1st Kiss... |
| *bigchocoholic_99* |
 Apr 23 2005, 02:16 AM
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I've been going out with this ultra-sweet guy for about 1 month... and we talk every single day, on the phone, msn, in person..... in other words we're pretty tight. WE were tight befor we started going out 2, and we hugged like 2 dayz after we started going out... when do u think its appropritae for us 2 kiss?
P.S: Mi friend toked to him and he said he woulda wanna if i wannted to. |
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Apr 23 2005, 02:35 AM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
I think you're ready!
 If you're comfortable enough with him, then I think you're ready. By the way, I had my first kiss ever at two months, so I was a bit late, I think.
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Apr 23 2005, 08:46 AM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
i think ur ready...if ur comfortable enough that is
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| *bigchocoholic_99* |
Apr 23 2005, 08:59 AM
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I think I'm ready
 but how do i do it!? I mean... jus walk up and kiss him would be kinda weird!?
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Apr 23 2005, 09:22 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
if youve been together for a month?
well, yeah |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Apr 23 2005, 09:50 AM
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What? a month? and no kiss
 erm GO FOR IT!
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Apr 23 2005, 10:09 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,093 |
just go with the flow. don't push things--very unhealthy. <33 to you.
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Apr 23 2005, 10:23 AM
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 Paul so emo Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,724 |
most guys like to make the first move... so if you play hard to get that will probably make him want to kiss you.. but don't be like Saint Mary hard to get... be like Paris hard to get....
feel me? 
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Apr 23 2005, 10:26 AM
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whenever it feels right
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Apr 23 2005, 10:37 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
Your ready. Go for it!
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Apr 23 2005, 10:57 AM
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 College Dude Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,527 |
QUOTE(myheartxbandages @ Apr 23 2005, 11:09 PM) just go with the flow. don't push things--very unhealthy. <33 to you.  agrees... just wait for the right time.. |
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Apr 23 2005, 12:01 PM
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QUOTE(WhiteLotus* @ Apr 23 2005, 2:35 AM) I think you're ready! If you're comfortable enough with him, then I think you're ready. By the way, I had my first kiss ever at two months, so I was a bit late, I think.man your ready just go for it |
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Apr 24 2005, 01:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I think you're ready. One month is enough.
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Apr 24 2005, 01:58 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
Any time you feel ready, go for it. You'll know when the time is right.
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Apr 24 2005, 02:00 PM
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^^
exactly. just when you guys are together and it feels right...i'm sure things will work out. 
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Apr 24 2005, 02:01 PM
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not yet
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Apr 24 2005, 02:20 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Don't get too carried away...you could give him like a peck on the lips or something...but I don't think that you should make it so you guys are like making out...
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Apr 24 2005, 07:51 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
The right time is when you're ready....it's different for everyone....
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Apr 24 2005, 08:57 PM
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 ::i love jesus ramirez:: Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,957 |
yea just do it .... i had my first kiss 3 days after we started going out
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Apr 24 2005, 10:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,112 |
well how old are you...?
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Apr 25 2005, 06:04 AM
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You shouldn't push things.. Just let things go the way they're going to go. Your first kiss.. don't you wanna remember it the way it was.. instead of remembering that you planned it out and everything.. that'd be just awkward.
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Apr 25 2005, 06:39 AM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
i like ponies
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Apr 25 2005, 05:11 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
wenever the sparks fly. i kissed my boyfriend on the second date. hehehe.
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Apr 25 2005, 08:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Do it!! you sound ready
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Apr 25 2005, 09:00 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Holy shit. Get spayed. Dont pass on your genes. Cant even decide when you do your own kissing?
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Apr 25 2005, 09:02 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
i dont think you should determine when to kiss depending on how long you've been going out. when you feel that you are ready to, and comfortable, i say go for it.
QUOTE Don't get too carried away...you could give him like a peck on the lips or something...but I don't think that you should make it so you guys are like making out... i agree with that btw; 300th post =) |
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Apr 25 2005, 10:54 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I agree with almost everyone who says that you're ready.
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Apr 26 2005, 12:38 PM
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LOL.. sorry.. kiss if u want to.. its a expression man, like... there are no rules stopping u to express how u liked him : )
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Apr 26 2005, 08:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
just got to wait for the perfect time when you two are alone and you both look into each others eyes just move in and kiss him
.:tony:. |
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Apr 26 2005, 08:23 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3 Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474 |
whenever you feel like the moment is right, take your time. my friend told me its better to take it slow.
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Apr 26 2005, 08:34 PM
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Whenever you think the moment is ready.
I'm sure he won't mind you making the first move. =] |
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Apr 26 2005, 09:18 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Just kinda do it in private stop talking and jsut look at him. He might catch on...
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Apr 26 2005, 09:33 PM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE("") when do u think its appropritae for us 2 kiss? I don't know that answer and I dont think anyone here can answer that.....but all I can do is tell you this from the bottom of my heart "You will know when you both are ready...alone..together...feeling the moment, and closeness....." -Kevyn |
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Apr 26 2005, 11:14 PM
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QUOTE(IamRad @ Apr 23 2005, 5:46 AM) i think ur ready...if ur comfortable enough that is agreed.
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Apr 26 2005, 11:17 PM
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 Big Chief Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,685 |
"do a lil dance, make a lil love, get down tonight, get down tonight oh yeah"
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Apr 27 2005, 12:39 AM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
Weneva yooh feel ready yourself. wenever yooh feel like u wanna make a commitment with this guy. Don't do it as a joke or for fun`
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Apr 27 2005, 02:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,274 |
hmm, I think you should stop reading this topic and kiss him already. =) ... uh... right, don't ever listen to me. xD
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Apr 27 2005, 02:11 AM
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Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
.....by any chance.....(no I'm not asking to bump this thread..) but could you ( the author of this thread) give us an update about your kiss should you ever get there? I'm not being nosy...I just wanted to know if everything worked out ok...
Take care and good luck -Kevyn |
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Apr 27 2005, 02:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,652 |
You are probably ready... as long as its the right moments no laughing odd looks etc.. then it would be odd plus u cant redo a first kiss... the moment and time is always right!
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Apr 27 2005, 02:34 AM
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Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
QUOTE("") u cant redo a first kiss .....good point spoken. I agree 100%..try to make it an unforgettable one. -Kevyn |
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Apr 27 2005, 03:56 AM
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as long as you're ready! as long as you're comftorable
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Apr 27 2005, 09:01 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,984 |
i think kissing is nothing. kissing is so common. some people hit it all the time even if they aren't even going out. i guess they're very conservative. but to answer u, i say first date.
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Apr 27 2005, 11:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,274 |
Wow, we're all being all serious about kissing...
QUOTE as long as its the right moments no laughing odd looks etc.. then it would be odd plus u cant redo a first kiss... ... isn't having a relationship about having fun? so why not just let whatever happen... happen? and if something bad happens... (like you bump your foreheads *cough* happened to me *cough*).. just laugh it off! just have fun! |
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Apr 28 2005, 12:12 AM
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go 4 it!!
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Apr 28 2005, 08:47 PM
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 Call me C.Annie Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,994 |
A good way to try to get him to kiss you is sit on a couch somewhere at your house or his. Wear a necklace there. Move over by him and ask him to take the necklace off for you. Turn your head slowly toward him, smile and whisper his name. Whala! It should work. How I got my first kiss :D
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Apr 28 2005, 08:49 PM
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 Yea Yea. Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 |
it's different for every couple... it's when you guys want and feel you should.. not because its 1...2..18 months or whatever.
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May 7 2005, 07:34 AM
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hey u guyz it worked out!! WOOT! LOl sorry. Thanx for all the ppl who replied, it gave me some motivation to do it... and dose of ya who wrote crude comments, wutever to u. YAY. Lol sorry again, it was so much easier dan I thought, we were just sittin dere and he placed his hand on my cheek and turned me towards him and did it!
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May 8 2005, 07:32 PM
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dont force yourself to kiss someone. always wait for the right time.
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May 8 2005, 07:35 PM
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it depends on if you're comfortable if not it doesn't hurt to wait a little
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May 9 2005, 02:47 PM
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 most definitely. Group: Member Posts: 284 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,416 |
I definitely think a month is enouqh, but take your time if you`re not comfortable. If he really cares about you he`ll wait.
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May 9 2005, 08:02 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Well its been a month so basically sure why not kiss. I mean if it was a day after going out then no but its been a month so yah go for the kiss
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May 9 2005, 10:09 PM
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you're definitely ready.
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May 10 2005, 07:33 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
u r so ready! its kinda funny since my guy and i started kissing before we started to go out! it was a great way to break the ice, lols. but hey i think that u guys should be soo ready to kiss by now. its not sumthing sooo serious, its a kiss. so i say, chill out, close ur eyes, and smooootch away!
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May 10 2005, 08:06 PM
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 My weakness is that I care too much. Also that I love you with a Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,426 |
As long as you're comfortable with doing it go for it. ^_^ Give us an update on how your first kiss goes!!!
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