STALKER! Options

[x_NeverLetGo]

omg. I just got back from working (part time job) at my god-fathers. im only 12. but tehre is this garbage man, that always picks up trash in front of my house. I saw him following me (not all the way but half way) and saw where i was going. then just a few hours ago, he showed up at my working place, looked through the glass right at me. I ducked under the table, and he waited for me to stand up. then i ducked for another 10 min. under the supervision of two older co-workers. what is wrong with this guy? i think he's stalking me. sorry if i'm over reacting. I've also seen him number of times over the past two weeks staring at me as i go to school, come back from school, go to work, come back from work. damn him. please help.

[Nicolatofu]

that's really scary. Try walking a different route where you don't pass him. And it's a good idea to let the adult co-workers what's going on so they are aware of the situation.

[starlette]

yes please alert your parents and any adults you feel safe around. Maybe have a parent or someone talk with him. See what he wants. And have them ask him to please go away. If he doesnt, get the police involved. Be careful walking around alone.

[heyyfrankie]

tell your parents and maybe even the cops. that is really scary. def tell someone because, considering your age, he could try to kidnap you or worse! =x

[yeseulx3]

oh, my...
that's really scary...
i suggest you go to your parents a.s.a.p., and tell them what the situation is.
if you don't, then the worst might just come around the corner.
hope everything turns out well...

[EmmalieV]

tell your parents. You shouldnt deal with this alone , tell friends to walk you home.

[rAwritsgWeg]

wow that guy should be taken care of maybe u should call the police a day in advance
and tell them which route ur gonna take so that when the stalker follows u the police can tackle him and then u would be able to live again without the fear of a hobo doin inapropiate things to u

sounds good eh

[mouse_3k]

I have a stalker too!! haha they threatened and harassed me and all. They gon come around my place again tonite sooo Im callin the cops. soo just call the cops lol

[DanielleMaria05]

I would tell lots of people about it. Dont' walk anywhere alone, make sure your always near someone to help you. Overreacting I think is good. Not all the time, but better safe than sorry.

[angel-roh]

lol that's scary. maybe he has a crush on you. so he's like shy to talk to you. or maybe he needs to talk to you. i mean this happened only once, right? so yeahh...

or just tell the people you know around and ask them why that trash man is stalking you or ask them to help you because you're scared.

[Eryi]

It sounds like an old man wants to go for a treat.

[Shattered_Hope]

That's scary....I think you should tell your parents...or at least your god-father...

[pandamonium]

i say get a look a like. and tell her to stab him lol.

[loljuliana]

Make sure you dont go places alone. Watch your back at all times. And definately tell an adult

[KELLYYY]

Make sure you always go to places with a lot of people. Alert an adult. You're only 12 and that's really freaky. *scared*

[FoOd]

Bring pepper spray and a mega-phone.

Use the mega-phone to bash him on the head and pepper spray him in the eye. Then use the mega-phone to call for help.

[vampireduster]

thats really really really scary. I would go talk to someone to get him to stop stalking you

[jennyjenny]

Get someone to accompany you whereever you go.

[Chii]

you're 12 and you have a part time job...? aren't there labor laws against child labor...?


anyway, like what most people said, have someone older escort you to work and your place and wherever that garbage man is...but you should definately tell someone about this first.

[aznxdreamer]

stalk him. shoot him. thats what i do...i mean..WOULD do....*looks around nervously*

[mizz_mithy]

you're 12 and you have a part time job...? aren't there labor laws against child labor...?

I think she can get a work permit.

Maybe you should walk with a friend to work. If it still happens tell your parents and ask them to pick you up and drive you to work.

[O x LiseE x O]

Press charges. :P "YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO LOOK AT ME!" Nah just joking. You should really tell an adult I'm sure they'd know what to do more then us...

[yukichan]

Tell your parents...Get them to talk to the man..Ask him to stop..In the mean time, NEVER go somewhere alone..Always have someone with you..If he doesn't stop get the police involved or get a restraining order...

[*x____duckii*]

lol that's scary. maybe he has a crush on you. so he's like shy to talk to you. or maybe he needs to talk to you. i mean this happened only once, right? so yeahh...

Wow, Susan, you're dumb.


You should tell your parents about this stalker person and try taking a different route instead.

[gladz612]

u shud really be very careful.. and did u tell your parents about it? u're only 12 u shud let them handle it.

[hollesther]

That is creepy and weird.Be aware ...I think he can be stalking you;and I don't think your overeacting because you see him everywhere and he has no buisness whatsoever<--or does he??Does he have to like pick up trash around where you work n all?gosh that's creepy,annoying,unpleasant,very uncomfortable situation

[x_NeverLetGo]

Thanks everyone for your advice, I have told my parents about it, thing is my mom is really small, and can't really defend me in case of a real situation, my dad is at work till very late and my co-workers could only give me advice like 'bring pepper spray' or whatever. I would call the police but thing is i live in taiwan, and the security here is ... not ... so ... effective.

[toodlepops.]

tell your parents, thats the best thing to do.

[blah122986]

uh dat just creepy....maybe u should go tell u rpartens so they could go talk to the dude...

[*XLilAznGrl592X*]

tell your parents and walk a different route or walk with a friend thats scary it would be more to me though since im 11