends to shut up, first ^_^
I know they're trying to help but I think you might have to talk to him yourself . If you're too shy then write a note, perhaps.

[toodlepops.]

OKay, pick up the phone and call him NOW!
Spark up a conversation, make him laugh.
Who knows, maybe he'll consider going out with you.

[__PASS10NAT3]

Leave him alone. Let him think. Let him go. If this guy really loves you, he'll come bakk =)

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

you should call him yourself, start a conversation. Introduce who you are, ask what he likes, what hobbies he takes, and laugh at his jokes, and most of all BE YOURSELF. and in some point of this crush be sure to tell him that you like him. either call him say "I like you. This is ____" and hang up. Or tell him in person (much better in person.)