i think...., ....i'm dumped |
 Apr 14 2005, 10:57 PM
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 hi. . love me . . or don't. . wait. . i don't have a boy  Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,336  |
he said he needs time to reacess his priorities.... get more focused on God... then we can start up again sometime later. have i been dumped or is it an actual break....
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Apr 14 2005, 11:59 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
uhhmm.. well it kinda looks like you`re taking a break..
but it kinda depends on how he said it. only time can tell i guess >T good luck hun<3 |
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Apr 15 2005, 01:07 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
mhm, wow i'm sorry that happened. You must be in a sort of shock right now :( I would say that you got dumped, BUT with almost a guarentee that you will get together again. i dunno, i guess you could say it is a break. But don't dwell on that thought for too long, you should try talking to him and asking him about this. That's the best you can do.
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Apr 15 2005, 01:12 AM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I'm sorry but I think you got dumped.
"then we can start up again sometime later" ^ I think that means that maybe after you two break up and still have feelings for each other, you two might hook up again. I dunno. But that's just me. Hey, it's ok. You know you'll have cB. <3 |
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Apr 15 2005, 01:36 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
"then we can start up again sometime later", that sentence says alot. It means that he still cares for you. BUt he needs time on his own, away fromt he relationships. SOmehow being in this relatinship has gotten him depressed, or should i say, away from god. I guess hes tired of the relationshp. I dont think that you are being dumped, hes just asking for time out.....but since he cared for you, hell prob get back, but if his decision was to not be in a realtionship anymore, and he lets you know, then thats considered a dump.
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Apr 15 2005, 03:19 AM
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hi. . love me . . or don't. . wait. . i don't have a boy Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,336 |
thnk you all for the very encouraging words. i talked to him tonight for about three hours... and we are the best of friends until we have ourselves settled and figured out. then after we are completely stable and he can support me we are going to get back together if we're all worked out. i'm relieved and sad. but it's a huge load off my chest.. cause i felt like we were slipping.. and now we just make a clean cut and there's no hurt feelings... too bad ^^
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Apr 15 2005, 02:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
It sounds like a break, but yeah...just keep in touch with him and don't let your friendship slip.
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Apr 15 2005, 03:11 PM
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 Its hard for me to tell you Group: Member Posts: 734 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,326 |
It sounds like a break but then again.. it could just be a 'nice' dump.
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Apr 15 2005, 03:12 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Its a break that will lead to a break up. Sorry but move on.
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Apr 15 2005, 03:40 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(InLove_x @ Apr 15 2005, 4:11 PM) It sounds like a break but then again.. it could just be a 'nice' dump.  Yeah I kinda agree , my ex kinda dumped me like that but without the whole god thing. |
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Apr 15 2005, 04:11 PM
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Either way, just try to move on. If he's considering this a break, it's not fair to try to hold you back while he has some "time to himself."
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Apr 15 2005, 04:22 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
QUOTE(InLove_x @ Apr 15 2005, 3:11 PM) It sounds like a break but then again.. it could just be a 'nice' dump. i agree with the "nice" dump. to be honest, guys never want to intentionally hurt a girl and so they start with the "its not you, its me" speech or "i need some time to get my mind together". hold on for a little while and see how things go, hopefully things work out for better (: chin up, hun<3 |
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Apr 15 2005, 05:34 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
from the sounds of it, you have been dumped. that kinda sounds fake but i am pretty sure that he dumped you...
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Apr 15 2005, 05:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
I'm sorry, dear, but I think he dumped you.
But don't worry, more will come. 
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Apr 15 2005, 06:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
My friend's boyfriend wanted to take a "break." Soon, he got with this other girl. But I think he just wants to take a break, but break up in a kind of way.
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Apr 15 2005, 07:26 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It sounds like he broke up with you.....but just stay friends....and don't let your friendship fade. Maybe someday you two will be together again...
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Apr 15 2005, 08:28 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
he might just tell you he's on a break, so that it'll be easier to break up with you
-or- he really needs a break |
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Apr 15 2005, 08:50 PM
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 ♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
Well, he didn't say anything about seeing other people or it being an official breakup, so...
Looks like you're just on a break for now. Wait a bit, give him a little time to get his head together. If he doesn't show a little affection or anything, lose him. You're too young to be stuck w/ someone who's not in it for the same things that you are. Good luck with everything, doll. If you need to talk to anybody, I'd be glad to help. 
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Apr 15 2005, 10:25 PM
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uhh wats the difference? .. i think you've been dumped
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Apr 15 2005, 10:26 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
sorry... but you were dumped. all he said was an excuse, and "then we can start up again sometime later" is probably to make you feel better.
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Apr 15 2005, 10:55 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Apr 16 2005, 4:12 AM) Its a break that will lead to a break up. Sorry but move on. i agree. cuz there's always the possibility that you wont get back together. |
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Apr 16 2005, 08:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
QUOTE(punkymoke @ Apr 14 2005, 10:57 PM) he said he needs time to reacess his priorities.... get more focused on God... then we can start up again sometime later. have i been dumped or is it an actual break.... dumped break up basicly the same thing hmmm sounds to me that you should let him go ...... .:tonY:. |
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Apr 16 2005, 11:31 AM
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depends on how much you can trust him
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Apr 16 2005, 11:36 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
let him go.
he dumped you, and you must get over him. |
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Apr 16 2005, 02:49 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
i say he dumped u.
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