Carrying a Condom, Is it slutty ? Options

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

i searched and didnt find a topic on this so:

Do you think it is slutty for girls to carry condoms or means of sexual protection ? Because if guys do it, they are ready and responsible. If girls do it they are sluts.
What is your opinion on this ?

I myself do not think it is slutty. I always have a condom or two on me, whether in my backpack/purse/pocket.

[eli5e]

not reallyy.... just considered being SAFE when the time comes. ..hahahhaha ..

[starlette]

umm, I say its being prepared. Theres nothing wrong with being prepared. I always kept one in my wallet. BUt since I dont really carry anything around anymore I dont. But yeah, theres totally nothing slutty about being ready. I mean, if your boyfriend doesnt have one, wouldnt you be glad you did? Thats not slutty.

[Rachel]

I always have condoms in my purse haha. It is just a habit now I guess. I'm sure that some people think its slutty, but I am only using them with my boyfriend so HAH

[FoOd]

I think its okay to carry them. I mean, your not gonna like use it on every guy you see on the street.

But yes, how can guys carry it?
They don't have a purse or anything, and the only thing is their wallet, which is a bad place to put it.

[*Kathleen*]

EW HECK YES IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111111111

[Shattered_Hope]

You're being safe..just don't carry too much at one time...

[IamRad]

nah, if ur old enough i say its good that ur being safe. but if i find someone around 12 years old with one.. wow. =0

[calmresistance]

Why would it be shallow?

I think it's slutty for someone to be sexually active and NOT carry condoms around. Being prepared and cautious is in no way slutty.

[miszSERENiTY]

Thats smart. Not slutty.

[Chii]

it's not slutty, just because we carry condoms doesn't mean we have sex with whoever on the street

the first time i carried one, it was freshman year, my best friend was looking through my purse and saw it, and other people were like "she has condoms!!!" and i'm the shy type so it looked pretty weird for me...but then the guys thought i was cool

but anyway, i still carry condoms now...i don't really need to because my boyfriend has some at his place and that's the only place we've had sex...but you never know, spontaneous sex seems exciting

[FoOd]

but anyway, i still carry condoms now...i don't really need to because my boyfriend has some at his place and that's the only place we've had sex...but you never know, spontaneous sex seems exciting

Reminds me of the song "Whenever, Wherever" by Shakira.

[faithin_felix]

na....your just being safe,

[MetalChick77]

^ agreed.

unless you do it hoping you can get a random lay out in the streets.

[sandy_lumpy_shor...]

^ yah you just dont wnna get pregent. slutty would be to have a pack in your backpack

[*islandgirl4eva*]

I don't think it's slutty. But then again, it depends on how they carry it. If a girl says "Hey guys, I alway have two condoms on me," what message does that convey to people?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

lol, no i keep in my pockets and theyve fallen out once and my friends were all like =o. cos im kind of a "freak" and a "dirty" girl they say , so they were like WHAT?!. but i personally think basically what you guys have pretty much already summed up. your being prepared. having a pack, is well odd. why would yu need so many? one or two [ in case it breaks or anything ] is just perfectly alright.

just wanted differnet views.

[Chii]

lol, no i keep in my pockets and theyve fallen out once and my friends were all like =o. cos im kind of a "freak" and a "dirty" girl they say , so they were like WHAT?!. but i personally think basically what you guys have pretty much already summed up. your being prepared. having a pack, is well odd. why would yu need so many? one or two [ in case it breaks or anything ] is just perfectly alright.

just wanted differnet views.

if i was every to carry a pack, it would probably just be the ones that come with 3 condoms...a bigger pack would be strange and a little too much, where would someone put it?

[xenosaga]

to me i dont think it is. maybe for safety or for design?!?

[Rachel]

^I have them in a pocket in my purse

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

if i was every to carry a pack, it would probably just be the ones that come with 3 condoms...a bigger pack would be strange and a little too much, where would someone put it? 

yeah, like a 3 pack or so. cos if someone had those packs with like 10 i would be like "uh...gee willikers. yu use all those do you?" lol.

[Chii]

^^for design...? [for xenosaga]

well once, in health we had to make a poster about AIDS, and it was my partners bright idea to make a border of condoms...

heh, he asked our teacher for condoms and she gave him 2, when i asked she gave me a handful

[*stephinika*]

i think i'd see it as safe, but if someone perhaps goes around showing them off and i dunno, saying how she's going to use them, then that may be acting slutty...

[LadyXTor]

Yeah...it's just being safe. Think about it...either Carry a condom or have a baby ...baby....condom...baby... hmmm....

[toodlepops.]

I guess it's for safety.

[__PASS10NAT3]

nopee.. I don't thinkk its slutty`.. i mean.. you never know... =)

[blondisnirvana]

It's a major double standard. Good for guys not for girls. I think it's fine for girls to carry condoms

[kryzcoak47luv666]

I don't think it's slutty, hey a girls got needs too, anyways, it's kinda bad to keep them in your pocket and wallet anyways, but I don't carry them around because me and my bf have some in storage at each of our houses, so we are fine.

[jaeman]

Hey, as long as one is protected, I find no problems with girls carrying condoms.

[starlette]

EW HECK YES IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111111111

u know, if you are serious, thats really closed minded. People have sex without f*cking every person they see. Just because they are carrying around a condom, doesnt mean they are gonna use it on the first available d*ck they come across.

I mean, think of it this way. If you are going over to a friends house, and you brought an extra outfit in case you went out of ended up spending the nite...thats being prepared right? Well with a condom its the same thing. it doesnt automatically mean you are ready to sleep with anyone who will do it. Besides, most people wont even know you have one around unless they go thru your purse or you tell them.

And if you arent serious, well, thats my argument for anyone who does think its slutty. Even tho I really hate going and buying condoms cuz people look at me like I'm a slut. But they can do that cuz I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we can do it if we want dammit. hahaha

[soulless727]

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[xMayleex]

Well people should, i dont think anyone under 16 should though, they shouldnt be sleeping with people at that age, i dont carry them because i have no need to, my boyfriend lives in Spain, its not like hes just going to come to the uk to sleep with me [that sounds strange but oh well]

[shortiiex]

i think it's guy's responsiblitly to carry the condom but guys sometimes they don't like to play it safe....so the girls have to carry it..so they don't really look like sluts

[starlette]

most people who arent active think its slutty.
people who are active know its smart.

wow. very well said. And you make a good point, a lot of people who arent sexually active think people who are sexually active are sluts. even without carrying around a condom.

[racoons > you]

most people who arent active think its slutty.
people who are active know its smart.

a point very well made

there is a difference between carrying them to be safe and prepared, and advertising that you carry them. you dont need to wear a pin which says 'i have condoms on me, ask me who im doing'

[*lolita kitty*]

uhm not really. i mean... well i never thought of it. i dont, so yeah.

[xquizit]

No, it doesn't make them slutty. If they're already sexually active, then it just means that they are responsible.

[Heathasm]

it doesnt really effect the deffinition of a slut.
if a slut carries around a condom that makes them a safe slut
if a non-slut carries around a condom that makes them a safe non-slut

[EmmalieV]

The idea of course is slutty to me idk why , but its also safe. SO slutty and safe. =)

kidding.

[PinoyOtaku]

It's being prepared....but slutty?

[*Kathleen*]

u know, if you are serious, thats really closed minded. People have sex without f*cking every person they see. Just because they are carrying around a condom, doesnt mean they are gonna use it on the first available d*ck they come across.

I mean, think of it this way. If you are going over to a friends house, and you brought an extra outfit in case you went out of ended up spending the nite...thats being prepared right? Well with a condom its the same thing. it doesnt automatically mean you are ready to sleep with anyone who will do it. Besides, most people wont even know you have one around unless they go thru your purse or you tell them.

And if you arent serious, well, thats my argument for anyone who does think its slutty. Even tho I really hate going and buying condoms cuz people look at me like I'm a slut. But they can do that cuz I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we can do it if we want dammit. hahaha

Yeah, I was kidding. I detest double standards.

[canny]

i think it's ok if you are prepared for having sex

[xlaydee_v]

I don't know. At least you don't go around in the streets saying. "HEY BABY WANNA HAVE SEX!!?!".....or do you? lols jk, I don't really find that slutty. Depends on your age.

[starlette]

Yeah, I was kidding. I detest double standards.

yay I thought so. the whole !!!!11111 thing kinda gave it away

[mouse_3k]

Not slutty, its safety

[*xcaitlinx*]

I think its okay to carry them. I mean, your not gonna like use it on every guy you see on the street. 

But yes, how can guys carry it?
They don't have a purse or anything, and the only thing is their wallet, which is a bad place to put it.

they might keep it in their pocket?

[sunissed14127]

No..I consider it safe.

[funbobby]

No, either by the bed or in the wallet. Ha ha I remember my mates carrying them when they were 13 and they're still virgins. Amusing at the least.
Oh yeah, in this world of AIDS, syphillis etc. I'd personally slap anyone who did not use a condom. It's like spitting in the eye of every one of the countless thousands that have died horrifically from an STD.
On the catholic side, I would preach no sex before marriage, but that's not going to happen.

[vampireduster]

nope i dont think it is. You gotta be ready for it so yeah. I think its fine. One of my friends carry a box in his backpack

[aznxdreamer]

your 13...a coundom or TWO?
thers this girl that had it in this keychain thingy and showed it to me when i was.11? yeah..i was kinda scared.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

im sorry to say it but in my opinion....yes.....and its not smart to carry it in your pocket because your body heat can mess it up and the next thing you know you have a junior!

they can get messed up by heat ?! i didnt know that. lol im not 13. i dont use the condoms though. only to be prepared.

[DanielleMaria05]

I dont' think its bad. I mean, if your having sex, thats one thing, but then, if you care enough to carry condoms. I think its great. You're protecting yourself, and others. GO YOU

[Amiko]

What's wrong with a little spontaneous sex??

Carrying around a condom is better than nothing. Hey, what you do is you're life, but if I get to know you, I would love for you to use a condom. That way, in the near future, I won't have to hear you sobbing and crying that you got pregant or you have STD. For those of you who think its slutty, thats your moral belief and crap like that.

[NatiMarie]

I don't carry any...well I don't know...sluts are those girls who give their bodies freely.
:\
I only got a condom once, but it was an accident. I thought it was a lollipop since it was conveniently wrapped with a lollipop stick. Turns out it was a flavored condom. I threw it away. =P No need for it at this age.

[ItzOnlySydney]

i think it's safe =). at least they use protection.

[q-tips rule]

nah i dont think so. gotta be safe when youre having sex x]

[dani41790]

I wouldn't consider it slutty. There's nothing wrong with wanting to protect yourself

[yaamakoh]

nah, it's better safe then sorry. if i were a girl and i knew i'd get into a situation where i'd get sexed upon, i'd carry a condom in my purse or wallet. only 3.99 for three, might as well.

[gladz612]

better be safe than sorry.. but personally.. i don't carry a condom.. i think it's a guy's job.

[f00LisH_h3aRt63]

i don't think that it makes any gender a "slut" if they carry or just have condoms. i think it's a good thing that people wanna actually be safe.

unfortunately, not a lot of people actually think that way. girls have that stupid stigma that will never, never die. some guys think that if a girl carries a condom in her bag or just has one than shes "loose" or let's just put it this way...a whore.

but, if a guy has one it's no big deal. lol.

funny isn't it?

jackie

[kana-p]

I pretty much agree with everyone. They aren't so much as sluttly unless you plan on having sex with a bunch of strangers. :P
Although I don't carry them now, I know I will in the future (boyfriend lives far away until next summer ;_;).

[wickedcurse]

i think its a healthy practice eventhough for some people, its slutty and horny..

[rememberme]

Good~

Safe sex is the way to go~

[miss barnes]

i dont because i just dont but, that doesnt mean i wouldnt. i just view it as being prepared. no big deal

[Soleil]

Noo. Like others said its considered safe..its not like your acctually using the condoms.

[saysaydaplay]

i personally wouldnt do it anywyas ...but at least theyre being prepared.

[parallel]

I don't think it's slutty. Er. Well I don't know. I guess it can be. You could leave the wrong impression on someone you know? But hey. At least your on the safe side.

[multifaceted]

as long as the pack of condoms isnt used up in a day, it is not considered slutty to me. you wanna be safe

[wayne]

depends....

girl: if you have a boyfreind- No its not slutty... (unless ur cheating)
if you dont have a bf- yes it is slutty, and you should be somewhere thinking about what you have done...

boys: if you have a gf- No its not slutty... (who the hell calls guys sluts?)
if you dont have a gf- No, and you better have one cause there shouldnt be any teeneager out there making babies because of accidents.. (not saying that its a bad thing, but ... krap.. you get the idea... no offense to anyone btw...)



just my opinon. the reason i think boys wouldnt be considered sluts is cause when a girl is having sex with a dude thats single and he doesnt have a condom.. thats not a good position to be in. same for if they are bf/gf. you should always use protection.



remember kids... only you can prevent forest fires..

[jue]

i dont think im at the age to be ready to carry condoms even if its for safety.

[xlauren73x]

hah as long as you dont keep it in your bra then its not slutty.. lol. nahh i would think if you had a boyfriend its being prepared.. but if you're someone whos just looking for a 'friend with benefits' its a little slutty

[AznVi3tGrl]

well if u were young i guess? but i don't think b/c ur being safe

[[Scr3amin][Horro...]

Sorry,
I dont carry condoms in my jeans
But I dont think there anything wrong with it

[JlIaTMK]

EW HECK YES IT IS!!!!!!!!!!!!11111111111111

Shush!

You carry your condoms in your vagina.

[[Scr3amin][Horro...]

You carry your condoms in your vagina.

Haha. Nice one

[yOUCANtSEEmE]

it's not slutty, just because we carry condoms doesn't mean we have sex with whoever on the street

the first time i carried one, it was freshman year, my best friend was looking through my purse and saw it, and other people were like "she has condoms!!!" and i'm the shy type so it looked pretty weird for me...but then the guys thought i was cool

but anyway, i still carry condoms now...i don't really need to because my boyfriend has some at his place and that's the only place we've had sex...but you never know, spontaneous sex seems exciting

i started carrying them freshman year too. actually this is freshman year for me so i started carrying them this year. i have had condoms since i was like 11 (i actually collected them. weird i know. then my older brother took them all) but now i carry one with me. im not having sex but im a spontaneous girl so i never know what im going to do. i want to be safe. its not even like i plan on having sex soon but having one makes me feel safe.

[The-Mach-Hare]

hey, at least youre being safe.

we were at a carnival one time and a girl had one slightly hanging out of her back pocket and my dad says "is that the way these days to know if a girl is taken"

my dad is by far the funniest person in the world. thats not funny compared to half the stuff he says.

[PinkTrash]

I'd say both.. Its safe to have a condom, yet its giving the impression to others that you have sex at any unplanned moment a lot, which is kind of slutty.

[[ex]potential]

i wouldnt necessarily think of it as sluttly. a lot of people are doing it these days. why not follow the crowd?

[*_Sara_*]

I think it's pretty cool for a girl to carry around a condom, it shows that your prepared for anything that might happen. I don't carry one because I'm too embarassed to go buy one in the first place.
Sara
P.S. Never ever carry a condom in your wallet. All the rubbing will definatley end up ripping the latex and then using it would be as good (or bad) as not using one at all.

[Looow]

i think i'd see it as safe, but if someone perhaps goes around showing them off and i dunno, saying how she's going to use them, then that may be acting slutty...

Yeah I agree.

I see it as being safe.

[HoodieObsessed]

umm, I say its being prepared.  Theres nothing wrong with being prepared.  I always kept one in my wallet.  BUt since I dont really carry anything around anymore I dont.  But yeah, theres totally nothing slutty about being ready.  I mean, if your boyfriend doesnt have one, wouldnt you be glad you did?  Thats not slutty.

I agree. kinda.

but I donno it also pretty much gives away that you are sexually active most likely...so I donno I guess at my age I think that's slutty. just because ummm I donno, I'm a prick? lol. but uhh I guess it's fine...if I saw one fall out of my freinds pocket tho I would be shocked...that would be jsut...weird

most people who arent active think its slutty.
people who are active know its smart.

well said. I completely agree. I'm not active therefor...enough said.

and actually I woudl think it's kinda slutty for anyone who's under...about 16 or even 18 to carry one around because I don't think it's good to be sexually active that early I don't want to have sex till I'm like at least 18.

[*salcha*]

Not necessarily. It just means they're ready for anything that happens, that they're prepared.

[HoodieObsessed]

your 13...a coundom or TWO?
thers this girl that had it in this keychain thingy and showed it to me when i was.11? yeah..i was kinda scared.

In her MySpace it sais she's 18, lol

[lilJdawg]

Nope, it's funny when you actually see one.

[lilJdawg]

Nope, it's funny when you actually see one.

[lilJdawg]

Nope, it's funny when you actually see one.

[*RiC3xBoy*]

No it is 100% not slutty if you carry it around....just dont be telling people that it's used...

[*brownsugar08*]

No..just being safe, incase something were to come up

[lakerfever2476]

Getting an unplanned pregnancy. Now that's slutty.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

lol, all you guys make pretty good points.
in my opinion, which i dont think i ever posted when i started this

i think its okay, not slutty UNLESS your using it for nightly romps on the guys [ i mean town ] ( and by that i mean different guys each night or something...) but i dont find it slutty at all. but some girls when they found out i had one in my backpack were like so i decided to see cB's opinion.

[[Mediocre]Artist]

"I'd rather have it an not need it than need it and not have it"

Though if your like the girl on my school bus who pulled out 15-20 condoms and asked the girl next to her, "Baby what kind do you need?" Thats kinda slutty.

[biglamchops]

If it for your boyfriend then that's fine....if its for a random guy or someone you just fool around with...then that's kinda slutty...just my opinion though..

[mocassinsx29]

I think it means your ready, either girl or boy. =T But girls are the ones who need it a lot more because not only do we have to deal with STDs but also PREGNANCY. -_- Slutty? Welll, I guess kind of. Maybe.

[xsweetxcandyx]

theres nothign wrong it with it because you never know what will happen

it isn't slutty unless your have it because you're planning on having an one nighter

[EAST0AKLAND9800]

I don't think it's slutty, it's being safe.

[Saeglopur]

Does it really matter what people think?

[JoJo_x]

i consider it safe...but some girls take those stuff all serious, and call the girl a slut and stuff..eh..oh well, who cares?

[*reflection*]

i think its being safe and smart

[racoons > you]

Getting an unplanned pregnancy. Now that's slutty.

way to pass judgement on others!