he asked me out, broke up with me the next day Options

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

i really really really like this guy and my friends say im sprung and i guess i am. so after about a week of people asking him about me he decided to ask me out i guess. so when he asked me out i swear i was the happiest person in the whole damn world.my friends were hugging me and screaming it down the hallways that we were going out and they even posted bulletins about it on myspace. cos they knew how much i liked him and wanted to be with him. that night i went to sleep smiling and thinking of him and i woke up like 3 hours later and cos i had so many thoughts of him on my mind and i was jst so happy, i couldnt get backto sleep cos my mind was occupied with happy thoughts about us.

sounds nice right ?

he broke up with me the next day and it felt like my world shattered. i cried, and ive never ever cried over a break-up and ive had about 20 breakups, more or less [ but like 3 or 4 less ] and i dont know. i think he was pressured into going out with me and regretted it, and broke up with me saying he has too many problems [ or "shit"] in his life right now. i dont know what to do, im going to talk to him but as of this moment i feel so confused and sad and just.. stupid. i feel like an idiot for thinking he`d actually want to be with me.

i need advice or a story of yours or anything..

[Chii]

my dear...break ups suck especially if one person doesn't want to give the new relationship a try...he is such a jerk for giving into peer pressure and getting your hopes high. he's not worth your tears, no dirtbag is ever worth one salty tear. you're the one who's going to grow up and live life the way you want to, he's just going to sway wherever the wind blows and have others make his decisions, someday in the future this will definately come back and bite him in his wothless ass.

this guy broke up with me about a week after we started to go out. it was for two reasons, i didn't play handball and i didn't appreciate the way he acted when other people were around us while we were going out. he seemed to pull away from me when certain people were around and i confronted him and he got all psycho. he made up all this sh*t about how he cuts himself and that he was going to commit suicide. he didn't cut himself or ever contemplate suicide, he just carried a box cutter blade to be cool i cried for that dumbass and i'm pissed that i did that, he ain't sh*t.

there are plenty of better men out there...just don't give your heart away so easily or fast.

edit
i read your xanga entry...wait a minute he told someone else to break up with you for him? if he did that then he really ain't sh*t, dry your eyes he's not even man enough to deal with his own personal matters

[*mzkandi*]

the next day!! whats up with that!! you need to sit him down and find out what happened.

[--x who0ps]

perhaps he was pressured into the relationship.
i have no love storys because i .. dont want one yet LOLS
soo anyways, i guess my advice to you is to eat a bowl of icecream and get over him.
feel better?

[FoOd]

I had a relationship like this.

I was happy when he asked me to be with him. I was oh so happy and I couldn't believe it. Everyone was happy for me. I was going steady for a week, but then he cut the lines.
Apparently, all he thought of me was a piece of ass. He found another 'piece of ass' to have.

After that I found out about that, I told him to meet me after school. I was talking and stuff, and when I said good bye, I kicked him in the groins. He then fell down to his knees and then I kicked him in the stomache and walked home.

Ha ha, he's too scared to go near me.

[Shattered_Hope]

He asked you out....and he broke up with you the next day!!?? The least he could've done was at least tried to make it work...I think it was wrong for him to do this.....ask you out...because he was pressured. Making you happy and then shattering your world. That's even worst than just telling you the truth instead of causing you to think there was a chance and then just ruining your hopes. He's not worth anything. He's not even worth your tears....I hope you feel better. Don't worry....they'll be other guys...

[pandamonium]

hes a freaking whore. ask him out and break up with him ina minute

[Rachel]

This guy is a f**kin loser. Get some guys to beat his lame ass

[krnl0v3r]

not cool.. im sorry.. ask him why? what happened? and if he doesnt answer your too good for him anyway.. cuz hes a loser then.. why would yoo ask some1 out and then break up with them the next day? totaly not nice

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

i am gonna talk to him tho`.

but i did try not to get my hopes up i told myself over and over again okay dont get too happy or too excited and bla bla but i just let myself go when he asked me and i feel so STUPiD. but thanks so far everyone.

keep on replying !

[daonlylonely1]

OH WOW..A BREAK UP??TSK TSK TSK..I NEVER BEEN THROUGH ONE, BUT MY FRIENDS HAVE, AND THEY SAID IT WASN'T FUNNY AT ALL..DON'T FEEL TOO BAD..UR A COOL GRL AND DON'T WORRY..DERE ARE MORE GUYS IN THIS WORLD..MAYBE IT WAS TOO EARLY FOR HIM..BECAUSE UR FRIENDS DID PRESURE HIM ON LIKE TELLING STUFF ABOUT YOU..DON'T WORRY THO!!YOU'LL FIND ANOTHER GUY..JUST LOOK IN THE BRIGHT SIDE..IF YOU GOT AT LEAST ONE GUY..YOU'LL GET MORE!

[*XLilAznGrl592X*]

friends julie... which frewns r u reffering to? lol j/k! wow he is such a boetch! there r other guys out there! a whole sea of them! lol

[toodlepops.]

Aww, feel better.
Break-ups are always awful.
Just keep talking to him and find out if his friends had anything to do with the break-up. you may never know.

[mouse_3k]

hes a loser, move on

[xMayleex]

aww i feel sorry for you, we have nasty guys in our school who know what girls like them and they ask them out, go with them then finish them. Its a very cruel world never happened to me yet lol

[lexaa621]

that happened to one of my friends once too.. she was upset for like 3 months after and hated him for it though... guys like that are assholes.

[someflipguy]

not to sound mean but... get over it.

[lilliannnn]

THAT EXACT THING HAPPEND TO ME!

there was this boy i really liked and my friends would always ask him about me and one day he comes up to me ands like "you wanna go out with me?" and im like "yeah" and hes like "well i wanna go out with you too"... so we did. AND I WAS SO HAPPY! then the next day (at a dance) he tells my friend to tell me its over and goes and hooks up with another girl.
i was like devasted

so i know how you feel.. hopefully it'll end up all good. mine did - he's one of my good friends and we still flirt ALOT.

[xhiddenemotion]

awww baby!!!
he`s a fag. don`t worry about him. yeah i know that hurts to realize the truth but some boys just aren`t worth it. like my ex bf .. but i wont get into that. haha
just think, the ONE of your life is out there RIGHT NOW. and he`s waiting & searching for u just as much as you are waiting & searching for him; going through all this pain along the way. don`t sweat it and move on because this boy seriously doesn`t deserve you. pm me or IM me at hiddenxem0ti0n if you wanna chat more - i love to listen to ppls stories & help them feel better. (:

[twelveislands]

Aww hun Hope you get over this soon

He got someone else to finish it instead? Thats a cowards way out. He aint worth your tears

[me1issaaaa]

Oh lordie. That's such a 6th grade thing to do. Not implying that you're young or anything, but what he did was really immature.

Don't worry about it. If you've had boyfriends before, you know how easy it is to find a new guy to crush on.

If he doesn't realize what he's missing out on, he's not worth a second thought.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

ayy` thanks for all the lp, specially hiddenxem0tions lol , ima pm yu as soon as im ungrounded xD. but i found out some more stuff

the day after he broke up with me my friend brandon found out in the morning and went to talk to him i guess and later on in the day he told me that larry didnt want to break up with me, he was grounded and his mom found out and made him break up with me. but i dono. i beieve it sort of , cos his reasons from the very start was family problems and shit on his mind, but maybe hes been lying all along ? but thats what hes told everybody and not to be concieted but i have a lot of friends who have my back who went up to them and all his stories to them revolved around family problems. so i guess xD i dono.

[cHuNsAbAbIe012]

yea...u should just forget him. i dont think it was love u felt for him yet so it'll be a lil easier. move on. it's the only option u have. n yea i know how u feel but he's not worth it. he doesnt deserve u.

[*xcaitlinx*]

he prolly broke up with you because you were making a huge deal about it in front of everyone. especially when you said that you were screaming it down the halls and even posted a bulletin on myspace. if you ask me, thats going a LITTLE over the edge. guys are weird like that though.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

he prolly broke up with you because you were making a huge deal about it in front of everyone. especially when you said that you were screaming it down the halls and even posted a bulletin on myspace. if you ask me, thats going a LITTLE over the edge. guys are weird like that though.

it wasnt me screaming it down the halls, that was my friends. i was tryna get them to shut up about it cos i dont like making big scences about that stuff, but my friends do that. it wasnt me.

he supposedly dint want to break up with me [ read my upper reply ]

[shewasradiant]

same thing happened to my sister, and i'll tell you what i told her. what a dumb***, he was never worth it if he did that. he shoulda been sure of what he wanted before he made a move.

[Rachel]

it wasnt me screaming it down the halls, that was my friends. i was tryna get them to shut up about it cos i dont like making big scences about that stuff, but my friends do that. it wasnt me.

he supposedly dint want to break up with me [ read my upper reply ]

There is NO need to get all DEFENSIVE. She was just making a point.

Who cares what he said. Obviously if he listens to his mom about relationships then he is lame. Parents don't always know best. Get over him and move on.

And please, for the love of God, learn how to f**kin spell.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

*entry edited/deleted.

you know what, I'm not even going to reply to you getting offended or whatever you may have felt about my reply back to that other girl because im not even going to start stuff.

but just to add, how did you like that spelling? Was it better?

[bill7531]

i am gonna talk to him tho`.

but i did try not to get my hopes up i told myself over and over again okay dont get too happy or too excited

that's wat i learned to do after a relationship like urs

[whywasisostupid]

hes not worth crying over i think.
the whole family thing? bah. he could have kept it secret.