going to an ex's house |
 Apr 20 2005, 01:13 PM
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is it wrong for you to go over to an ex's house while you are going out with someone else?
edt// well my girlfriend goes to her ex's house..she says that they are doing music, cuz his place is like a recording studio and she is a big musician.. |
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| *Azarel* |
Apr 20 2005, 01:15 PM
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Depends on what it's for. Will indeed cause jealousy though. Sometimes, though, it's just wrong.
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 20 2005, 01:18 PM
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Why would you want to go to your ex's house? To reclaim your things? Small talk? If thats the case lets meet up in a public place..meh thats just me though
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Apr 20 2005, 03:54 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it depends on why you want to go to your ex's house for.
it is wrong in a way, it's alright to feel jealous |
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Apr 20 2005, 04:00 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Depends what you're gonna do at his/her house. I don't think it's wrong, only if you're not doing something sexual. Jealousy, yup.
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Apr 20 2005, 04:48 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
depends if the bf/gf is OKAY with it and make sure that the bf/gf KNOWS about it!! you don't wnat any misunderstandings
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Apr 20 2005, 04:48 PM
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Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
depends if the bf/gf is OKAY with it and make sure that the bf/gf KNOWS about it!! you don't wnat any misunderstandings
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Apr 20 2005, 08:08 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Depends on what you're doing there....and what your intentions are..
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Apr 20 2005, 09:26 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, it depends on what you're doing, but it's not necessarily wrong. There will be jealousy though... I got really jealous when my boyfriend went over to his ex's house for a party...
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Apr 20 2005, 09:49 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
well it depends on whether ur going for project or ..... for something else. ........
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Apr 20 2005, 11:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
If nothing is going to happen, it's not wrong, but if there is..uh-oh.
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Apr 21 2005, 06:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Well, if she's going there to like record music, that seems okay, but that doesn't mean something can't happen if either one of them wanted something to. Why don't you ask if you can come along one time to hear her sing or something?
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Apr 21 2005, 01:13 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Well , if shes doing something then learn to trust her , ask to acompany her.
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Apr 21 2005, 05:42 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 20 2005, 1:18 PM) Why would you want to go to your ex's house? To reclaim your things? Small talk? If thats the case lets meet up in a public place..meh thats just me though  so true. but i would go with him. no exceptions. |
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Apr 21 2005, 07:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
well i would go over there, but i do trust her and i cant stand him.
ever meet one of those people where you dont really know much about them (and u dont really care to), but u just plain out dont like them? well thats the same way i feel about him |
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Apr 21 2005, 07:36 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
it depends on how your relationship with your ex. if it was REALLY serious, i can see your current boyfriend getting a tad bit jealous because, let's face it, people get jealous. but if y'all were just going out for a little bit and now y'all are good friends, than i see nothing wrong with it. just let your boyfriend know that you are just visiting him as a friend. but i can't guarantee that he still won't be jealous.
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Apr 21 2005, 08:36 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
even if you can't stand the guy, accompany her to his house, if you feel so strongly about this then go...then you'll see what really goes on...plus you won't have to suffer all this "what does she do there? is she really recording music?" etc
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Apr 22 2005, 12:36 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
GOING TO AN EX HOUSE ISN'T WRONG..WELL IT DEPENDS ON WHAT THEY'RE DOING THERE..IN MANY CASES THAT I KNOW..ITS OKAY!
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| *XLilAznGrl592X* |
Apr 22 2005, 12:38 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Apr 20 2005, 11:15 AM) Depends on what it's for. Will indeed cause jealousy though. Sometimes, though, it's just wrong. yeah i agree with her... its just wrong sometimes |
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Apr 22 2005, 04:52 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,652 |
Depends on what the problem or situation is... Most likely the last words or sometimes you just aren't meant to be anything more then friends...
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Apr 23 2005, 10:10 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
does she stil have feelings for him?
i wouldnt worry to much..but if u must accopmany her |
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Apr 23 2005, 12:53 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
it all depends on the girl's intentions. i know for me i'm good friends with my exes, so it's not a big deal for me. but if you trust her then i don't think its wrong
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