letting go, is this person right for me? |
 Apr 20 2005, 05:24 PM
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 <-[RaWR]->  Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,133  |
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I dont know if theres alot of people out there who have lost the one you thought who would always be there for you.But if there is I was wondering if you could offer some advice.You know when you like someone and you know they like you but neither of you have the courage to tell.Well thats how my relationship was.We got really close and right when we were about to you know grow up and tell eachother,something happened that was really personal and we kind of got seperated.Dont you hate it when parents get in the way?Thats what happened we let them take us apart and just as they introduced us and brought us together they took us apart.It wasnt our fault,we didnt do anything.See our parents were close friends and well her parents got a divorce and my parents were mad at her and so now everythings torn apart.I cant see her or talk to her or anything and the only way I can communicate with her is when im at some other place and they are not there.the problem is i saw her last week and we didnt even talk.i didnt know what to say and everytime she walked past me I wanted to open my mouth and say something but the words just couldnt come out.So here i am stuck here with no motive to even try and get back together with her.Im thinking that i should let her go and just move on.What do I do>Let her go and live a miserable life or keep trying and do or die?
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Apr 20 2005, 06:20 PM
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It depends on how much you want to fight for her. If you really want her back, then nothing can stop you. I know what it's like having a relationship with someone when neither of the parents like either of you. Been there, done that several times. We never let it stop each other. And we still don't. We just live through it. Since I'm so close to graduating, I will be able to see all of these people on my own time pretty soon, and that's keeping me alive. Feel free to pm me if you want.
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Apr 20 2005, 06:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,886 |
awww...thats so sad!! *gives you a hug* don' let it take control of your life. it takes two to be in a relationship so before you go and do anythin make sure how she feels and make sure she knows how you feel. then if its really worth it then do what you gotta do!! i know that you can't control who you like and it just happens and sometimes its someone that things are juss complicated so good luck!!
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Apr 20 2005, 07:21 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Wow...tell your parents to grow up. I mean come on. It's not her fault. They're putting the blame where it doesn't belong.
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Apr 20 2005, 08:20 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
Hmm...
If you really want her, then go for it..Don't let anything get in your way..But make sure she feels the same way towards u..Because if she doesn't, its not going to work out.. Don't let anything get in the way of want you want..Good luck! |
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Apr 20 2005, 08:42 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It depends on how much she means to you. If she means a lot to you..then next time when she passes you....gather up courage to talk to her. But if you feel that....it doesn't matter or that you don't care at all..then I guess you don't need to worry about this...but the fact that you remember all these things...mean you care...just talk to her the next time you see her.
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Apr 21 2005, 06:17 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 20 2005, 8:42 PM) It depends on how much she means to you. If she means a lot to you..then next time when she passes you....gather up courage to talk to her. But if you feel that....it doesn't matter or that you don't care at all..then I guess you don't need to worry about this...but the fact that you remember all these things...mean you care...just talk to her the next time you see her.  wat she said. go for it. tell her how u feel. try to patch things up. if it doesnt work out then u should move on. but not bfore u've tried everything u can to be with her. |
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Apr 21 2005, 06:32 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
If you decide to let her go ..
Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. - Unknown Author |
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Apr 22 2005, 09:18 PM
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 tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
if you truly feel that you love her enough then go for it. don't let go of something that you feel is special to you. if you do, you might regret it. what if you were to see her with someone else?
how would you feel? |
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Apr 22 2005, 09:38 PM
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 Just sit and listen... Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,339 |
I can COMPLETELY relate, long story short, me and my girl friend were separated on and off because both our parents didn't like the fact that we were both female -.-
It was about 3 years ago, but to this day, i still remember her, i'm still in love with her and I'm always looking around the mall we went to together (that i work at now) trying to see if by some chance she passes by me. I have two things to say: -If you're young, then live your life. -If you think she is THE ONE.. GO FOR IT don't let her go like i did!!! I regret it everyday of my life.. don't live like I do... don't let her go... |
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Apr 23 2005, 01:06 PM
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tie my shoe Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,194 |
QUOTE I can COMPLETELY relate, long story short, me and my girl friend were separated on and off because both our parents didn't like the fact that we were both female -.- It was about 3 years ago, but to this day, i still remember her, i'm still in love with her and I'm always looking around the mall we went to together (that i work at now) trying to see if by some chance she passes by me. I have two things to say: -If you're young, then live your life. -If you think she is THE ONE.. GO FOR IT don't let her go like i did!!! I regret it everyday of my life.. don't live like I do... don't let her go... that really sucks. sorry to hear that. i wish you the best of luck finding her again. |
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Apr 23 2005, 09:17 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
you should talk to her! if you two were really close, liked each other, etc. then it's definitely worth it. and your parents don't really have to know. talk online at first, then go from there. but it might be a bit awkward at first, because you two were about to tell each other your feelings.
btw you should tell her you like her, or else she'll be wondering if you do or not, or if she was just being too hopeful, etc.... all the time
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Apr 24 2005, 11:10 AM
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<-[RaWR]-> Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,133 |
QUOTE(lilangelgurlpnai @ Apr 21 2005, 6:32 PM) If you decide to let her go .. Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go. - Unknown Author But it does mean that if I do move on then there is always a way to move back.And I dont want that to happen if I do move on. |
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Apr 24 2005, 01:56 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
well.. think about how much you want her.. if you're willing to go out of your way to talk to her and get close to her once again, go for it. if not, then don't. go with your instinct. but just tell her how you feel first.
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Apr 26 2005, 12:51 PM
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 .bubblicious inspirations. @ www.bubbliciousoul.com Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,228 |
well if u really really love her then u shud explain to your parents... after all they are your parents and they should some what respect your decisions. maybe you guys don't have to go out immediately but at least stay as friends.. and work something out from there.. after all there's this saying "true love doesn't run smooth". good luck*
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Apr 26 2005, 12:53 PM
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totally agree wif 612.... true love never run smooth...
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Apr 28 2005, 10:47 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
if you really loved her, you wont let parents seperate you. you're your own person. you cant let them choose your path for you. so what if your parents get mad? you're growing up, and they should let you choose the things you want. if she is who you want to be with, go for it. dont let anything stop you.
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