need some help..., this is soo confusing |
 Apr 23 2005, 02:36 AM
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 DAM ITS SHELBY  Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,864  |
 So early this month or maybe last month I had posted about my friend liking the guy I like after I had told her how madly in love I was in with him. nothing big. She would never see him again so whatev. buttt...soo..something suspicious is going on around my four friends. I noticed with one girl "leah" how she mentioned my other friend talking to him and all. She asked if she could tell him I liked him. I told her not to..because I am not ready to tell. So she agreed. Soo..earlier I was looking through my one of my closer friends myspace's and I see "leah" puts that my friend is really starting to like the kid I like..then she closes it bout' me getting pissed and there being a fight and her getting front row seats! ehemm..my four supposedly "close" friends even tried planning meeting him at the mall..but what is bad was that is was behind my back. In enragement I put my feelings on "leahs" myspace. I tell her I am hurt and pissed she put my personal iformation on some one else's board where the guy I like can see. Which already means she told him. So I am still angry, but I kind of feel strange bout' leaving what I truly feel on "leahs" myspace. So here are some questions I hope you people can help a sister out with! lol What should I say to "Leah"? Did I overreact? WTFIZZLES SHOULD I DO? LOL please help because I feel sick. lol |
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Apr 23 2005, 10:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just confront her you can't keep your feelings to yourself....they might get mad at you if you tell them but it is worth it...
friends can be very hurtful..so when you are fighting be prepared for the consquences |
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Apr 23 2005, 10:07 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
That's...really mean of them. I like the same guy my friend likes. And although my friend is being really annoying about it (I used to go out with him) now she's trying to rub it in my face that he likes her more then he ever like me...blah. I won't get into that. But you just need to confront them on how that was pretty mean of them, and you had asked them not to tell him. And if they can't respect you and if they don't apologize, they are not worth it. Ditch them.
Moved to Relationships. |
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Apr 23 2005, 10:48 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
It looks like you don't have good friends. You should talk to them about it. I mean, close friends don't do anything behind their close friends back right? That was very mean to do.
Confront them about it. 
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Apr 23 2005, 10:55 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
talk to them about it. tell them how u feel. that's basically backstabbing u.
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Apr 24 2005, 10:35 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
what about your other three friends? "leah" WANTS you to get pissed off and everything. talk to your friends and find new, real friends.
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Apr 24 2005, 11:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 |
I would talk to her about it, because nothing will get done if you guys just keep it bottled up..
I say you have some bad friends "no offense", but they seem awful childish, get some real friends, you will be a lot happier... |
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