Public Affection, How do u just do that!! |
 Apr 16 2005, 12:56 AM
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 Creative yet Satisfying BLAH  Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,666  |
I can't be comfortable with a guy.. I'm fine when it's just me and him.. but when other's can see us... I get all bugged by the guy.. Wayyyy uncomfortable..
What do u all think? Ever felt that way in public?  Or am i just weird?
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Apr 16 2005, 12:59 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah.
I only showed affection for my boyfriend (ex now) in private places. We didn't do anything except for hold hands in public. I think it was a combination of being nervous and being considerate of the feelings of our friends. *glares at my current friends* |
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Apr 16 2005, 01:03 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,541 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,332 |
Hm. I do too. I think it's because I don't like people just staring at me when I'm kissing. I'll hug my boyfriend and hold hands, but that's it.
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Apr 16 2005, 01:05 AM
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 *blow up* :] Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,849 |
I, personally, like PDA to a certain extent. For me, I can hold hands and hug and embrace and kiss in public, but not making out of feeling up or... all that good stuff. Some things should stay between the two of you, right?
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Apr 16 2005, 01:10 AM
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Creative yet Satisfying BLAH Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,666 |
QUOTE(dramaticpotato @ Apr 15 2005, 11:05 PM) I, personally, like PDA to a certain extent. For me, I can hold hands and hug and embrace and kiss in public, but not making out of feeling up or... all that good stuff. Some things should stay between the two of you, right?  Ya definitly.. It's just more personal for me then for a lot of people i suppose... andI dont think people should EVER feel each other up in public..haha Even though it does happen.. Man some people i swear... what is this world coming to... 
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Apr 16 2005, 01:12 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Ugh. One of my best friends and her older boyfriend always go way too fricking far in public. They always get really involved with each other when she's talking to me. She'll get stopped mid-sentence and they'll just start making out.
 That's why I said I never showed much affection in public because I was aware of the people around me and considerate of their feelings.
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Apr 16 2005, 01:13 AM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
when you're with someone as special as a bf, you tend to forget about everything else around you.. or maybe it's just me. the most i'll do is kiss in public though..
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| *stephinika* |
Apr 16 2005, 01:19 AM
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QUOTE(Despise @ Apr 15 2005, 10:12 PM) Ugh. One of my best friends and her older boyfriend always go way too fricking far in public. They always get really involved with each other when she's talking to me. She'll get stopped mid-sentence and they'll just start making out. That's why I said I never showed much affection in public because I was aware of the people around me and considerate of their feelings.eurgh. that sucks, but i know what you mean...i know this couple that are really cute, and they hold hands and that stuff a lot then there's this other couple down the hall from where me and my friends usually are who are making out every single time...  yeah thats a bit much.i'll hold hands and perhaps peck on the cheek/lips sometimes and hug but thats about it for in public. |
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Apr 16 2005, 01:37 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i used to be like that...i'd get really nervous because it was my first boyfriend...i don't do it when friends are around now with my current boyfriend because i don't want to it to seem like i'm showing off in their face
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Apr 16 2005, 01:58 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
I hate when people make out in public. I mean, it's none of our business. You love each other, okay but we don't care.
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Apr 16 2005, 06:47 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if you love the person or have strong feelings for them i don't think you'll care what you do in public.
i personally only prefer to hold hand, hug in public maybe a few occasional pecks on the lips/cheeks |
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 16 2005, 07:01 AM
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When I am dating a guy I usually dont display public affection because I am aware that annoys some people. So usually limit it to holding hands, a little hugging, a peck on the cheek. You know stuff like that. I dont start this big make out session and stuff because I know I get annoyed when I see other people do that stuff
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Apr 16 2005, 07:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
not really maybe you need to be more open wiht him so that wont bother you anymore haha i donno....... hmmmm just dont pay attention to other people lol
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Apr 16 2005, 07:55 AM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Topic on this long long long time ago...I think it's fine just if they're not groping or like making out and making sounds...
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| *Weird addiction* |
Apr 16 2005, 08:05 AM
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Haha yeah there used to be a topic on this a LONG time ago...anyways i don't mind, he's my boyfriend and i'm proud of him, i don't care what people think. It's just me and him.
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Apr 16 2005, 08:13 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I guess when you're really in love, there's just you and him and nothing else.
As for me, I can't do it. People would be staring. |
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Apr 16 2005, 08:16 AM
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 the Ray... it filters through Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,081 |
When I'm a bystander, I don't even pay attention to couples making out. There comes a point in relationships where you don't care what other ppl think.
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Apr 16 2005, 09:09 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
I have felt that way in public before...
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Apr 16 2005, 10:52 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 |
I know too many couples that go too far in public, I can't do it, If it's like a public area, we make out when nobody's there like at night on like a roof, it's really romantic. But yeah even a peck on the lips in public, that draws attention real quick, I hate that.
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Apr 16 2005, 10:58 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
PDA. holding hands, hugging, being close, maybe a lil kiss.
but sometimes i really just want to keep it private. i hate it when people watch. |
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Apr 16 2005, 11:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
nope.. idk wat ppl say or think cause it doesnt concern them, its only a me & him relationship... i could be hugging him, kissing him on the cheek, holding hands... and i wont get uncomterable... but when it comes to just making out infront of everybody and being felt up on... thats differnet
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Apr 16 2005, 12:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 145 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,204 |
i feel the same way^ ..lil things are ok ..but like making out
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Apr 16 2005, 02:48 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
holding hands and hugging. maybe kissing... but all that other stuff should be done in private
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Apr 16 2005, 05:35 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
personally, i hate it whenever people make out and other stuff like that in public. i can understand a little peck on the cheek or a light kiss on the lips but i hate walking down the halls of my high school and seeing full on make-out sessions.
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Apr 16 2005, 05:39 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Whenever I'm with my boyfriend, I'm fine with hugging, hand holding and even some mild kissing. But other private things like making out and stuff I can't do in public with my boyfriend because I wouldn't want to see other couples doing it either.
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Apr 16 2005, 05:59 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
Holding hands, hugging and kissing in public I don't mind. I doubt I'd do more.. it depends where we are really. Like in a cinema.. I suppose making out wouldn't be that bad..
On Friday on the bus home there were this couple sitting down and they were just making out for ages..  There always at it  And then 2 of my friends who go out, you'll be talking to them and then they'd just turn to each other and make out and your like 'hello? I'm speaking to you!'
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Apr 16 2005, 07:50 PM
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 ::i love jesus ramirez:: Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,957 |
i have no problem ill hug him 4 a really long time nd ill make out with him nd hold his hands ...... so yea i dont have a problem with them
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