Kathleen Vazquez, R.I.P. |
 Apr 24 2005, 03:13 AM
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Hey. I know I haven't posted in a while, but I'm really depressed right now. You see, some of my friends are celebrating the one year anniversary of my friend's, Kathleen, death. I don't know what to do because I want to move on but im still really sad about her passing. Could you give me advice about how to deal of these tough times?
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Apr 24 2005, 04:09 AM
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Hey, everyone is different, It would take a month or a couple of weeks to get over it. All you need is time and patient. i think everything will be okay. You just need time to release the pressure.
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Apr 24 2005, 04:18 AM
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i guess ull get used to this in some time. it really takes time. i know its a very difficult time to get through but still try to brighten up yourself, she doesn't want to be seeing u so gloomy =)
ps. rip kathleen |
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Apr 24 2005, 07:35 AM
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Yeah, like aznxboredxperson said. Everyone handles death and their emotions differently. I wouldn't come right out and tell them anything about wanting to get over it, that may upset them. I would say, just do whatever they are doing in memory of her. Just kind of go with it.
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Apr 24 2005, 11:13 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Depends on the person that passed away...if they were really important to you....then it will take a longer time than normal to be over it....just give it more time and sooner or later....you'll be able to move on....but for now....just use the day as a remembrance of the loss....if you're not ready to celebrate it yet...with your friends.
May she rest in peace.
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Apr 24 2005, 11:35 AM
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omg im so sorry. when i saw the topic name, i thought you meant.... kathleen from cb, considering she has an enormous obsession with jhonen vasquez things. but anyways, I am really sorry for that. But it takes a different amount of time for each person to deal with it. I mean, we've read about steps in health that people go through. I believe your on the second step of grieving/depression. Don't worry, you'll be able to deal with it in time
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Apr 24 2005, 12:13 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
I'm very sorry about your loss
I think grieving is all right. Don't make her death run your life, because it will be as if you died yourself. It's healthy to grieve about people you cared about, don't just try to avoid it.
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Apr 24 2005, 09:25 PM
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Um, ..she's in a better place. I'm sure she'd be happier if you were at peace with her death.
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| *Kathleen* |
Apr 24 2005, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE omg im so sorry. when i saw the topic name, i thought you meant.... kathleen from cb, considering she has an enormous obsession with jhonen vasquez things. but anyways, I am really sorry for that. Eep I thought that too.  And as for the topic at hand, I'm truly sorry for your loss. As aforementioned, I think it's best for you to move on. Keep her in your heart, but don't let that stop you from being happy - I'm sure she wouldn't want that.
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