what do i have to do, i need her back |
 Apr 23 2005, 05:10 PM
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alrite there was this girl named jess.me and her were really good friends we talked to each other everyday at school, on the phone
nut the all of the sudden we just stopped but it really wasnt all of the sudden we stopped talking after i told her i liked her. ever since ive been in a deppressive state...............that happened almost a year ago why did she stop talking to me  i need her back i've tried to kill my self for her i thought the pain would go but the suicide didnt work cuz i got caught when i was about to do it why do we have to suffer(the people like me) why did she stopp talking to me? |
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Apr 23 2005, 05:14 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
uhhhh why don't u go ask her???
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Apr 23 2005, 05:15 PM
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i cant its hard
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Apr 23 2005, 05:34 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You probably scared her off....but you'll never really know the real reason if you don't ask her. To be honest with you...there is no reason why you can't..and any excuse you have is not a good reason....so don't cry or attempt suicide if you won't even ask her why she stopped talking to you to begin with.
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Apr 23 2005, 05:46 PM
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................ u guys are rite the only reason i havent done anything is becuz i never really asked any one
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Apr 23 2005, 07:23 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't kill yourself over her, i mean you don't know why she just stopped talking to you entirely. the best is to ask her
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Apr 23 2005, 07:40 PM
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 panda babe Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,694 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Apr 23 2005, 7:23 PM) don't kill yourself over her, i mean you don't know why she just stopped talking to you entirely. the best is to ask her  she`s right, dont kill yourself over a girl. though i know she must mean a lot to do, you have to ask her, it might have scared her off but y`know its been a year. plus that maybe she isnt the one for you, the one for you is out there and if you had been successful in committing suicide you might have never had the chance of loving someone and having them love you back. think bout it alright. take cares |
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Apr 23 2005, 07:46 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
nothing's ever worth suicide.
especially a girl? you can't die over a girl... you'll get over it. 
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Apr 23 2005, 08:23 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
dont kill ur self, its not worth it..
killing ur self wont solve anything.. i used to feel depressed after i got dumped without a reason, but i eventually got over it.. anyways.. ask her..or get a friend to ask her...u deserve an explaination.. |
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Apr 23 2005, 08:32 PM
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thnx for the advice but shes the only girl that ive been able to get along with
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Apr 23 2005, 09:35 PM
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 tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
QUOTE don't kill yourself over her, i mean you don't know why she just stopped talking to you entirely. the best is to ask her that's right. it's not worth killing yourself for. just be straight forward with her. ask her urself and you'll feel much better. |
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Apr 23 2005, 09:42 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(gt3k145 @ Apr 23 2005, 5:10 PM) i've tried to kill my self for her what does you killing yourself do for her...?  she's probably just uncomfortable with the fact that you like her that way... plus if she's still not talking to you a year later is she even worth it? whenever something happens she just cancels it out and doesn't deal with it...you can do so much better sweets. you're 15, don't get too serious with girls now...you have the rest of your life to find that special chick
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Apr 23 2005, 09:48 PM
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QUOTE(gt3k145 @ Apr 23 2005, 6:10 PM) why did she stop talking to me i need her back i've tried to kill my self for her i thought the pain would go but the suicide didnt work *hug* I can imagine that is hurts that she just stopped talking to you. But killing yourself over someone like her is not worth it, trust me. You are young. Live your life to the fullest. The is a special girl waiting just for you out there in the world. And if you feel you cant deal with these feelings on your own please talk to someone about it. A school conselor, you parents, your best friend. Someone. But whatever you do dont hurt yourself. Please. |
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Apr 23 2005, 10:00 PM
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Watch This Group: Member Posts: 886 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,408 |
ya im gonna talk to her again hopefully nothing bad will happen
and i dont think i meant to type kill mysself for her i meant becuz of her but ya............. 
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Apr 23 2005, 10:41 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
nothing is worth commiting suicide over... there are other girls out there. really.
just be friends with her for now if you really want her back  take it slow
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Apr 23 2005, 11:04 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Maybe she feels awkward, just give her time
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Apr 24 2005, 03:59 PM
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................................i dont know what to do anymore
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Apr 24 2005, 05:28 PM
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does she have to be the person who starts the conversation?
just call her or something and talk. i know it's scary. i have a "friend" going through similar things. i put friend in quotation marks because this friend is.. was one of my best friends, tried to kill himself over a girl, and while doing it, blamed his life on me somehow.. so.. that sucked. and there's plenty more to add on, especially the factor that i sorta had a thing for him, but that's not so important right now. okay bye. |
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Apr 25 2005, 09:42 AM
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im in school.im gonna do it
thanx for the gelp guys wish me luck ill fill u in after |
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Apr 25 2005, 11:44 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
It's sort of pathetic that you were thinking of killing yourself just because some girl isn't talking to you anymore...
She may be just uncomfortable with you liking her for the moment; just act natural around her; don't imply you like her or anything for now. Try to just remain good friends. |
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Apr 25 2005, 03:06 PM
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Killing yourself won't make her return to you....
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Apr 25 2005, 04:39 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
how old are you?! ARE YOU f**king CRAZY?!?! you are so f**king young n you have ur WHOLE life ahead of you. RITE NOW u may think that the girl you like is all that matters but JUST WAIT TILL YOU GET OLDER. you'll realize how stupid n idiotic u were being. taking your LIFE over a f**king GIRL is NOT worth it. ESPECIALLY if she doesnt feel the same way about u. u can talk it out with her or something. figure out someway to get in contact with her n talk it out OR you can get ur ass to get over this chick cuz YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT!!! think about you FAMILY!!! your FRIENDS!!! think of the pple you'll hurt if u died!!! have u EVER thought about that?! u think the girl that u like (that ur NOT even fully IN LOVE with) would have cared about your death as much as your family n close friends?! HELL f**k NO!!! u need to get your act together cuz you're being SO SELFISH in doing that. you think it's a selfless act?! think again! u hurt so many pple in doing that!!! just get over her. its the only thing u can do. just let go. it's better for YOU.
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Apr 25 2005, 05:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 25 2005, 4:39 PM) how old are you?! ARE YOU f**king CRAZY?!?! you are so f**king young n you have ur WHOLE life ahead of you. RITE NOW u may think that the girl you like is all that matters but JUST WAIT TILL YOU GET OLDER. you'll realize how stupid n idiotic u were being. taking your LIFE over a f**king GIRL is NOT worth it. ESPECIALLY if she doesnt feel the same way about u. u can talk it out with her or something. figure out someway to get in contact with her n talk it out OR you can get ur ass to get over this chick cuz YOU ARE WORTH SO MUCH MORE THAN THAT!!! think about you FAMILY!!! your FRIENDS!!! think of the pple you'll hurt if u died!!! have u EVER thought about that?! u think the girl that u like (that ur NOT even fully IN LOVE with) would have cared about your death as much as your family n close friends?! HELL f**k NO!!! u need to get your act together cuz you're being SO SELFISH in doing that. you think it's a selfless act?! think again! u hurt so many pple in doing that!!! just get over her. its the only thing u can do. just let go. it's better for YOU. Calm down, gosh. He's not crazy either. It's life. Go talk to her!! Don't be so scared. She might not like you though, that maybe why she's not calling you anymore or on the other side she might like you but she doesn't have the guts to say it back. |
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Apr 25 2005, 06:40 PM
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i was gonna talk to her today but i really dont know what i should say could u guys give me ideas
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Apr 25 2005, 06:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,611 |
suicide is a permenent solution to a temporary problem. dont try it again. no girl/guy is worth losing your life.
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Apr 25 2005, 07:28 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Try that suicide again. Except this time, it is down the road, not across the street.
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Apr 26 2005, 01:55 PM
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i asked her and she said that "i dont know well i guess we just need to stop for a while.. i have a feeling we'll be friends again...........i hope" and gave me a kiss
 that made me feel som much better |
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Apr 26 2005, 02:02 PM
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I am Sandy. Hear me roar. Group: Member Posts: 1,152 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,896 |
dont kill yourself. That's bad. Very bad. Just talk to her.
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Apr 26 2005, 02:22 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
people you have to realize that sumtiems its hard to talk to the person... i kno. i am in a silimar situation right now. you just cant get the guts to talk.
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Apr 26 2005, 02:34 PM
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did u read what i said!!!!
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Apr 26 2005, 03:13 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
dont kill yourself a girl. thats really stupid . i know thats easier said then done. You probably scared her off. Try talking to her. Try getting one of your friends to do it for you also
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Apr 27 2005, 02:46 PM
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now she said we used to be friends and thats all we were gonna be so ya that means nothing to me. i will find some one else better than her  i must |
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Apr 28 2005, 10:12 PM
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well yeah it sucks -___- when you tell someone you like them i guess they get scared or afriad if they reject you they might break your heart. ^ i agree with the person above, their not even worth your tears =\ unless its the person who can dry them
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